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How can I stop being so jealous?
Q. This is my problem. My boyfriend swears up and down that he would never cheat on me, but he has done a lot of things to make me jealous, it has gotten to the point where it seems all that all I am is jealous. We fight almost all the time now. It is ...
A. 4 January 2010: just for the update. that fucking bastard is gone out of my life... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so jealous?
Q. This is my problem. My boyfriend swears up and down that he would never cheat on me, but he has done a lot of things to make me jealous, it has gotten to the point where it seems all that all I am is jealous. We fight almost all the time now. It is ...
A. 4 August 2007: Today I did a lot of thinking about my relationship. I thought about every aspect of it. I calmy told my boyfriend how I was feeling neglected and I apoligized for the way I had been acting the prior day. HE calmy replied with an understanding ... (read in full...)
How can I stop being so jealous?
Q. This is my problem. My boyfriend swears up and down that he would never cheat on me, but he has done a lot of things to make me jealous, it has gotten to the point where it seems all that all I am is jealous. We fight almost all the time now. It is ...
A. 3 August 2007: Thank you so much for taking the time to answer my question. I just feel so helpless and I wish that I could control myself more. But from what you just said, I think that I can do it. I will try talking to him today about my feelings. He usually ... (read in full...)
How can I get a girl? I need a girlfriend!
Q. Hi, my name is Daniel, I am 16 and live with my parents in Aberdeen, Scotland. I have no success with girls and it's just not happening for me. I have never had a girl friend, always rejection. I need a girl to love because I feel its my duty get ...
A. 3 August 2007: You see, I am not a beautiful, skinny girl. I am 5'6 130 lbs brown eyes brown hair and acne. I have a boyfriend everytime i lose one. Because I am confident that people will like me for who I am !... (read in full...)
I'm not lesbian so why.have I fallen for this girl at work??
Q. Hi.plzz plzz help me,ive just started new work,its been 2 months and ever since ive set eyes on this girl ive just fallen in love with her.plzz let me state that am not a LESBIAN, strictly straight but i dont know what this is. i cant get her out of ...
A. 3 August 2007: You probably have always been gay, you just never found a girl you were attracted to!... (read in full...)
What can my army boyfriend do to help me?
Q. i am pregnant and my boyfriend is in the army what can he do to help, he cant be with me at the moment, i tell him he doesnt need to do anything but he wntas to, what can he do?...
A. 3 August 2007: he can only be there for you emotionally and make sure he has a safe time. He could ask for a military leave. Men can do that!... (read in full...)
What should I do when I like a man 10 years older than me?
Q. i found out the other day that this lad likes me but there are big problems one he is 28 and i am 18 and another one is my mam wont allow it but he seems to realy like me and i like him too i have done for sometime, i dont know what to do, they say ...
A. 3 August 2007: You don't need an inspiration to get into a relationship come on. You need to be smart and find out if this guy really even likes you!... (read in full...)
What do I do when my husband won't talk to me?
Q. What do I do when my husband wont talk to me? It's been 3 days and I havent heard from or seen him. He leaves for work early in the morning and comes home late at night.He is sleeping in the spare bedroom. HE got mad at me for questioning him about ...
A. 3 August 2007: HE is being very selfish, he needs to understand that you are a part of him and that things like that should be discussed. It isn't suppose to be offensive. ... (read in full...)
I just wanted to know what are the differences between cheating in a relationship, going on the rebound and having a affair is.
Q. I just wanted to know what are the differences between cheating in a relationship, going on the rebound and having a affair is. Why do these types of relationships have a low probabilty of working out?...
A. 3 August 2007: If you are cheating: you are usually in a relationship where the tewo of you have been together for a long time and things start to get old or you just find yourself wanting something else. Also an affair!
A rebound is while being on a break or... (read in full...)
I have been independent for a few months now but am finding it hard to find someone.
Q. Hi I have been independent for a few months now and am finding it hard to find someone. After spending nearly a 2 year relationship with my ex girlfriend I don't really want to get into a serious relationship all I want is for a bit of fun at the ...
A. 3 August 2007: You can't let your ex girl friend control you. SHe is an ex for a reason. Ex means past! Now leave her there. For your question, don't be shy to ask a girl to the movies or to dinner, ANYTHING! I went out with my ex boyfriend for three years on and ... (read in full...)
On one hand I'm afraid of ending things because we are so compatible. On the other, I'm afraid to stay in it and end up feeling like I "settled" in some way.
Q. I have been dating a guy that I met on-line for about 11 months. We've seen each other at least once a month for a week at a time. He is in love with me. I am not. Because he is so wonderful I keep trying, but I think the problem is either a ...
A. 3 August 2007: Be completely honest with him and he will understand. Tell him that you do not love him. You can't be with someone you don't love, friends is a great title to!... (read in full...)
I just am trying to decide whether or not to throw in the towel and just cut my losses.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and have been living together for a year and a half now. I'm starting to wonder why we are still together though. When we first started dating everything was so fun and so new...now we argue ...
A. 3 August 2007: I am kind of in the same pickle accept we don't live together and we don't fight over bills. We fight over my jealousy and his stubborness. Now I love him to death and that is why I stay with him. If you love him and are fine with the way he acts ... (read in full...)
I want to know if I were to ask her out and she says no will it ruin my friendship with her?
Q. I have a female friend that I have liked since I met her, I want to know if I were to ask her out and she says no will it ruin my friendship with her?...
A. 3 August 2007: That guys reply is rather immature. What you need to do is make sure that she is allowed to have a boyfriend. Do you hangout with this girl alot. If you want to be friends with her even if she says no, tell her that you do not want to feel weird and ... (read in full...)
She gave some details to some relationships, now when we make love I get that picture of her and some other guy...
