I have a crush on a married parent whose child attends the same school as mine.
Q. So I have a crush on a married parent who's child goes to the same school as mine. I am happily married (9yrs) to a wonderful and good looking guy who has changed for the better ever since we got married so this intense crush is kind of strange to ...
A. 8 June 2011: Anonymous, Would you consider creating an account and find me on this site, so we can compare notes? Emilynk, Will you say something to him? Or will you let it go? ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is smoking weed everyday....Help!
Q. Ok so I have been with my boyfriend for nearly 3 years, I could not ever picture my life without him but for the past couple months/weeks he has been smoking weed/grass near enough every single day.. Every time he talks to me (texting) or even when ...
A. 8 June 2011: If you love this guy, you SHOULD try to save him. Tell him straight up. I love you, what you are doing is really hurting yourself, and our relationship. You are going down a path that is very difficult to return from. You are at a crossroad. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to get a mistress to do the sexual things that I can't do!
Q. My boyfriend wants me to squirt or give him a golden shower, but despite my best efforts I can't do either. He now wants to get a 'mistress' that can do these things. I know what ur all thinking 'get rid of him and find someone that loves me etc' ...
A. 8 June 2011: I am not sure why you asked the question if you feel that we are being to harsh on him. You must have some inkling that something isn't right here, or you would not have come here and asked what to do. I certainly don't know him and cannot judge... (read in full...)
He's 15 years older, went through this age gap thing before, what should I do??
Q. Hi aunts and uncles ofcourse :) For 4 years I was with a man 17 years older than me, from the age of 16 until I was 20. I decided to end the relationship because it had ran it's course and i knew it would never be more than what it was.. I guess...
A. 8 June 2011: If you are younger than 18, and selected the wrong age here, I say forget this guy. I have to wonder about this because of your mention of your father.
Otherwise, if you are 22+, and you enjoy your time with this guy, just go with it. Why depr... (read in full...)
I'm going to be living with her next year and I want to tell her how I feel, but I don't want it to become awkward.....plus she has a boyfriend!
Q. I'm not sure what to do about a girl i like, it's quite complicated but i'll try to keep it short. I'm at university and have been for a year, there's a girl i really like, we're pretty close friends and i'm living in the same flat as her next...
A. 8 June 2011: I disagree with the first two posters. The reason I disagree is because she has shown you affection in the past.
You are going to lose your mind living with her anyway. So if telling her how you feel messes up the living arrangements, its prob... (read in full...)
Husband with my friend he cheated with, our son doesn't want to go with his dad now and I'm a mess!
Q. I am such a mess, how am I going to get through this, I can't stop crying, I just want the pain to go away, how am I going to cope? Long story short, my husband cheated on me with my friend 3 months ago, he is in a relationship with her and living w...
A. 8 June 2011: My heart is out to you. I know the pain seems unbearable. All I can say to you is hold on, it will get better. You may have already done this, but you need a support group. Try the churches in the area. They may have divorce groups that meet. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants to get a mistress to do the sexual things that I can't do!
Q. My boyfriend wants me to squirt or give him a golden shower, but despite my best efforts I can't do either. He now wants to get a 'mistress' that can do these things. I know what ur all thinking 'get rid of him and find someone that loves me etc' ...
A. 8 June 2011: No way. No mistress. That's a powder keg waiting to go off. If you are worried that he will leave you unless you comply, well then you should already have your answer. He isn't in it for you, he's in it for sex with you.
Is that how the 'one... (read in full...)
Can a man really be too sore for some "morning loving" after an evening of sex?
Q. So last night me and my boyfriend (together a few months) had a date, came back to mine ended up in bed and had some really great sex. Super! This morning when we woke up I was still feeling horny and started nuzzling in, stroking him and being af...
A. 8 June 2011: Mr toyboy hit it correctly with the first response. Sometimes it just hurts, and trust me that last thing you want him to do is associate pain with a blow job.
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My girlfriend cheated on me twice within our seven year relationship, I'm disgusted and hurt, but I love her so much. Should I forgive her?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend of seven years. After we got engaged she started acting weird and then finally about a week ago, she confessed something to me. She admitted on to having an affair four years ago that lasted for more than a year. ...
A. 8 June 2011: Well, the best thing to do is to cut ties. But if you are having that much trouble, end the engagement first. Then move on to getting her out of your life. Focus on your business for awhile. Distract yourself. I'm distracting myself from my o... (read in full...)
Is this a sign that my best friend (female) really likes me as more than a friend?
Q. Weird one, would just like your take on it. Best friend is female, few years younger. We spend a lot of time together, like a lot of time. People often think we're a couple but we're not. Mutual friends used to think she liked me but she denie...
