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Is our affair all right? He is married but not living with her.

Q.   Well, I am not asking for the "morally right" answer, but just varying opinions. Let me start by saying that neither of us are children, in the 40-50 area. At this point in our lives, we have lived through many different situations, and honestly, ...

A.   3 October 2007: well if you need an okay to set you mind at easy it doesnt sound like an okay thing to have, think of hes wife she may love him and he did marry he and if it wasnt for more reasons than the baby then hes mistake its very wrong to have a relati... (read in full...)

This man left me because he made another girl pregant. After months he emails saying they lost the pregnancy. He knows I want him back. Should I go back?

Q.   A man i was madly in love with left me a few months ago because he made another girl pregnant. I still am not over it and cry everyday asking why? He did leave me and said he would give it a try with this girl because he did have feelings for her ...

A.   3 October 2007: like a little memo says how can you speak to me after you broke my fucking heart he messed up and walked out and now he doesnt have hes little family he wants to come make deeper wonds for you? wow block him and keep him out your life al... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!

Q.   Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...

A.   2 October 2007: no what i ment was that i could delet it from where i click on my questions not from the site... (read in full...)

Does this mean he likes me?

Q.   ok i know this sounds stupid by i need some help i think this boy likes me and shows me these signs my m8s says he does but im not so sure,so can you help with some of these signels that he does sometimes and tell me what you think? He punches ...

A.   30 September 2007: well i say hes a lil sweet on you and trying to show you in a lil odd way to us woman lol but anyways go for him if you like him and if not than leave him where he stands but be friends good luck to you ... (read in full...)

I've always been hetero, gay images are not sexually exciting for me, but I enjoyed my experience with a transsexual. How come?

Q.   i am 66, a widower, no children living at home. i been alone about 10 years. my sexual orientation has always been hetero, men never attracted me. through my work, i have become acquainted with a black transsexual, very pretty, very feminine. my ...

A.   30 September 2007: well im not real sure what to tell you but i do in fact think you were turned on my you think of it as a her and you were just in the moment with everything so she had a dick so what does that make you gay no because you dont like men even tho... (read in full...)

She cheated on me, and I was going to propose! How do I get through this?

Q.   me and my girlfriend have just broke up because she has had sex last wendnesday with a random bloke in the toilets of a night club and i was going to propose to her how do i get over this with as little pain as possible?....

A.   29 September 2007: erase her much as possible out of your life, and give it time because thats all you can do but if she's around time wont help she will just open those stabing wonds that she made good luck ... (read in full...)

For his 16th he wants to eat at every fast food place in the area.

Q.   In three weeks time my 15-year-old son will become 16. I've asked him what he wants to do for his birthday, and he said he wants to eat out at every McDonald's, Burger King and Pizza Hut in the area. I've said to him he can go to one of those r...

A.   29 September 2007: set ground rules for him even if it is hes birthday your still incontroll so just say no i wont take you to all of them and pay for what you want, let him know you are the parents and hes still the child no mater of what hes age is and intill he is ... (read in full...)

He wants to do me "deep and hard" and "hardcore"... what does it all mean and will it hurt?

Q.   hiya, you no if a boy wants to have sex with me yes what does he meaan by doing it deep and hard??will this hurt due to it being my first time having sex??he also said he wants to do me hard core is this painfull or will i enjoy it?? and is it norm...

A.   28 September 2007: your way tooooooooo young by you asking this question wait intill your old enough to have sex and be mature about it get on the pill frist and have safe sex but also know what to do the least you are cluless and just shows your to inmature to be ... (read in full...)

Is "living together for the kids" possible... ?

Q.   i have been going through a really difficult time with my husband and have tried everything to sort it out and have come to the conclusion that there is no point on trying anymore.the dilema is neither of us can afford to move out does anyone think ...

A.   28 September 2007: i think it would be better if he just wass out of your picture but he can still be there father but not living in the same house plus he needs to get hes act together coke isnt something to be taken likly and you should seek him help but also kic... (read in full...)

My fiancee and I recently moved... but she keeps calling her dad back in Texas and seems unable to move on!

