Can anyone explain my erection difficulties?
Q. Hi, I am 20years old male, I have a serious issue which has started recently like 5months ago, The problem is that my penis stands up in the start such as in the foreplay but right after some time it goes down and then does not stand up. And I ...
A. 18 December 2009: Stop watching porn and don't masturbate for a few weeks. Then see...... (read in full...)
How can I make things right again for us, the way it was at the beginning?
Q. Hi, I'll try to make this short. Me and my ex dated for 2 1/2 years, we lived together for the last year. I loved her with all my heart and so did she. She broke up with me when our lease was up, about 2 months after she turned 21, (I'm 23). She ...
A. 18 December 2009: I found myself in a similar situation and the cost was too high. It was all my effort and she would provide none.
I still think about her constantly, but I've realized my fond memories are of her when she was so into me that we both were putting ... (read in full...)
His temper is freaking me out more and more!
Q. My Common law husband and I are expecting a baby in June. Recently his temper has been freaking me out more and more, I guess because I'm pregnant and I'm afraid of my child experiencing it. He is especially insane when he drinks which is often, h...
A. 17 December 2009: lithium Carbonate. ... (read in full...)
I broke contact with my best friend, and now I want to know how to get what I had with her, with my girlfriend!
Q. I broke off contact with my best friend because she and I were getting way too close. I used to really enjoy the catch-up emails we would send to each other filled with witty banter to one another. There was much to say since we didn't see each ...
A. 17 December 2009: Invest all that energy you wasted on some other girl on your girlfriend. In time it will pay off (if you love her).... (read in full...)
Should I keep in contact with my ex or not?
Q. me and my boyfriend had dated for almost a year and just brock up last month. well we seem to keep going back to each kissing and even having sex. and i just started liking this guy and not sure what to do. my ex is still talking to me everyday and ...
A. 17 December 2009: Frankly, both of your guys are fools for putting up with an indecisive woman. There's no loyalty to either, so how could there ever be trust?... (read in full...)
How can I make things right again for us, the way it was at the beginning?
Q. Hi, I'll try to make this short. Me and my ex dated for 2 1/2 years, we lived together for the last year. I loved her with all my heart and so did she. She broke up with me when our lease was up, about 2 months after she turned 21, (I'm 23). She ...
A. 17 December 2009: Things will never be the same as they were in the beginning. If you can both accept that, then there's a chance. If you can compromise, which takes effort on both sides, about the things that you dislike about one another, then you can enjoy one ... (read in full...)
How much do guys think about sex?
Q. Hi, I've had a question on my mind for some time now. I was wondering how much do guys really think about sex? I've heard from some of my guy friends that they think about it all the time. Is that true? How much of your time is spent thinking about ...
A. 17 December 2009: How much do you think about sex? There's your answer.
Guys just think about it more viscerally whereas women think about it emotionally.... (read in full...)
He worries I wont 'get over him' so we cant even be friends!
Q. long story short, long distance thing, never met, but knew eachother from a friend, talked for 4-5 months (not every day) but wen we did talk it would be for 6 hours straight (like once a wk) and maybe a few minutes everyday) Got along real well, ...
A. 17 December 2009: Let him make contact. No contact gives you control. Moving on gives you even more. Improve you friendships with your other friends--they are physicaly available.
He probably realized it's unhealthy to carry on a relaionship with someone he hasn'... (read in full...)
No contact since Monday night, what's up with him.
Q. Alright, well I met a guy online. We have been talking back and forth for about a month. This has involved texting, emailing, and talking on the phone. We had made plans to do something this past Sunday together. Unfortunately, Sunday morning I ...
A. 17 December 2009: It's only been one day. Maybe his phone is dead. Maybe he left it somewhere. Maybe he's busy. He will get ahold of you when he can--if he's going to.
If he hasn't responded after a week, something's wrong, and move on.... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 14 December 2009: To the prior 2 responders:
I consider every bit of advice, I weigh my options, and I pick and choose whatever seems most applicable--that's the whole point of an advice website. Why else would one person be interested in the advice of multiple... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 14 December 2009: Looks like I caught her at the other guy's again (after she lied to me about staying at her parents' tonight)...
How do I confront her, and what do I say?... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 14 December 2009: So, she finally came around and we had a serious talk. Turns out she spent nights at the guy she cheated on me with because she was snowed into work (blizzard)...hmmmm. She suddenly seems much more willing to be affectionate and to try to ... (read in full...)
My girl is sexually selfish!