Q. My girlfriend opened up and told me of the 9 sexual encounters she had over a period of 9 years, two of which was from a long term relationships, but the others were to fill in the void and get even to the steady guys she had. She had sometimes been ...
A. 3 August 2007: You just need to believe that she loves you. Once you really believe that, you won't be as bothered. If those things make you uncomfortably to know, then you need to open up to her. Does the number of guys intimidate you? Well Dr. Jones good luck!... (read in full...)
I used to try and use a tampon and it hurt and I couldn't use it. But after my boyfriend fingered me I could use one. Is that normal?
Q. Ok well I used to try and use a tampon and it hurt and I couldn't use it. But after my boyfriend fingered me I could use one. Is that normal? Because I don't think that is normal should I get checked out by the doctor?...
A. 3 August 2007: First let me say, you are a little young to be doing physical things. It is normal, you became more relaxed and looser. For now, make sure you don't go to far lil kitty!... (read in full...)
How the hell can you lose weight and look slim and also lose the man boobs?
Q. dear cupid This is a question for the ladies, "what do you lot think of a guy that has man boobs that are bait?" and I have another question to any male that was fat and lost it all, how the hell can you lose weight and look slim and also lo...
A. 3 August 2007: I will tell you what my boyfriend is 6'0 220 lbs. and I think he is the most gorgeous thing in the world. So I think men don't need to change them selves, they just need to find the right one! Kayla... (read in full...)
She tells me she got walked home by the guy she was attracted to and then spent 2-1/2 hours talking to him before coming home. Her therapist says this is ok????
Q. My wife and I went to a dance and she asked me if it was ok if she danced with someone she was attracted to. She then went and spent 30 minutes up at the bar talking to 2 guys. I left (mad) and she came home at 4 in the morning told me she was at a...
A. 3 August 2007: You should not trust her at all. She is a liar and a cheater once one of them all ways one of them. If you stay in this relationship, you will get hurt. If you can't get her to straighten out, I think it's time for a divorce. Kayla... (read in full...)
I also fear for my life, he has came very close to seriously injuring me in the past.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for a little over two years, he is thirty and I am 20. I am still growing up and I would prefer to do it alone but I love him and he has helped me immensely. We have a lot of problems, there has been abuse, b...
A. 3 August 2007: Now you tell me, if he found out you posted th is would he be angry? If he could get angry at you expressing the way you feel and wanting and needing help, than he needs help or you need to get out. If he wont listen, you make someone enforce it. My ... (read in full...)
He said he was testing himself to see if these women appealed to him, and said they didn't. He said if anything he loves me more and realises what he has. Is he lying?
Q. Hi I looked in my boyfriends email account and although there were no emails (all deleted, even the trash) on the contact list was several email addresses of girls and an email from [a website]. I logged on and had a look and it's a sex chat ...
A. 3 August 2007: If he chatted with a few girls on play naughty, I'm sure all those girls wanted to do was all that exactly. I think he was talking sexually and you have every right in the world to feel betrayed. My ex boyfriend cheated on me with everyone, even his ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I might get pregnant, are my chances high?
Q. My last period was July 11, 2007. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend on July 18, 22, 23, and on the 27. I'm scared I might get pregnant, are my chances high?...
A. 3 August 2007: Chances are chances girl. What you need to do is go to planned parenthood and take a pregnancy test. That is the best thing to do. You are so young you should know better than to have unprotected sex. Are you on any type of birth control. I can't ... (read in full...)
Should I instead write a note asking him round?
Q. I am keen on a guy but he's very shy and doesn't go out socially so I don't know him well. I'm not sure if he likes me but would like to ask him round for dinner. Would phoning him up put him too much on the spot? Should I instead write a note ...
A. 3 August 2007: Don't think about what makes him comfortably, what make you comfortable? That is what matters. You just be yourself and if he really likes you than I hope you have fun at dinner!... (read in full...)
Is it too soon to ask her to marry me?
Q. i have been dating my girlfriend for a little more than six months.we both love each other and get along great,and have so much in common.i want to ask her to marry me but is this to soon....
A. 3 August 2007: I think that you should wait until you know for sure the way she really is. My boyfriend and I have changed alot since we started dating and it has gotten to be a whole knew thing. What you need to know is that things change and if you don't give ... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend, but we constantly talk and flirt. What should I do?
Q. Okay so there is this guy that i like. I've liked him for a while, and we've been talking alot lately, on the computer, and I've hung out with his friends a few times. Last night for example, it was me and 9 guys. The problem is that he's seeing s...
A. 3 August 2007: I refused to even read the rest of your question. There are two things that you need to know, 1 you never mess with another girls man because of respect and even if you don't respect her you just don't. 2 if he is doing all this stuff while he has ... (read in full...)
I'm attracted to her, but don't know if I should tell her...
Q. So where to begin... There's this girl, let's call her erm...Rosie. I have been friend with her ever since I start High School. We get along well in this smallish circle of friends in school, 3 guys (me included) and 2 girls (Rosie included)...
A. 3 August 2007: Here is the big thing, do you get the feeling that she likes you to? If you do then go ahead and tell her already. Just in case though, if you are at all unsure of your feelings than you should keep it all to yourself. The last thing you need is to ... (read in full...)
Should I just end it now to stop further pain and before we get more close or should I stay with her because I do think she is worth it?
Q. I have been in with my girlfriend for about 4 months and she has a 2 year old child. She takes the child to see his dad a few times a week and I am fine with that, it's just that my girlfriend is very close to her x because they went out for almost ...
A. 3 August 2007: You should tell her to cut out the I love you's. She also shouldn't more of him than you physically or not. Your not there, how do you know old feelings don't conquer all. That is just what I think. Good Luck!... (read in full...)
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