I'm not scared..but I still stop it, why?
Q. Heey:) I'm 13 and the other day I had a boy round my house, and we were bored so he wanted to play nervous, a game were you touch eachother in certain parts, and he went up my shorts and in my nickers then I stopped him before he could do anything...
A. 28 February 2011: Hey hun.
Firstly it is simply because you are just not ready for that sort of thing yet. It is a big and nerve racking step to be touched 'down there'. You have to be confident with yourself first and then you have to make sure you feel ready, y... (read in full...)
Is flirting online a form of cheating?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years. Our arguments have always been about him flirting with women on Facebook or MySpace. Is that considered cheating if hes flirting online and he tells women he's single? ...
A. 24 February 2011: Yes. If he's willing to tell them he is single, then it is classed as a form of cheating. Even though he's not cheating physically, he is hurting you. He should be telling these women to back off because he's with you, but instead he's chatting them ... (read in full...)
Should I attempt to get my ex back, even though he's married and I was the one who left him?
Q. I left my ex husband/bf (we lived together as husband and wife for 7yrs but we weren't married)for another guy just because I got bored with the relationship. He was totally heartbroken when I left. We were eachother's first true love. I met him ...
A. 24 February 2011: Stop what you are doing and leave him alone hunny. You had your chance to be with this man and you pretty much fucked it, so he moved on. Like you said he waited 4 years for you, and where were you then?
Why didn't you go back when he wasn't d... (read in full...)
I don't want to be gay!!
Q. I am a Baptist Christian guy. I know the Bible prohibits homosexuality, or bisexuality etc. But I feel attracted to mens bodies. It's not like I love men. It's lust. And with girls I'm not attracted to their bodies as much but I love them for who ...
A. 24 February 2011: I'm afraid once you turn gay then there is no way you can turn straight again. You can't control it either. If you are gay then you'll have to accept that it's who you are. Maybe you're just a little bit confused. It's sounds to me that the way you ... (read in full...)
Is it bad to be scared about 1st time sex?
Q. Ohkkay im 16 and my boyfriend wants meh too have sex. I have to say i wanna too buhh he will be my first and im really scared too? Is that bad?...
A. 24 February 2011: This isn't bad don't worry it's completely normal. Showing your bodies & exploring them is a new & big step. You just have to make sure you are ready.xxx... (read in full...)
I overheard my boyfriend bragging to his friend about using me for sex and then breaking up!!
Q. hi everybody I've been crying my eyes out all day because when I was walked into the passway leading to my boyfriend's dorm room I overheard him bragging and giving high fives to his roommate about how he was going to break up with me after he ...
A. 24 February 2011: Woah Woah Woaaaaah Sweetie.. calm down. Just take a deep breath, I will help you. First of all, this kid is a slimeball. He doesn't care about your feelings hunny, he just wanted to sleep with you I'm afraid. But why get yourself down about ... (read in full...)
He drunk dialled me one night. Should I mention it to him or just let it go?
Q. So this actually happened a couple weeks ago, but it's still on my mind. One of my friends who I went to middle school with drunk dialed me one night (with texts). He really expressed his feelings, and that was the second time he's done that. He ...
A. 24 February 2011: Hello sweetie.
Yes, I think you should let it go. If he's too scared to say it when he's sober as he is drunk, then is he really worth it? I know some people say 'drunk people speak the truth', but this guy hasn't even got the guts to tell you... (read in full...)
How can he go home and not feel guilty after being with me?
Q. I just wonder why a man doesn't feel bad when he is cheating on his wife? I have been with a married man recently who claims he has no problems in his marriage, but he chooses to sleep with me. I know what some of you will say about me, but my ...
A. 24 February 2011: You both don't understand what you are doing to this poor woman. She'll be crushed when she finds out... She's human and she does have feelings. Anyway, sounds to me like he thinks hes a right stud muffin. He gets bored of his wife, comes to you. ... (read in full...)
How to get along with boyfriend's little sister?
Q. Me and my bf we've been together for almost 9 months now. We're both 18 this year. I have met his 22 year-old older sister (lesbian), 10 year-old little sister and his mother. How do I get along with his little sister? One thing for sure is he's ...
A. 24 February 2011: Just take her interests and embrace them. Get your ideas from there. Maybe both sit down and watch a Disney film and talk about who your favourite character is? Play games with her like her brother did and tell her 'I bet I'm better than you AND ... (read in full...)
Should I block him on Facebook and move on...????
Q. Hi guys, I really need some advice. I met a guy a couple of months back, we started seeing each other until a couple of weeks ago. He is in the military and based 400 miles away. He did not want to have a long distance relationship as he thought ...
