Any tips on talkin' dirty for a shy girl?
Q. hi, i want to talk dirty to my man while giving him head but i dont know what to say or how to say it , im a very shy person and during sex i just moan and tell him what i like and dislike but i want to give him a suprise with some dirty talk but i ...
A. 7 March 2006: Tell him how big his cock is, how much you love sucking it, that you want to repay it for how horny it makes you, then tell him you love the feel of his throbbing penis when he is coming in your mouth, and you cant wait to feel it again, and you are ... (read in full...)
Can't make boyfriend cum by giving head. Why?
Q. Ok I have a problem. I have been with my bf for a long time now, and I have never ever been able to make him cum by giving him head. He tells me its awesome and that he love it when I go down on him, and his whole body shakes when Im doing it. He ...
A. 7 March 2006: If you are just being gentle he will enjoy it for longer, but if you want to make him cum, you probably need to wank him too for a minute (picking up the pace gradually), keep your mouth near the end of his penis and lick that at the same time for ... (read in full...)
Me and my best friends bf made love and now i'm pregnant with his kid!!
Q. I have gotten myself in to an awful mess. I didnt have a boyfriend so my best friend and her partner took me to a party. I didnt meet anyone there and my friend got so drunk we had to take her home and I helped him to put her to bed. Afterw...
A. 6 March 2006: Oh boy, what a mess you have got yourself into. You don’t mention your age, but it sounds like the 18-21 range, which means you are probably quite young.
So first off you have to tell your mother, and I would advise you to tell her EVERYTHI... (read in full...)
He doesn't give me oral so should I for him?
Q. I always go down on my partner cos he likes it and enjoys it (i dont). I dont let him cum in my mouth tho because i dont like it. When i ask him to go down on me he wont he makes excuses. Am i right to give to him even tho he dont do the same for ...
A. 6 March 2006: Hi,
He does appear to have double standards all right. It must be great for him getting but not giving (as obviously both of you don’t particularly enjoy giving, but at least you are doing it). He might just not be into that kind of thing, a... (read in full...)
Was a hasty in breaking up? Is that why she just wants to be friends now?
Q. I finished with my girlfriend as I didn't feel as though she was there for me when I needed her. She has a lot on her plate, but I still expected her to be there for me when I needed her. I realised that maybe I acted hastily, but now she says tha...
A. 6 March 2006: Hi,
I think you need to take a hard look at your actions, and you will realise that her responses were inevitable.
You say she wasn’t there when you needed her – but her brother is seriously ill – it sounds to me like you weren’t there fo... (read in full...)
Am I just too nice to my girlfriend?
Q. Is it possible to be too much of a nice guy...(wishy washy)? Could that drive a girl away, even if she says that all her exes were assholes compared to me?...
A. 17 December 2005: Yes it is
It depends a fair bit on your girlfriend (who you gave no description of which is a pity)
In general though, women may ‘say’ they like nice guys, but what they usually really want are bad boys, or Men, or guys who are some kind of cha... (read in full...)
I had a sexless marriage until my sexy scrabble playing webcam girl turned up... But now she's found someone else!
Q. dear cupid-I've been married 23 yrs to a good woman.however we are mostly :"freinds" now.About totally sexless. @ yrs ago I was playing games on the net when a woamn asked me to paly w/ her & freind.it was "dirty scrabble".had a blast. I was ...
A. 17 December 2005: What a way to live a life... You are telling me that your sex life for 2 years was in front of your computer?? Maybe this other woman wanted a real live man, not a pixelated one.
How can you say you love this woman when you never met? This isn... (read in full...)
He hits me..he controls me.. so why do I beg him to stay with me when he threatens to leave? Help me!
Q. Im 19, having a bf for nearly 5 months now. Although I wouldn't consider it a very long relationship, I have seriously fell for him like I have never before. Overall, he is a person who treats me nicely once we meet. However, once I leave for home ...
A. 17 December 2005:
OK, since you wont leave him I want to put this into perspective by telling you what you have to look forward to for the 6 months or so:
You have now shown him that you are spineless and willing to take whatever crap he dishes out, and there ar... (read in full...)
I'm 37 years old and worried I will never meet the right person. Any good advice?
Q. I split up with my boyfriend of 9 years about 6 months ago. Since then I got involved with someone I have known for over 7 years, but ended up getting hurt badly after 4 months. I am 37 years old and worried that I am never going to meet the righ...
