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female
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36-40,
*tarrysky
writes:Okay so there is this guy that i like. I've liked him for a while, and we've been talking alot lately, on the computer, and I've hung out with his friends a few times. Last night for example, it was me and 9 guys. The problem is that he's seeing someone right now, but he's never ever mentioned her to me, I just figured out not too long ago through other people. He's told me he thinks I'm good looking, and is really flirty, on the computer and in person. I've showed a few of my closest friends some clips of conversations, and they all agree it sounds like he's interested. It could be just innocent flirting, but sometimes it seems to go past that.. I just want to know what he's thinking.. I don't want to ruin anything between him and the other girl, i'm not like that, but could anyone help me understand whats going on here?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2007): This can't go any further. You and him are both in the wrong. You know he has a girlfriend yet you continue to flirt with him or let him flirt with you, and whether you like it or not you are becoming that "other girl". Even if he was to be going out with you, if he's flirting behind his gf's back with you, whose to say he wouldn't cheat on you or be flirting with even more girls right now. My best advice to you, is to stop what you're doing right now to prevent you and his girlfriend from getting hurt.
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reader, happytochat  +, writes (3 August 2007):
It sounds like he could like you, but you have to really think about whether or not this is the type of guy you want to get involved in. I mean seriously, he has a gf, and hes flirting with you, telling you you are good looking and never mentioning his gf...if you were in his gf's shoes, im sure you wouldnt be happy if you knew that was going on. So seriously, i wouldnt even bother to persue things with this guy.
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reader, edsbabygirl  +, writes (3 August 2007):
 I refused to even read the rest of your question. There are two things that you need to know, 1 you never mess with another girls man because of respect and even if you don't respect her you just don't. 2 if he is doing all this stuff while he has a girlfriend that he will do it when the two of you hook up. The truth hurts but it helps good luck starrysky!
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