A. 24 February 2011: Move on girl. It's not fair for you, you have a life that you need to get on with. It's sad when two people who love eachother are apart, but you can't keep hurting yourself like this. Your life can't consist of waiting for him to write anymore, ... (read in full...)
I don't want to ruin what we have already but I really want to be with her.
Q. First of all, I am 16 and male. I fell for my best friend(girl). We have been best friends forever but whenever i am with her now, i love it and when im not, I cant stop thinking about her and sometimes just feel like crap cause i am not with her. ...
A. 24 February 2011: Well the problem with this is if you got with this girl, then (for whatever daft reason) it didn't work out,you'd have to accept the risk of your friendship not being the same again. However, sometimes breaking up (for some people) can make them ... (read in full...)
Help, what is wrong with me?
Q. My brother's older mate said I could use his account to ask a question quick just to clarify... I'm 15, gay and out and I find it hard to put myself out there to find a boyfriend since I broke up with my ex. Not sure if this is relevent b...
A. 24 February 2011: There is nothing wrong with you and nothing wrong with coming to terms with yourself. You have yet to figure out who you actually are, and embrace that. And let everyone else accept it too. Don't go into anything that could turn out serious until ... (read in full...)
Is it okay that he's going swimming with other girls?
Q. Just a general question Is it okay for me to feel a bit insecure about my boyfriend going swimming with other girls? Say 5 girls, 3 boys. Im not too sure why im bothered about it seeing as i dont believe anything would happen at all. Just make...
A. 24 February 2011: Yepppppp don't worry it's normal to feel insecure. But it's not like he's going with just 1 girl. Boys are going too. Learn to trust him a bit more xx... (read in full...)
Did I only want him when I couldnt have him, and now we are back together I don't want him again?
Q. Please help. i was in a relationship with a guy about a year ago and he broke up with me but i wasn't ready to split with him so i spent most of last year wishing i had him back. i thought i was heart broken. in the last few months we became really ...
A. 21 February 2011: In my opinion, I think you are over this guy. I think you learnt to live so long without him, that you're actually used to him not being with you.xxx ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and I think I might be gay. Help!
Q. Im 13 and i have a girlfriend but i feel attracted to boys as well. Iv watched normal porn but i watch gay porn as well because i feel like i get more horney over gay porn. I love my girlfriend a lot. But does this make me gay?...
A. 21 February 2011: Hey hun. First off no, I don't think you are gay. Teenagers at your age usually feel confused and adventureous about their sexuality. It's nothing to worry about. Anyway being gay is usually known as something someone is born with. You would ... (read in full...)
Met with an ex from 15 years ago and he was totally rude?
Q. my ex left me for another woman 15 years ago. years later i was thinking of him and looked for him on fb and found him, we started chatting and we were talking about our passed and much we liked it and what could have been and what not. At one point ...
A. 21 February 2011: Hi hun.
First off.. what the hell are you doing meeting up with an ex from 15 years ago? Especially one who left you for another woman. If he did it once, he can do it again. That's a big mistake as far as I'm concerned. If someone left me for s... (read in full...)
I'm obsessed with my femaly P.E. teacher and I need to get rid of these feelings! Any advice?
Q. Hi people. I'm obsessed with my female P.E teacher and I don't know how to get out of it. I don’t want to, but I have to, or else I’ll go off the rails. Does anybody who share the same problem or have any advice? Please reply. ...
A. 21 February 2011: Hi sweetie.
First of all, it seems to me like you have a little crush, thats all. Not feelings. You may just find this woman attractive, no biggy. Don't worry. People get crushes all the time, they come and go. xxx... (read in full...)
Is this real, or am I hallucinating?
Q. This may be the strangest question in terms of love, but I really would like help! I've gone to my parents, to the counselor, and even my neighbor. They don't believe me! Okay, so let me set the scene; I'm 15, as it should already say on the post. ...
A. 19 February 2011: i agree that you should go and see a medium about this, this is really odd!xxx... (read in full...)
Boyfriend taking advantage of me being jealous!
Q. i am 13 and my bf is 14. im a very jealous person but my bf seems to be taking advantage of this, one day he came out of lesson telling me how big this other girls breasts are and her bra size. he has done this to me with many girls on many dif...
A. 19 February 2011: Well to me it seems like he finds it all a big joke. You've told him it bothers you so why does he still do it? Maybe he's looking for attention, testing whether you would be bothered? either way this is still immature. If it carries on I'd tell him ... (read in full...)
Is it too early to ask?
Q. I started dating a guy at Christmas and we are getting along great. I know he likes me and I like him. The only issue is I have a wedding coming up in March and I dont know if I can ask him to come with me. The wedding is of a very close friend of ...
A. 19 February 2011: You should ask him. This can be a starting point of your relationship blossoming, be straight with him and let him know you would really like him to come.xxx... (read in full...)
