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I'm attracted to her, but don't know if I should tell her...

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Question - (3 August 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 3 August 2007)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ervousSexDude writes:

So where to begin...

There's this girl, let's call her erm...Rosie. I have been friend with her ever since I start High School. We get along well in this smallish circle of friends in school, 3 guys (me included) and 2 girls (Rosie included). We hang about in school and often outside school.

However the two girls are bit of the party drinkers sort, don't get me wrong there nice people and not junkies. I am not like this however, i usually stay home and go out when called and often don't invite people to do stuff as I am a little scared they won't like me as much if i keep asking them to do things. So i'm not too similar to Rosie. However lately i've been doing a lot more with them which is great fun! And i seem to have a sudden attraction to Rosie, it's been going on for about a month and i don't know what to do.

Should I leave it be, thinking these feelings will go away?

Or should i talk to her about it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007):

Hey, Well I think you should give it alittle time. See if your feels grow towards hers. If you really think there is something there then tell her. Who knows maybe she will feel the same. Prepare yourself for if she doesn't though and relize you can still be friends. Just tell her in a way that won't scare her off. Don't come out and say, I'm in love with you (unless you are). Tell her you feel like you're starting to have some feelings for her. -Good Luck

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A female reader, edsbabygirl United States +, writes (3 August 2007):

edsbabygirl agony auntHere is the big thing, do you get the feeling that she likes you to? If you do then go ahead and tell her already. Just in case though, if you are at all unsure of your feelings than you should keep it all to yourself. The last thing you need is to hurt anybodies feelings. Good luck!

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