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writes:I have an french exchange student in my school.I've only spoken to him once or twice but i really, really, really like him. the problem is I dont think hes interest, and why would he? we've only spoken once or twice. I'm really shy of him but i'm also aware of him when he's around me, i dont even need to look around to see if he is there, i just know. Can someone please tell me how i can get his attention, or show that i am interested in him.Please
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reader, Duckiies  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Well. I am teenager just like you, and I have similar problem.All you need to do is be yourself and talk to him as much as you can(don't stalk him)and just be funny and sweet to him. Soon he will REALIZE how nice a girl you are.To be honest, I love a girl who is interested in me and starts to talk to me about random things. One day, I ask her if she want to catch a movie with me. Then soon I notice that she has this incredibly cute smile. I didn't notice it before. And now I am recently dating her. :]SO just do what you can. You don't realize that time is on your side for a change. Best of luck. Just go for it. We only live once.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much, that helps alot
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reader, NZLGirl  +, writes (17 August 2010):
Hey the first thing i noticed was he's on exchange from france? what happens when he go's back? considering you live austrailia is a long distance relationship what you realy want if it is go for it, but then again deep down you may just want a 'friend' or fling.
If a relationship is what you want you could try do two things play hard to get which could end up backfiring and confusing the guy or you could try to get to know him, hey I know your shy but if you realy, realy, realy like him like you say you do then it shouldnt matter of all things thou just be yourself!
Maybe try getting a friend to introduce you two? it may sound silly but who knows you may end up thanking him or her! :)
Good luck and be brave :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): Well firstly I think you need to stop putting yourself down! You ask why would he be interested. Well, why wouldn't he be? Even if he was not interested in anything more than friendship, I am sure he would still be happy to talk to you some more and get to know you. So believe in yourself!
You have already spoken before, so that is good. I know it can be difficult to talk to someone if you are shy, especially if you really like that person. But it doesn't have to be a scary thing. I'm sure you could think of lots of things to talk about. Why not ask him about himself? I mean, you have a perfect excuse to talk to him! It wouldn't seem weird at all, it would seem perfectly natural that you would be curious to talk to this guy if he is a French exchange student. You could ask him to tell you about what things are like for him back home, what differences there are between where he is from and where he is now, how he is getting on, what he thinks of things, whether he likes the school...I think you just need to try and be brave and have some confidence, and keep talking to him. Even if it is just little bits and pieces of conversation here and there, you will still be getting his attention. Good luck!
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