I love him but I hate his guts!
Q. My ex-boyfriend damaged me. I have not moved on. I cried day in and day out behind the dirty way he dumped with a phone call at two in the morning telling me we were over and that he had moved in with his ex that previous day. There's no need to ...
A. 19 February 2011: Ohhhh dear! :(
Well, for one, I do agree with you that he is a bastard. He deserves getting shot for what he did to you, you poor soul! Heartbreak is such a hurtful experience. And bless your heart for hsving to go through with it, nobody should e... (read in full...)
He wants to be friends with his crush!
Q. hey i have a huge problem right now so my bf of ten and a half months we broke up the day after v-day, i broke up with him cuz i was mad he lied to me about gettin a ride home with someone and i found out the instead of him getting a ride home fro...
A. 19 February 2011: Woah, This is a biggy.
First off, this boy is nothing but a player. He wants you, but he also wants this other girl too. If he wanted just one of you, it wouldn't be so hard to make a decision. When you love somoene, you do anything for them no ... (read in full...)
Am I just a booty call? Is he messing me around? Or is he genuine
Q. i met a lad at boxing a few months ago, and we've always had a bit of chemistry. recently last month he in boxed me, giving me his number, because he quit the gym. we've been texting ever since, he comes into my work at his break just to see me, ...
A. 19 February 2011: Things like this usually turn out bad. It seems to me like your his second choice, and his girlfriend was his first & golden. Don't be a rebound, you are so much better than that.xxx... (read in full...)
How do I get her back? I know I was in the wrong, so what next?
Q. Okay, here goes. What do I do? I really need some solid, sound advice. I (first) met my girlfriend when I was 21 and she was 17. When I first saw her I fell for her immediately. She was beautiful. At the beginning I took her out. I courte...
A. 19 February 2011: This won't be the end for you two. I have a feeling that people like you two are actually meant to be together. She couldn't have got over you that quick, it's impossible. I was in a situation like yours. I was with my boyfriend for a year and a ... (read in full...)
Do I respond? Or is silence golden, in the circumstances?
Q. How should i respond to a text from my ex who has come into town. i had texted him, telling him, "we shouldn't see each other, when he's in town". he replied with "ok bye." then two hours later he texted me with a booty call text basicall...
A. 19 February 2011: Ahhh don't respond. This lad is your ex for a reason. It didn't work out the first time so why would it now? Even if he doesn't want to give it another chance, are you really going to let him use you? So he clicks his fingers and you go running? ... (read in full...)
Me and my boyfriend want a baby together, how do I tell my parents??
Q. I want a baby and so does my boyfriend but I'm only 15 this year and I'm worried about telling my parents. I reallly know I'm to young but I love kids so much and just want one to have 4 myself. I am a babysitter so I'm forever looking after kids ...
A. 19 February 2011: Oh dear. To be honest I don't think you've thought about this properly. :/
Babies aren't accessories, they are people. They have feelings. They need emotional care, academic care & looking after 24/7 every day. It's a huge committment for somebody... (read in full...)
I want my ex back, but she is dating my best friend!!
Q. I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks ago, and I still love her. I was talking to one of my other best friends and I found out that he is now dating my ex. I still love her very much and I want her back. I don't want to destroy my best friend's ...
A. 19 February 2011: Awww bless your heart :(.
The thing you have to remember here is friends are forever whereas girlfriends come and go. If you begin competing with your friend then you could risk your friendship. Fair enough, he shouldn't have started dating h... (read in full...)
I would like her back. But will she ever realise how good she had it?
Q. If i treat a girl like a princess and she thinks it's weird, because she has never been treated like this, will she come back?. I have cut all contact if she texts me, i don't respond. will she ever realize what she had? Will she ever come back...
A. 19 February 2011: Well to be honest, you get so many females nowdays complaining that they don't get treated right, because lets be honest, some of them don't. You say you treated this girl like a princess, which isn't a bad thing? If she wants to run away from this, ... (read in full...)
I really love her. Do you think she could learn to want me to be the one?
Q. Hey guys, so I love my ex girl friend. I would do anything for her. We broke up because she was confused about whether she loved me or not. We broke up twice with the same issue. She was confused, not knowing whether to pick me, or her best...
A. 18 February 2011: If I'm being honest I think you should move on. Its not fair to wait about for something that might not even happen, she's getting your hopes up and this could affect your feelings a lot. Don't let her wrap you around her finger so you go running ... (read in full...)
Should I reject a text from an ex?
Q. What should I respond to a text from my ex who came into town. I had texted him telling him "We shouldn't see each other when you're in town". He replied with "ok bye." Then two hours later he texted me with a booty call text basically. I have yet ...