Q. It always atarts off that we have fool around really wild and dirty, then she wants me to eat her out, she comes, and afterwards, she won't get me off; she's suddenly "too tired," or if she "tries" she will complain about how tired she is, how much ...
A. 14 December 2009: She says that I just need to wait until she's not tired so she can focus--but she's always tired. When I proposed that her and my non-reciprocal arrangement seemed unfair she accused me of being sexually obsessed and said that if we had to even talk ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 11 December 2009: So, she wanted to get back together (as I said before) but wouldnt kiss me, then one night she came over and wanted sex. I told her I only have sex if I am in a serious relationship because I'm not a skeez. she agreed we were, we kissed, etc. That ... (read in full...)
She fulfills my fantasies but wont be my girl!
Q. We were together for 4 years. I see her frequently. It seems like we're dating again exclusively, but she "doesn't want a boyfriend right now." So, she started talking dirty to me one night, and we got into it. It was weird at first, so I stopped. ...
A. 3 December 2009: Yes, but how do I turn this back into a relationship?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend slapped me... what should I do for him to forgive me?
Q. What should i do my boyfriend slapped me? What should i do for him to forgive me? me and my boyfriend got in a big argument about where we will spend thanksgiving and i said a few things and kicked him where it would hurt the most.. cause he was p...
A. 26 November 2009: If you think he will EVER hit you again, stop talking to him. period. If you REALLY just pissed him off, and he's an immature little punk (judging from your age it seems possible), TALK TO HIM about what happenned, and why it must never happen aga... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 26 November 2009: Carebear, It's tough to say if she's ended things with him entirely; She works with him. When I was at her place last I did notice that she had taken some of her posessions back from his apartment. She probably still talks to him at the very lea... (read in full...)
My husband has developed feelings for another woman and I don't know how to handle it...
Q. me and my husband have been married for 3 and 1/2 years and recently he realized that he has feelings for another woman. I'm in a battle for him with her. My friends tell me to go but my heart tells me to stay cuz he will pick me, what do u think I ...
A. 26 November 2009: What happened in your marriage to push him towards another woman? ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 26 November 2009: I went out to help her replace a burned out headlight last night. I told her that for my sake we needed to just stop talking to one another if things were going to be as they have been. No calls. No contact, period. I Have enough stress as it is and ... (read in full...)
How should I react to him saying "I love you"?
Q. I've been speaking to this guy since June/July, and we're getting along really really well. He's really nice and all that, but the only thing is that he keeps saying 'I love you', and not just in the friend way. He really thinks that he loves me. N...
A. 23 November 2009: tell him you love him once and see if you really feel it when you say it.
if you don't then don't say it again, or qualify it: "i love spending time with you too," or "i love you too, but i'm just not in love with you--yet!"... (read in full...)
Her boyfriends a jerk but she won't leave him.
Q. I have a friend who is quite frankly becoming a bit pathetic. She's been dating this guy for four years and he is so toxic it's unbelievable. He cheats on her like it's his job and he's just the biggest creep ever. Worst of all he hits on her ...
A. 23 November 2009: well, first and foremost, this is about her, not you, so i would be hesitant to do anything aside from comfort her, listen, and be a good friend. that's what she needs from you right now. the better a friend you are to her, meaning the more time you ... (read in full...)
Why does my fiance keep hiding the fact that he's been in touch with his ex wife?
Q. Hi, I am getting married soon to a man whom I love very much. He is older than me, but it does not affect us. My problem is his ex-wife. He has always been a little quiet about what went on with them. Doesnt say much. I have a problem with him...
A. 23 November 2009: he's keeping it from you because he knows he's doing something wrong. if he were in the right he would tell you. beware of this sort of behavior--if you don't check him he will be sneakier in the future. tell him sound relationships are built on ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he want me to meet her?
Q. Also, he has a female friend which I have no problem with. But, he has never introduced me to her. He talks to her frequently and says that she is her friend. But, has not found the need to introduce her to me. He said that his ex wife was ...