A. 17 December 2005: Hi,
Sorry to hear about the relationships, but you are probably going to prove your fears to be correct unless you do something about it. Considering you don’t like strangers and all your group is attached you are limiting yourself to about ze... (read in full...)
Afraid to approach guys for dates...not sure if I can handle the rejection.
Q. When I was in my teens I was not afraid to ask guys out and if they said no, it didn't really bother me or hurt me. Now after a few years and a few relationships in which I didn't make the first move, I find myself wanting to ask someone out but I ...
A. 6 December 2005: Hi,
This is not so much help in approaching a guy, but if you are afraid of rejection then I think you should get a book on 'Body Language'.
This is underestimated by people i think, but you can actually tell a lot about what someone is think... (read in full...)
I went too far in my sexual exploration and now my girlfriend says she's lost trust in me!
Q. Ok so tonight I was in a horny mood and it was overwhelming me. My g/f, who I dearly love and plan to marry, wasn't really in the mood. We were sitting there and I started kissing and licking at her stomach and then began to move up to her ...
A. 6 December 2005: Hi,
I would be of the opinion that you shouldn’t have to ask permission to give your girlfriend affection. She is not in the mood? Don’t let that stop you - I can only think that you were trying to get her in the mood… you weren’t exactly raping h... (read in full...)
Can I trust him??Or Should I leave now?
Q. To Mr Dream master.. continued from previous question. wow what a great answer you gave me. so i thought id thank you through this. Since my question me and my partner have chatted.and i think i need to add a bit more. i've almost always be...
A. 5 December 2005: Hi,
I’m flattered you liked my response, it was a difficult one to give advice to because there was not much definite to go on in your original question, it was all hints and indications.
It all seemed a little bit ‘raw’ in your first post,... (read in full...)
I was a virgin and I held out until he got what he wanted from me..now he treats me like dirt!
Q. pls i really need help dont know what to do. am really depressed.i am 21yrs old and my bf is 24yrs. we met two yrs ago. in the early yr in our reltionship he was persuading me to have sex with him and explained to him that i am still a virgin and ...
A. 5 December 2005: Oh dear, you poor girl, I can’t believe how much of a loser this guy is – you ARE very decent, and he is a complete idiot for treating you this way, and losing you.
You seemed to be doing everything right as a couple, university, jobs, getting ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is so completely changed... I don't even know who she is any more!
Q. This is a long and winded question. My girlfriend and I of four years recently split up terribly. Over the past four years her and I were best friends, companions and talked about everything to eac hother. For four years I truly felt like I knew ...
A. 4 December 2005: Hi,
Nice going fairyangel, I was just about to suggest that – this behaviour is symptomatic of someone who has just turned to drugs. It looks likely that it was her brother who introduced her to them.
Don’t beat yourself up, she has just dec... (read in full...)
Do we have a chance despite his past?
Q. where do i begin? ive been with my current bf now for just over 2 months. It was never really easy for me in the begining when i met him, as he has a young daughter from a previous relationship. Ive never been out with anyone with a child before, ...
A. 4 December 2005: Hi,
Ok, it seems as though you are getting mixed messages all around, so you may be blinded by your love for this guy, and seeing what you want to see, and of course ignoring what you don’t want to believe. Understandable, but I can give you an o... (read in full...)
My husband has threatened...either the pet dog goes or he moves out!
Q. I am a newlywed, married in August. When my husband and I were dating, I had a dog. My husband had never owned pets in his life, but seemed okay with it. Some months before the wedding, my dog was killed. I was grief stricken, but I always knew ...
A. 3 December 2005: Hi,
I resent the suggestion that I am a bitter and twisted (etc) male, simply because I am too clean a person to be able to live with a dog in the house.
You should read more of my posts “Anonymous” if you want an insight into my character. Pe... (read in full...)
He treated me so badly yet he treats her so well and I can't forget him
Q. My ex-boyfriend finished with me 6 months ago and is now in love with someone else. He does absolutely everything for her, even stopped seeing his friends because she told him not to. He really respects her and I have to see them together all the ...
A. 3 December 2005: Hi,
I would not move away, that would be very drastic, you need to maintain stability in your life through this tough period, and you are also going to need advice from those close to you, friends and family.
You do need to find a way to mo... (read in full...)
