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writes: i would gladly appreciate if anyone helps me with my problem. thanks,i have this friend who is a guy i've always liked him and hes known that too since day one we met. but seems like i wasnt his type. so 4 years passed and now we both are single. he now wants to spend time with me more often he always calls me everyday even if its 12 in the morning. he text me also. hes always asking me to hang out with him and when we do he comes to my house has a nice talk with my mom they get along very well. sometimes i go to his house. but im not afraid to because we are just friedns. i lay on his bed with confidence since he once reject me what is there to be scared of. but he lays in bed with me and we watch tv. he never tried to kiss. all he does is just push me around and hugs me just joking around he pretends and says tht he knows i like it when he hugs me. he picks me up pretending that hes tough and everyting but eventually we fall on the floor. i look at him but i turn away because im so tired of waiting for him to make a move. he always touch my face and caress my hair. but thats it. so i dont know if he likes me or if he just wants to remain friends with me like i said 4 years passed. during those years i moved on to another guy. but i just want to know if he likes me now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 August 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks guys lol
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reader, Duckiies +, writes (17 August 2010):
 I agree with dirtball LOL.
But becareful. He knows he can get you if wanted to. Guys like me always want to feel superior and fool around(tease).
He likes you but unsure if he wants to date you.
thats how it will go for now. But i know that i calls girls like all the time even if I dont like them. I tend to tease them as well. BUt I dont want to date them. If you still like him .. go for him. if not just more on and live your life
JUST GO FOR IT, WE ONLY LIVE ONCE
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Friends don't do what you're describing, couples do. Here's a rule for you about guys. We don't actively seek activities with women (one on one) if we're not interested in them sexually. I honestly find it really odd that he hasn't tried to kiss you with all you've described, but he may be waiting on you. Since he rejected you once, he may not want to try anything. I say, the next time you two are close, try kissing him. Just go for it. If he backs away, then you'll have your answer. I'd put an end to all the crap you're doing then though. It just sends you too many mixed signals and is completely unfair.
He likes you, or he's gay and being one of the girls.
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