A. 23 November 2009: He knows you'll be able to tell that there's something going on. They may not be intimate, but one of the two has feelings, and the other enjoys the flattery/control. Maybe both have feelings, but if they did they would probably be together. Either ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 23 November 2009: I loved the woman and spent every day with her for 4 years. How has she changed from an honest woman into a dishonest indecisive one? I am so confused.... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 23 November 2009: Frankly, I'm kind of starting to see that maybe she can't be trusted. She snuck around behind my back--she snuck around behind his back--why wouldn't she sneak around again? I can hardly believe her when she says she's not seeing him anymore because ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 21 November 2009: Well, she tried to dick me around yesterday when we were supposed to hang out at 2. I didn't care too much though because I had plenty of domestic chores to do, and I know it's her only day off from her tiring manual labor job. She called every ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 20 November 2009: Still no reply. I don't understand why she's ignoring me. She could at least call to reassure me or tell me she's changed her mind. . . ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 19 November 2009: Day: No calls and she does not call me back. . .... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 19 November 2009: She's been avoiding my phone calls all day. She normally calls at least once. She has been at work though--with her rebound. Let's see how this pans out. Maybe she's breaking up with him. Maybe she's not. Maybe it's not as easy as I wish. this could ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 18 November 2009: So, I put her to the decision: told her I didn't think it was right for me and her to talk the way we've been since she's got a boyfriend. She told me she was "pretty sure" she wanted to be with me, was going to break up with him, etc. She wanted to ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 16 November 2009: duce00,
Does your response equate to "be a distant friend of hers so she can watch you move on and subsequently go crazy"? Sound argument--but I want to know how to make her want me back. I think you may be on to something though--would you care... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 15 November 2009: First, thanks for the advice--everyone--this forum is incredibly helpful.
Next time I speak with her I am going to put her to a choice. I am going to tell her I love her and that I want to be with her, but since she has a boyfriend it hurts to... (read in full...)
My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?
Q. I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...
A. 15 November 2009: Wiccanrain, you input has been helpful to me. I wanted to let you know that I've started a new thread for this same issue--much updated--and would appreciate your support as well. here's a link: ... (read in full...)
Niece gave me BJ while sleeping
Q. I went to visit my sister while i was driving thru calif. We had a BBQ and lots of drinks. Well around midnight i went to bed and passed out. About 3 am i was woken up to a really good blow job but the lights were off. I was thinking it was one of ...
A. 15 November 2009: How old is the niece? What is your relationship with her like? How did you react? What was her response?... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 14 November 2009: We have dinner together last night and spent the whole day together. We had lunch together the previous day. Today we had lunch together also. I'm seeing her quite a bit, and she calls frequently (every day or more). When we are together it is ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 12 November 2009: So, I gave her a few days of no call/ no contact. She called me crying last night because she "wants to be with me," but she's "scared, and doesn't trust it." She also said if I loved her as much as I said I did I'd have waited for her longer ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my boyfriend about my ex raping me?
Q. Should I tell my bf, that my ex bf raped me during my relationship with my ex? I dont know if I should tell him or not. I am afraid of how he will react. At the same time, I also believe that because we are partners we should tell each other ...
A. 11 November 2009: This depends on whether or not its forcible rape, or if you just drank too much and want to call it "rape." You should REALLY tell him either way, but the approach would be much different depending...... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 11 November 2009: I have tried to give it time--months even, but it seems these months just allowed her new relationship to become more serious. It seems she wants to be with this other guy but still wants me to chase her. She lies to this guy about talking to and ... (read in full...)
How to steal my ex back from rebound?
Q. My ex and I still talk frequently (almost every day, or more). How do I steal her back from her rebound boyfriend? ...
A. 10 November 2009: Well, here the context: we dated for 4 years and loved each other immensely. I have bipolar disorder, quit taking meds (lost insurance), had a bad manic episode in which i did questionable things, and scared her off. Now I am medicated and I want ... (read in full...)
What do I need to do to show her we should be together?
Q. My ex (4 years together--a few months apart) and I have been seeing one another again and speaking frequently. She has a new BF, but I love her and want her back. She knows this. Our breakup was due to my bipolar disorder, but I am well now. My ex ...
A. 8 November 2009: Should I start seeing someone else? there is another girl who is quite fond of me, but my ex got angry when I told her.... (read in full...)
My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?
Q. I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...
A. 8 November 2009: I've went out with her for some drinks last night. We had a good time together. She won't tell her boyfriend we've been hanging out and talking, and I told her that made me feel uncomfortable so I suggested she tell him. She tells me she needs time ... (read in full...)
My mental illness broke us up, and I want her back! do I have a chance? Is there a way?
Q. I Dated my ex, the love of my life (I am sure)for 4 years, but my bipolar disorder (diagnosed) ruined our relationship (paranoia, delusions, rage, hypersexuality, and general mania). I am now medicated (lithium), and well. She has a new boyfriend, ...
A. 3 November 2009: The (untreated) bipolar already did mess things up, so how can I prove that it won't again (treated)? I made wild accusations based on delusions, and I directed a frightening rage towards her. I feel awful.... (read in full...)
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