Her ex is causing so many problems...what can I do?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years now and she tells me she wants to have my baby, wants to marry me, loves me more than anyone. The problem is her ex came back two months ago to see his daughter, he was unemployed and made no ...
A. 3 December 2005: Hi,
Not a nice situation, I do sympathise.
Ok, lets get one fact right out there from the off
This guy does NOT care about the well being of this child.
This is obvious to me because he hasn’t seen the kid in 3 years, and has no ethical p... (read in full...)
Should I accept our marriage is over?
Q. Here is my dilema. My husband and I were married in April and separated in June. I love this man more than anything in this world. But after we got married, thing went downhill. He totally shut me out of his life, did not ask me to a family ...
A. 3 December 2005: Hi,
All is not lost, but you do have some work to do,
I would say first off you need to take yourself to some kind of Anger management course.
Everyone gets annoyed and loses their temper a bit, but some people (like you) push the boundaries... (read in full...)
Help! I love my husband but my friend's hubby makes me feel like a real woman!
Q. i have deep feelings for my best friends husband and have had a affairs seen about july of this year and i just got married what do i do i love my husband but her husband makes me feel like a woman again what do i do please help me i dont know what ...
A. 3 December 2005: I have no sympathy for you.
'You love your husband'?
You dont know the meaning of the word.
Why on earth did you get married? Here is some advice - get it annulled. You have no respect for him, and i can only hope you seperate before a ch... (read in full...)
She blows hot and cold...where do I stand?
Q. dear cupid, Well !it's been just over 6 months since my girlfriend and I broke up after being together over 3 years. Since breaking up, my life has been a roller coaster of emotions ! My ex-girlfriend would not talk to me one day and then the nex...
A. 3 December 2005: Well mate, this girl is playing with your emotions all right, and the roller coaster will continue until you take some decisive action, something I am glad to see you have already started to do.
Optimistically she might be having difficul... (read in full...)
My future girlfriend knows all about my upcoming divorce and I don't understand why she's avoiding me!
Q. This is a really tricky one and I would appreciate it if you would read the whole thing first. I am 28 and have been with the same woman for about 10 years. We have been married for 3 years and are now expecting our first child. The last 6 years...
A. 3 December 2005: Ok, I think you are going to have to face facts, and I am going to tell you what they are – it’s a free world, and anyone is free to be with, or not be with, whomever they want.
This girl has decided you are not for her, and she has spelled ... (read in full...)
My husband has threatened...either the pet dog goes or he moves out!
Q. I am a newlywed, married in August. When my husband and I were dating, I had a dog. My husband had never owned pets in his life, but seemed okay with it. Some months before the wedding, my dog was killed. I was grief stricken, but I always knew ...
A. 3 December 2005: Hi,
Get rid of the dog.
My ‘Ex’ was a dog lover, and to appease her I allowed her to get a dog – then another to appease her even more. I didn’t want a dog at all, but I am a flexible person and didn’t want to deprive her of anything.
It ... (read in full...)
I trusted him to help a friend...then he left me for her! How do I stop the hurt?
Q. Make me feel better ! I had been dating my now ex boyfriend for 3 years. One night at his house he recieved a phone call from a female friend who had discovered she was pregnant not by him, being the stupid person that I am and trusting that the...
A. 1 December 2005: This guy is going to break your heart over and over.
He has no respect for your feelings, so i wouldnt care if he loved you or not, the fact is that he doesnt respect you, and you will not be happy in such a relationship, even if he did say he w... (read in full...)
He was difficult to live with so I moved out. Now we miss each other! Do we try again?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year now.. Everything has been PERFECT! I mean perfect... until I moved in with him. We didn't see each other any more or less but something wasn't right. I know I over-reacted alot but it seemed like he just ...
A. 1 December 2005: Hi,
Nearly EVERY relationship goes through a bad spell when you move in together, it is just part of the process of getting used to being in the same house,
Just because you fought a lot during this 'adjustment period' doesnt mean you will al... (read in full...)
My wife was molested as a child and is suffering depression. Now...she hardly wants sex anymore!
Q. My wife was touched by her dad as a child and has suffered from depression. She is on medication.She hardly wants sex anymore and I like to have sex. Every time I ask I get turned down. Whenever I try to talk to her about sex she gets very ...
A. 1 December 2005: Hi, I think you need to look a little deeper. Why are you assuming her lack of sex drive is because of her childhood experience - it might be, but it might not.
