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writes:okay. my best friend and her boyfriend played a joke on me and all my friends. my best friend comes to me and say he broke up with her. she acted so real. i was close to tears because i care about her so much. after a day he tells me it was a joke. i call my best friend and im in tears because i cant believe what she did. shes on the other end laughing so hard. and like i was upset because of the way she played us into that joke. and it really hurt you know comming from my bestfriend. so i told her i was hurt. give me a few days to calm down im upset. and im upset and my other friends are treating me like shit, making me feel like i should just die becase im upset with my bestfriend. like theyre saying all this mean stuff making me feel worthless. i dont wanna force myself into talkin to my bestfriend if im not ready. but my other friends ive asked countless times to please dont say that or please stop your hurtig me and none of thats true. i know that sounds too nice but i have anger problems and i try to walk away before i get angry. but my friend ive asked them so nice and everyones buggin me making me feel worthless. i dont wanna end up losing all my friends but im sick of getting hurt. i dont know what else to do.
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reader, N91 +, writes (14 June 2011):
 I'm sorry but I don't really get why this hurt you so much?
Even if they really did break up, it's not like you're the one losing the bf, I don't really understand...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys! and im not really sure. i think i took it personally because it was my bestfriend ya know. and its like it was worth nothing like nthing mattered
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 Pretty tasteless joke, but why are you taking it so personally?
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reader, freeme  +, writes (5 June 2011):
 I have to say to you. A "BEST" friend doesn't inflict that kind of pain on someone.
I think you should re-evaluate your friendships. I'm not suggesting you cut contact with your friends, but think hard about their place in your life and the amount of compassion and friendship they deserve from you.
Friends don't hurt each other, especially for fun. Good Luck.
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