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Should I tell my bf i cheated on him??

Q.   My boyfriend is the most loving caring man i have ever ever met. He would never do anything to hurt me and i would never do anything to hurt him but the other night i went to my friends party and an old friend and i got chatting - one thing led to ...

A.   3 September 2007: wel first all of all ask yourself is there anyway that he could find out from someone else? was you safe? would you want to know if he had cheated on you? Afer you've asked yourself these questions then do what you need to. If you decide not to t... (read in full...)

Tests were negative but I've been having symptoms of pregnancy and am very confused! What are your opinins?

Q.   My name is Arianna. I'm 16. I don't know if i'm pregnant. We had sex aug 1 and the condom broke, i was supposed to start aug 11 and didnt. On aug 10, 11 and 12 i had light brown spotting. I have a few of the symptoms: headaches, sensitive to ...

A.   25 August 2007: The only way you can sort this out is by going to your doctor to get a test done there. Im pretty sure that one of the 5 pregnancy tests would have shown up positive if you were pregnant espeshially the 2 weeks late one. If its your first time it ... (read in full...)

I've a long distance relation, my boyfriend is very insecure, misinterpreting my friendship with the ex and is jealous in general. How do I cope with this?

Q.   Hiya, I have a problem with my boyfriend. We've been dating for quite a while and I love him very much. He's incredible in every possible way, except for one - he's very insecure and gets jealous easily. I feel that I'm at the end of my rope he...

A.   25 August 2007: Hey This is difficult as i can see both sides. Im a little bit like your boyfriend. But its something thats very hard to stop feeling. He probably doesnt mean to be like it but as he said hes scared of losing you and thats a good thing. On the hand... (read in full...)

He feels bad because he can't see me too often.

Q.   Hiyer My bf lives in Scotland and I live in South England. WE met when he was down here visitin a mate nd we get on well together. he called me three or four nights ago and said that he was feeling so down coz he can't come to see me at the mo...

A.   25 August 2007: Just explain exactly how you feel and how much your willing to wait for him. If that doesn't work theres not much you can do. Maybe its just to hard for him, maybe he thinks it would be easier to break it off because of the way he is feeling. I know ... (read in full...)

I like this guy but what do you think he wants, is he playing me???

Q.   well this is my problem... ok well i liked this boy last year well i had this big crush!! i mean i even dressed different 4 him 2 notice me and dont get me wrong it worked!! but come to find out he had a jealous x girlfriend. well one da...

A.   25 August 2007: Hmmm this is a difficult one. Im glad you feel so confident that people are telling you that you look good, but you should never change how you look for a boy. Maybe he backed of because he didn't want the hassle from his ex. The best thing to do is ... (read in full...)

Me and my ex have split up. We want to get back together and currently are just seeing each other but there are lads that are wanting to start seeing her.

Q.   Hi me and my ex have split up. We want to get back together and currently are just seeing each other and there are lads that are wanting to start seeing her. I feel like it's going to be hard to defend but will do anything to defend her from other ...

A.   5 August 2007: Tell her exactly what you've just written down. If she loves you as much as you love her then she won't go anywhere. Don't worry about the other boys, if she is seeing you then its you she likes. Hope it goes ok xxx... (read in full...)

How can I make sure she likes me enough to not be offended or say "I only like you as a friend" when I make a move?

Q.   Well, I've known this girl for about four days now, were already getting along like we've known each other for ages, were both quite touchy feely when were hanging out. My problem is that I'm so madly attracted to her that I can't sleep very well ...

A.   5 August 2007: Hey as a girl the same age group as you, i would prefer the boy to just be outright with me and tell me how he feels. If she is reacting to what you are doing then its all good signs. How bout just asking her out on her own first to like get a dr... (read in full...)

How do you cope being apart from your partner?

Q.   How do you cope being apart from your partner? Ive started someone who lives a few hours away and I just want to be with him all the time (I know this isnt possible, as we both have jobs) I dont want to scare him off but telling him how I feel, ...

A.   5 August 2007: Hey I know how you feel, my boyfriend has a job and i don't get to see him much either. I can definelty relate to you when you say about not wanting to scare him of with your feelings. The best thing to do is tell him that you miss him when hes not ... (read in full...)

how can i find a boyfriend fast and be attractive to men?

Q.   hi. i'm single and just cant find a guy. i'm a nice girl but even the guys in my life dont want me- even those i've known for a while. no-one ever hits on me or notices me. how can i find a boyfriend fast and be attractive to men? i want to get ...

A.   3 August 2007: Hey Try having a night out with your girl mates and enjoy yourself. Try to relax and enjoy yourself and men will pick up on that. Or try meeting men through your friends you never know who you might meet. Hope this helps xxxxxxxxx... (read in full...)

Am I still in love with my ex? Do I love my classmate?

Q.   Ermm.. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4months a few weeks ago. Now, he's with one of my close friends. I really support them, and wish them the best. I thought I could get over him and I thought I did. I guess I was wrong. Whenever he talks to me ...

A.   3 August 2007: Hey Maybe your just hanging onto the memories and how you and ur ex were before you split up, which is only natural but if you 2 did get back together would the reason why you split up be solved? It sounds like you really like your classmat... (read in full...)

Dont want to get messed around again so what should I do?

Q.   Hi :) errm well i'm really confused at the moment lol i've liked this certian lad for a while now, he said he liked me, then went out with another girl :S he's not with this girl anymore and all my friends have noticed he's getting close to me ...

A.   29 July 2007: My advice would be to ask him outright. If you like him and he likes you then thats really good. But if ur unsure about whether hes messing you about or he genuinely does like you then you should just ask him Hope it all works out xxxxx... (read in full...)

Will he want a relationship?

Q.   Heyyy I broke up with my bf of 10 months, one month ago because he told me he didnt want to be in a relationship anymore (wanted to spend more time with mates)although he did say he still loved me. The last month has been the hardest of my...

A.   29 July 2007: Hey I know how hard break ups can be, believe me. My advice to you is stay with mates with him. It might be that he does just want to spend more time with his mates, but its not fair if hes leading you on for to long. In the meantime go out with... (read in full...)

Am I wrong in stopping my kids seeing their dad who has a drink and drugs problem?

Q.   I seperated from my partner and father of my three children 14 months ago life has been pretty hard as when we first seperated i found out that i was pregnant with my third child he gave me no support during this time. A week after i gave birth he ...

A.   29 July 2007: I think your decision is very sensible! Its only fair that he sorts himself out before you let the kids see him. Im only 16, but if i had a dad that had problems with drugs i would thank my mum for bein sensible enough to choose that decision. Also ... (read in full...)

He's stopped texting and calling so much. What's going on?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and everythings been great. But recently iv felt like he hasnt been himself. We used to text all the time and he always used to sent me sweet texts and now all of its stopped. Its as tho he doesnt care ...

A.   29 July 2007: iv tryed to talk to him about it b4 but he just says that he doesnt want to talk bout it! Its as tho im the only one that makes the effort.... (read in full...)

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