She might just be getting bored with the sex, is it routine in any way (always ... (read in full...)
Can a book make a girl dump a boy?
Q. my girlfriend has just bought a book called is he realy just that into you she told me that 6 of her girlfriends had red it and they all broke up with their boyfriends now i am sceard she will leave me how can a book do this for all these girls to ...
A. 29 November 2005: Oh great a big feminist book, This book is all about women getting power in the relationship or else ending it so that they can find another sap to whip into shape. It is NOT about maintaining an equal fulfilling relationship. This... (read in full...)
Can you be in love with someone yet cheat on them?
Q. Is it possible for a bloke to cheat on his wife/ fiance and still be in love with her? Can you still be in love with someone and cheat on them?...
A. 29 November 2005: I would say probably yes, it is possible to tell someone you love them, and yet have no respect for them. I would usually advise ending any relationship where there has been cheating. If its a first misdemeanour, it is usually the first of many, p... (read in full...)
We became lovers but then she went back to her boyfriend...help!
Q. A friend of mine split with her boyfriend, i was there for her and we became closer, and eventually lovers. Her boyfriend then came back, asked her to marry her and she accepted. I'm very happy for her, but can't get her out of my head - the ...
A. 29 November 2005: Poor you, you ignored 3 long standing rules about getting involved with people and expecting long term relationships. 1. Dont get involved with friends. They dont always work out, as you have got together mostly through the 'comfort' factor... (read in full...)
My husband wants a DNA test done on our child-I feel humiliated!
Q. What should I do if my husband goes ahead with a DNA test? Based on a joke years ago, now my husband wants to do a DNA test on our child. I feel a biggest insult/humiliation in my life. I know I can not prevent him to do the test. But if he goes a...
A. 29 November 2005: Well, one thing is for sure, the more determined you are to prevent this happening, the more he is going to wonder what you have to hide. There is no use trying the ‘breaks the trust’ angle now, you have already broken the trust by making him feel... (read in full...)
How do I get my ex-girlfriend to understand that we have a future
Q. Hi. My X-Girlfriend and I have been going out for nearly three years. I was her first boyfriend and she was my second. Our relationship, as it has started when we were rather young (16) has seen both of us change considerably. Over the years, ...
A. 29 November 2005: Hi, I found your question extremely interesting, and I hope you don’t mind if I respond just as lengthily. I think your girlfriend feels a little in awe of you, and your confidence and whole zest for life attitude is making her feel very... (read in full...)
Does she really care enough to want me back?
Q. I had a relationship with this girl,she told me one day,its over and i said "cool" even though i was hurt inside.She dated another guy but she has left her recenlty.she is now sending sms's and emails telling me she still cares.i realy still love ...
A. 29 November 2005: Hi, Well if you are going to play the odds I would say that it is highly unlikely you will have a good long term relationship with this girl. Her attraction towards you would have had to drop to a low level to break up the relationship. It is... (read in full...)
How do I get over this break up?
Q. I'm trying to get my head around being dumped. My now ex boyfriend and i were together for quite a few months and i loved him inside out. I knew he had problems from the start with alchol as i had heard from his friends about last christmas him ...
A. 29 November 2005: Hi, Poor you, you sound like a lovely girl, but for some reason are tied to an abusive boyfriend. You do sound like a very understanding and patient girlfriend, and I wish there was more girls like you where I live. Unfortunately for you thi... (read in full...)
We fight over our collective future. We patch things up, but then we do it all again!
Q. Hi, I hope someone can help me out. My girl-friend and I have been in a relationship for many years now. A major problem in our relation is that we fight a lot, mainly about the future. She wants to concentrate on marriage etc while I want to ...
A. 29 November 2005: Hi, Based on the limited info there, I would say your chances of long term happiness in this relationship are quite slim. Marriage vs. Career: These options are so diametrically opposed that I honestly don’t see a long term solution that will m... (read in full...)
My partner has convinced everyone that I'm the mean and nasty one... but he treats me terribly!
Q. I have been in a relationship for over 15 years. Right from the start my life has been dictated to either directly or indirectly by his family. I am not allowed to enjoy anything that I used to love passionately (I still love, but scared to try and ...
A. 19 November 2005: Oh my God, my heart goes out to you, this is as destructive a relationship as i have ever read about. I can tell you for a fact this other person in your life does not love you. None of his actions are about love, they are about control, which he ... (read in full...)
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