A. 8 June 2011: I find it strange your friend would invite the two of you together. In the end, our mates our often our best friends in the world.
Do your friends think you two should be together? Why? I think your friend was offended because the bride to be w... (read in full...)
Men, would you consider marrying someone with no sexual experience?
Q. The question that I am going to ask get asked a lot, but this question is aimed at men particularly. When it comes to a future spouse no one wants marry a women that has lived a promiscuous lifestyle in the past. Would you marry a girl that never ...
A. 7 June 2011: OP - No, I don't think it would. But everyone has different values. I don't understand the need for her to be untouched. But to some people that seems to be very important. ... (read in full...)
We spend a lot of time with another married couple and I'm falling for the other husband.....what should I do now?
Q. I am married with 2 kids. The past year we met another married couple and have really hit it off with them and been partying most every weekend together. Well the other husband was very flirty with me in the beginning, sometimes hugging me a bit too ...
A. 7 June 2011: Wow- On the one hand I say, you get what you get when you play with fire. However, at the end there you mention how frustrated you are in your marriage with the sex, and in the end, this is what your question is about. I see it this way, because I ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated on me twice within our seven year relationship, I'm disgusted and hurt, but I love her so much. Should I forgive her?
Q. I recently proposed to my girlfriend of seven years. After we got engaged she started acting weird and then finally about a week ago, she confessed something to me. She admitted on to having an affair four years ago that lasted for more than a year. ...
A. 7 June 2011: I'm sorry buddy, this has got to be painful.
The flags are everywhere. I think you should move on. She has already betrayed you twice. Fool me once...
I think you need to realize that the relationship has been severely damaged.
Yo... (read in full...)
Is he sincere?
Q. I have been with my 42yesr old boyfriend for 4 months, and we are living together, I'm 39. We are in love and plan to have a family and marry at some point (hopefully) Recently I have been having some doubts about his sincerity, and caught him l...
A. 7 June 2011: Red Flag.
He may have been into the porn thing before he met you, but lying about it is more serious in my opinion.
How will you ever trust him? If he can lie about this what else can he lie about?
I have zero tolerance for lies, exce... (read in full...)
I just get the feeling that I give give give, and get nothing in return.
Q. Hello. Recently i have been unhappy. I keep thinking maybe i am just being stupid, melodramatic, and childish. But i cannot shake the feeling that i don't mean anything to anyone. I am an only child, so loneliness is always a factor but its n...
A. 7 June 2011: I have a few suggestions for you:
1. Find the man you dumped and tell him what you told us. Maybe you can get him back.
2. Move past your father somehow. If you depend on him financially, it sounds like he is using this to control you. Yo... (read in full...)
Lets talk about sex.....My curiousity has gotten me to finally ask the following
Q. I'm curious....; What is the big deal with anal sex? Guys: Does it feel better than the natural way? If yes or no please explain! Can you tell by the way a woman looks in that area if she has or has not been active in that way? I heard some me...
A. 7 June 2011: In answer to your question to the men:
Yes I like to be licked there, but only if I've had a shower just prior.
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Am I reading too much into his behaviour or is something going on with someone on his team?
Q. I live in the States and my husband is part of the national fire team. Every summer he goes out with the "team" to manage and fight forest fires. Has anyone else had any experience with this; meaning if there are romances that go on within team ...
A. 7 June 2011: Based on what I know from what you have posted, it sounds like he may be losing interest in your relationship, but I don't think it follows that he is having an affair.
Here is something to consider. Do you have peeves about each other? Does he... (read in full...)
Daughter wants to inroduce grandaughter to her father. I am against this. Am I being overprotective?
Q. My Granddaughter has writing letter to her father,she has not seen her father since last year. SHe is only 5. My daughter wants to take her to see him, but I against because.I think this man will only emotionally hurt my little granddaughter.I just ...
A. 7 June 2011: I agree with CindyCares, except in cases where the Daughter has her own personal issues that prevent her from being a good mother.
Examples include: Drug/Alcohol abuse, Mental disorders which impair parental judgment.
I think if that we... (read in full...)
Fiance picking porn over me. Why is this?
Q. So my finace hasent had sex with me in 4 months. I catch him allthe time watching porn getting off but he wont sleep with me. He saids hes just not in the mood,before wr had sex a few times a day. Then I had a baby and in went to once a week now ...
A. 7 June 2011: There is definitely a change in the sex drive for many men after a newborn. I'm not sure forcing the issue is going to make things better for you.
You have to make him desire you again without trying to hard.
You should definitely tell ... (read in full...)
