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I used to try and use a tampon and it hurt and I couldn't use it. But after my boyfriend fingered me I could use one. Is that normal?

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Question - (2 August 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 17 August 2007)
A female Australia age 30-35, *il kitty writes:

Ok well I used to try and use a tampon and it hurt and I couldn't use it. But after my boyfriend fingered me I could use one. Is that normal? Because I don't think that is normal should I get checked out by the doctor?

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A female reader, gems1405 United Kingdom +, writes (17 August 2007):

gems1405 agony auntyou might have been really tight when u tried to insert the tampon but as mens fingers are quite long he will have loosened it up and stuff so now its fine for you to use them, dont worry its not a bad thing at all when i first started using tampons it hurt abit but i just kept doing it and i was fine, hope my advice was useful

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A female reader, babygirl2727 United States +, writes (3 August 2007):

I don't think that you need to see a doctor because to insert a tampon you need to relax you muscle and it also depends on how old you were when you tried to insert the tampon.

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A female reader, edsbabygirl United States +, writes (3 August 2007):

edsbabygirl agony auntFirst let me say, you are a little young to be doing physical things. It is normal, you became more relaxed and looser. For now, make sure you don't go to far lil kitty!

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A male reader, SumYungGuy United States +, writes (3 August 2007):

SumYungGuy agony auntI don't think you need a doctor. Your boyfriend probably tore your hymen completely or enough that you can now insert a tampon without pain (the pain coming from the tearing of the hymen 'cherry popping'). This doesn't mean you're not a virgin anymore, just that your hymen is either loose or gone.

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