A. 18 February 2011: Say nothing. This way you won't get hurt OR used. xxx... (read in full...)
I have a crush on my bestfriends worst enemy.... What should I do?
Q. I happen to have a crush on my best girl friends worst enemy I dont know if I should tell her that I like this girl. Will this ruin our friendship or should I just not tell her?...
A. 18 February 2011: Whoever you like is upto you & not your friend. If he is really such a good friend he will accept your feelings for your sake.xxx... (read in full...)
He texts her because he feels bad for her?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years. we get a long very well we hardly ever fight. the only serious fights we get in is when i catch him texting this girl that i have been insecure about for about a year now because she likes him and ...
A. 17 February 2011: This is bang out of order. If he loved you that much then he would have stopped texting this girl as soon as you told him it bothered you. He obviously clearly knows that him and her texting is affecting your relationship, therefore why isn't he ... (read in full...)
Should I keep fighting for her or move on?
Q. Hello, I have a serious issue. There is this girl i really love and she loves me back but there are a ton of issues. First off we live a state apart and neither of us can see the other because im 16 and she is younger than me( I wanna keep her as ...
A. 17 February 2011: Hiya Hun. I think it's best if you move on from this girl. By what I've just read, I don't think it would work out at all. You may think a lot of her, but if you continued with this travelling and all these differences, then would you really be ... (read in full...)
How can I reassure her she has nothing to worry about?
Q. All my best friends are female, and this majorly bothers my girlfriend, who has major trust issues. I was wondering if there was any way for me to effectively ease her worries or is this something she has to deal with herself? ...
A. 17 February 2011: Being a girl myself, I know this is frustrating. I had the same problem at the start of my relationship, I hated him hanging with other girls and never trusted him alone with them. But then I realized if he wanted to be with them, he could be. But ... (read in full...)
What can I say to him via text to turn him on???
Q. So me and my boyfriend just started sending dirty text messages and I don't know what to say to turn him on and I don't want to sound stupid. So Can you please help? ...
A. 17 February 2011: Don't worry and don't be nervous. Don't think you'll sound stupid because you won't, boys love it! Just say something like 'I'm laid in bed, all alone..' then go onto something like 'I'd love it if you were here to liven up my night ;)' and just ... (read in full...)
I want him to like me, not her!
Q. I thought my guy friend liked me and i really like him but it turns out he likes someone else and is going out with her, How do i get him to like me instead? And also, since im his friend, he talks about her all the time and asks me for advice, how ...
A. 17 February 2011: Don't TRY to make somebody like you. If they did, they would be with you not somebody else, so you'll have to accept that. It may be upsetting but just remember there are others out there, and you're still young. If he brings up his girlfriend, just ... (read in full...)
My Bestfriend is flirting with my Boyfriend.....what do I do?
Q. My Friend BH has been flirting with my boy friend a lot lately and I don't feel very comfortable about it. I don't know if he has realized it or not but he is not stopping it and I don't wanna say anything because I don't want him to think I'...
A. 17 February 2011: You say you don't want to hurt her feelings, but she's hurting yours, isn't she? If she was such a good friend she wouldn't be going anywhere near your boyfriend!! It's bang out of order. Let her know that you really don't appreciate it. If it ... (read in full...)
I cant seem to get over him......
Q. i'm 13, soon 14. i broke up with my boyfriend in november (we only lasted a month but liked each other a lot) and now its february. we didnt break up cause of relationship problems or anything, its cause something else not really important. we kept ...
A. 17 February 2011: Awwwwww bless. I've been in this situation and it's horrible. I think you just feel lonely. I did. Just remember there are plenty more people out there and you've got your whole life to live yet and a hell of a lot more people and BOYS to meet! You ... (read in full...)
Shouting at my girlfriend caused her to break up with me! Help!
Q. Can anyone offer me ANY sort of help please? Yesterday, me and my girlfriend were having fun like normal! Having phone calls, chating about absolutely everything! Then we started messing around with those new Facebook page banners! She set one on my ...
A. 17 February 2011: Ohhh dear hun :/ well being a girl myself, I know I hate it when my boyfriend shouts at me, because he's giving me negative attention. I suppose it depends on how bad you shouted at her, like did you just tell her straight or did you proper yell at ... (read in full...)
I want to take revenge on him for making me feel this way!
Q. Hi all, I'm going to make this a brief question,but I really hope you guys can give me some helpful advice. My ex and I broke up last friday night after a bad argument and he sorta lives about an hour away from town. I'm so angry inside because I...
A. 17 February 2011: Two wrongs don't make a right. Getting revenge will only make it worse. Let it go, if you two are meant to be together things will sort itself out. But revenge is out of the question, if you care that much about him it's not right making him hate ... (read in full...)
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