To all the men, is that fact that I don't have or don't want any children off putting?
Q. To the men out there, please be brutally honest: If you were single and looking, and met a woman who was in her mid 30s and had no children and claimed to not want any, would you think she was a loser/mentally ill? I ask because I have zero desire...
A. 6 June 2011: It really depends on the guy. It seems you know yourself well enough to know you don't want to be, or wouldn't be a good mom. That's admirable. Don't compromise on it.
For me, I would have moved on when I was looking, because I knew I wanted k... (read in full...)
I want to ask him out, but I know he's broke
Q. I'm not sure what to do. I recently met this guy, and i want to ask him about going on our first date. He said he might be able to meet this Wednesday, but he hasn't had much money lately. I feel funny about asking him about going out since he ...
A. 6 June 2011: Chances are if this guy is interested in you, he is a wreck about being broke. You need to find a classy way to let him know that you don't care. If you are going to ask him out, ask him somewhere that doesn't cost money. Go to a park, or for ... (read in full...)
I've been in love with this woman for the last 8 years of my life while she's been trying to figure out what she wants...
Q. Alright. I feel that the more details I provide, the better my situation will be understood. So, this will probably be quite lengthy and I thank in advance anyone who takes the time to read it. So, I met this girl when I was 19 and we s...
A. 6 June 2011: I like Abella's answer. It's now or NEVER. You must go sweep her off her feet and stop worrying about rejection.
It sounds like there is some true love going on there between the two of you.
I had a bit of a laugh, not at your expense, bu... (read in full...)
Why is it difficult to become a hotter man?
Q. How women out there, It's a bit of a mystery to me how to become a sexier guy. Do guys have to accept that it's a fact that, unless you're good looking and famous, you will only ever be hot in a niche kind of way (can't be hot to the majority)? ...
A. 6 June 2011: You can't change how you look, beyond what you can achieve in a gym. Just like you do with women, women are going to have an initial attraction to 'hot' guys.
However, luckily for us guys, women tend to find a lot more things about guys as 'hot'... (read in full...)
I betrayed the trust of my boyfriend in the bedroom. How can I find his forgiveness?
Q. My boyfriend and I of 2 years have been experimenting in the bedroom over the past few months. We started with him, at my request, being more and more aggressive with me, i.e., holding me down. Then I asked for him to tie me up, which after a lot of ...
A. 6 June 2011: Well, I see the problem you have like this...
The thing that drove you to orgasm was disrespecting his plea for you to stop and being in control. This is what likely drove you over the top, IMHO.
The idea of using him while he is powerless, th... (read in full...)
After a woman has had many lovers, can she give herself to one man completely??
Q. I posted a question with the title : Can a woman give herself completely to a new love, despite having had many lovers in her past? The question is copied below and the update below that, I realized that the issue is she does not make me feel lik...
A. 6 June 2011: Sir, I admit I stopped reading your post about half way through.
Here is what I would say to you. First off, you need to become more secure with yourself before you can commit to anyone. You need to believe someone can be faithful to you.
... (read in full...)
Men, would you consider marrying someone with no sexual experience?
Q. The question that I am going to ask get asked a lot, but this question is aimed at men particularly. When it comes to a future spouse no one wants marry a women that has lived a promiscuous lifestyle in the past. Would you marry a girl that never ...
A. 6 June 2011: I wouldn't get married if you are basing your decision on sex. Period.
I am not sure what you are asking here. Are you saying you would not want to be with a woman who won't have oral or anal sex with you?
If you love each other enough, an... (read in full...)
How do guys fancy a girl who they don't know much about?
Q. I'm interested to know how guys can fancy a girl without knowing much about her or her interests. I know there's physical attraction, but i'm talking about them actually being attracted and fancying you as a person... Because a few of the guys ...
A. 6 June 2011: Men can fall for hard for a woman they don't know much about based on many things. Yes, sometimes it is simply a physical attraction, but if you have had small conversations with a guy, some men might feel an intuition about the type of person you ... (read in full...)
G/f can't cum during sex
Q. I can't make my fiance come during the intercourse. We do it in missionary mostly and I try to touch her clit during action but she says that it does not work during intercourse. Therefore she takes away my hand whenever I touch her there during ...
A. 5 June 2011: I think you should investigate a book called The Tao of Love and Sex. This book alone won't 'solve your problems' but skim through it and take what you need from it, and use it as a starting point to investigate some of its suggestions further. ... (read in full...)
How do I rid myself of the pain because of a selfish person?
Q. Hi,can anyone offer me good advice on how to rid yourself of the pain,hurt and anger you feel towards someone you loved deeply as they ended your relationship because they are plain and simply selfish...
