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writes:So me and my boyfriend just started sending dirty text messages and I don't know what to say to turn him on and I don't want to sound stupid. So Can you please help?
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reader, Eilish  +, writes (17 February 2011):
 Don't worry and don't be nervous. Don't think you'll sound stupid because you won't, boys love it! Just say something like 'I'm laid in bed, all alone..' then go onto something like 'I'd love it if you were here to liven up my night ;)' and just take it from there. It's easy and fun for both of you. :) xxx
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reader, charliesdevil73 +, writes (1 February 2011):
 Dirtball is right. You are a minor and there can be consequences to these actions. Why don't you just try dirty talk when your with him. If he asks why you won't send dirty text messages, just say you want him to hear how turned on you are by thoughts of you two together. Of course, you can add details about what you would be doing together :)
If you are shy about dirty talk, start out small. Describe what you did last time you were together sexually. Once you become more comfortable, move onto what you want him to do to you but explain the details.
Hope that helps...and avoid sexting. It is only for your benefit, at least until you are 18.
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reader, SweetSmoochy +, writes (1 February 2011):
 I find sometimes just saying little things like "I'm really chilly. Do you think I should go take a shower and warm up?" sometimes turns them on. If they are imaginative, they'll be thinking about you being naked as well as being cold, which makes us feminine mystics all perky and extra interested in snuggling up. Start it gently before getting explicit. If you aren't comfortable with being explicit, (like me) just keep it hinting and teasing.
Note: NEVER EVER EVER send dirty pictures. It can get BOTH of you put on a sex offender list for life for manufacturing and possession of child porn. In addition, you never know who that guy is showing them to, or what he'd do if he got angry with you. Even if he doesn't intentionally show them to someone, they can absolutely get out there and get you in huge trouble.
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reader, dmartin89 +, writes (31 January 2011):
 Tell him you're not in the mood because you have bad pms and cramps.
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reader, missm83 +, writes (31 January 2011):
 your so right dirtball! ..i love sexting and sending pics to my bf...but i am 27 lol and never have my face in the pic ..i know better ;)..but i do have tattoos...that ppl know me from hummm ;/ well you should always trust the person your sexting... and make sure you dont send it to someone else by mistake!
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reader, Br1dgette +, writes (31 January 2011):
Well, assuming that you've had real sex with him before I always start there. I just randomly bring up a great sexual experience as a kind of errant thought. Wait for him to respond. Then I just say details about how mighty he was that day or how much I liked to lick parts of his anatomy. Things like that. Then of course I kinda merge into what I'd like him to be doing right then because it makes me hot.
---- This is an embarassing topic lol XD
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reader, dirtball +, writes (31 January 2011):
 No, you're a minor and there are laws against sexting and minors. Keep it clean, it's the more mature thing to do.
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