A. 5 June 2011: The pain you feel at your age is very difficult to deal with. I completely understand it. I would plead with you to try and do something positive with the pain. I know that is hard to understand at age 16, but it is really easy to fall int... (read in full...)
Do I have a sign that says "Lesbian" or something?
Q. Hi, first of all, my profile is incorect, my age is 24 :). Ok, so I've noticed that way more girls seem to get interested in me than guys, and since I feel safer around women or men, I'm more likely to be friendly, which makes them more likely...
A. 5 June 2011: I think you should ask the next girl that hits on you why she thought you would be receptive to that.
Is it the crowd you hang with? Do you live in an area with many bi/gay people?
I am pretty clueless about gay culture, but maybe you ha... (read in full...)
I don't want to get involved in his custody issues. But should I be concerned about his drinking and his custody issues if he is to be my Bf?
Q. I have been seeing a man for one year following the break up of my only other long term relationship. We don’t see each other every week because we live some distance apart. I am wondering how much I should concern myself with what, to me, is a...
A. 5 June 2011: Run away from this situation, and don't look book. You don't need to 'figure out' what's going on. You've already presented enough information in your post to make the right decision.
... (read in full...)
My friends played a practical joke which really hurt me!
Q. okay. my best friend and her boyfriend played a joke on me and all my friends. my best friend comes to me and say he broke up with her. she acted so real. i was close to tears because i care about her so much. after a day he tells me it was a joke. ...
A. 5 June 2011: I have to say to you. A "BEST" friend doesn't inflict that kind of pain on someone.
I think you should re-evaluate your friendships. I'm not suggesting you cut contact with your friends, but think hard about their place in your life and the ... (read in full...)
My gf is fat and its affecting both her and myself. How can we overcome this?
Q. i saw this girl on my first day in coll... i studied in a boys school.. so jus like that i started liking her... we spoke to each other... and we got into a relationship 7 months later.. now am one year into that relationship... she loves me too ...
A. 5 June 2011: First off. You need to figure out why you are with this girl. Are you taking pity on her? If you REALLY love her, then you need to GET OVER what other people think and start sticking up for her. All that said, here is some other food for thought... (read in full...)
I Don't appreciate family's racist remarks. How can I deal with this?
Q. Hi Aunts and Uncles, So, here's my problem. I'm of white-Asian heritage and my (white) father's family is racist. In the past, they've made derogatory remarks about my "dark" features, and tend to make a lot of negative generalizations about As...
A. 5 June 2011: I don't think you should let loose on your family. I think you should tell them exactly what it is they have said that has offended you. Explain why it hurts you. I think if you convince them to see your pain from their remarks, their behavior ... (read in full...)
We're planning to get married, but he wouldn't put me up for a few nights??
Q. I need help! I have been dating my boyfriend for a year and a half. I'm 25 and he's 32. Recently, we have been looking a houses and setting plans (in the belief that we would be getting married in the near future). We went ring shopping almost a ...
A. 5 June 2011: There is a very small chance he had a good reason, but I agree he should have shared it with you. It sounds like he may have been getting cold feet and rather than deal with it consciously, he created an opportunity to let the relationship fall ... (read in full...)
Love stinks! Why can't I get over this guy?
Q. How do you get over a broken heart? I have tried every suggestion that there is out there, but still I am just so empty feeling inside.I cant even hear this guys name or it makes me cry. My goodness when does it end? it's been 5 months and we were ...
A. 5 June 2011: Love is unfair and can stink for sure. A relationship expert recently told me it can take 1-2 years to recover from the loss of love. Good luck. ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a married parent whose child attends the same school as mine.
Q. So I have a crush on a married parent who's child goes to the same school as mine. I am happily married (9yrs) to a wonderful and good looking guy who has changed for the better ever since we got married so this intense crush is kind of strange to ...
A. 5 June 2011: Have I experienced this? Almost exactly this. And I have yet to recover from it. In fact I come to this site as therapy for myself. Giving my 2 cents to others helps me process what has happened to me. It has been devastating to me. My advice... (read in full...)
My husband claims that he loves me and I am the best thing that has happend to him but why don't I feel that way?
Q. Ok I am asking anyone please I need some good advice, I would really like for some men to respond as well, ok so here is my problem, my husband does not take the time to do anything wit me, im always the one who always telling him lets do this or ...
A. 5 June 2011: Hmm. It sounds like he is in a bit of a rut and is taking you for granted. This is a really tough one. You might want to consider letting him take care of himself for awhile and see how that plays out. Let him do the laundry, cook, clean etc. If ... (read in full...)
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