Q.   My fiance and i recently moved to reno from texas, her father is in texas and they talk at least seven times a day and it seems that she cant get on with her life because she is so preoccupied with her father. Unfortuantely this is taking its toll ...

A.   28 September 2007: thats her dad you cant tell her not to miss him they may have a close relationship and shes taking the move kinda hard so give her time and stop being so selfish you cant always be the only man in her life... (read in full...)

Am I wrong in being disappointed that it's always me spending the $$ and making the effort?

Q.   My boyfriend and I are in a long distance relationship and have been for about 4 years while we both finish school in different states. I'm planning on moving out there at the end of this upcoming summer when I graduate. I love him so much, and do ...

A.   28 September 2007: not at all hun you have ever right to be upset with him and i know its hard to talk about money, exspecially if its hes money been there but you dont deserve something as its the thought that counts and you should talk to him on how you feel about ... (read in full...)

I'm a geek and I like him! Do I have a chance?

Q.   hi i like this boy but im a total geek and im ugly and that i feel like theres not a chance with this boy because he barely notices me and he always hangs out with the popular girls and they are much prettier than me.he has spoken to me but i feel ...

A.   28 September 2007: just be your self dont go changing for some guy okay hun so not worth it and well i can tell you as in school i was popular but really never laughd at the other girls that hit on my guy friends or flirted with them, but thats just me i guess some... (read in full...)

I like him a lot but scared he will like the prettier girls! What should I do?

Q.   Ok, so there is this boy in my class who I really like. He likes me too, but he also like the new student in our class. She is from Cuba, and although I wouldn't consider her much prettier than me, she is wayyy more "developed" than me, or anyone ...

A.   28 September 2007: talk to him thats the best thing but to tell you at that age he is he probly wont be with you long so i would wait and be friends see where it goes and she might as well be a faze also as she gots what he likes up top and every where boys ... (read in full...)

The day after we argued, he got a text from his ex asking "how'd it go?" Was he discussing our problems with her??

Q.   I found a text message from his ex girlfriend. I've never been the suspicious type but lately my boyfriend and I have been going through a rocky patch. We had a really big arguement early on in September, which nearly caused us to break up, but we ...

A.   28 September 2007: well i am glad all went well between you and him and hope that you to are past this now and if anything it will make you atronger ... (read in full...)

I found out my fiancee is planning on leaving me. What do I do?

Q.   i found out through seeing fiancee's history and bookmarks on our computer that she's planning to leave me, 'Do I marry my fiance or go off with my lover?' posted on this site and others, and i'm devastated. i've never been able to satisfy her like ...

A.   28 September 2007: frist i gave advise to your fiance and i have read the post and really your post shows me as much as yours does you both care for each other but then dont want eachother so you use each other to deal with life there is a chance they coul... (read in full...)

SITE NEWS: Wanted, your ideas for features and improvements!

Q.   Hi I'm looking to get some input from everyone on what you'd like to see on the site. How can I make it easier to use? What new features would you like to see? Any annoyances or bugs you'd like to fix? Can I make the moderati...

A.   28 September 2007: i think making it were the questions and anwsers come in alot faster and then letting you write your own title to it and also letting you delete your past questions you have asked if you want to under your account where it says your questions ... (read in full...)

I have issues with self-confidence, and I get jealous when my girlfriend and her friends talk about hot guys. What should I do?

Q.   Hey - I'm a schoolkid and I think I have serious self confidence issues about the way I look etc. I have a girlfriend who I really love, its just... She talks to her friends and stuff about who in our year is fit/hot etc, and I kind of get the ...

A.   27 September 2007: well my perspective on this whole thing is that its not pathetic because your a guy at all being jealious can be hard in a relationship as you feel your every move is watch and judged by your bf and simple it gets on my nevers girls look too but ... (read in full...)

We have a great relationship, but lately I feel he's growing further away from me! What can I do?

Q.   Ok so i guess i should start by saying that my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 10months now. Things were a bit strange to start off with; we were best friends before. Anyway, we have a great relationship but lately i feel he's grow...

A.   27 September 2007: hes depressed and really they only thing you can do is get him help for it and wait and see as your there for him, he probley doesnt mean to shut you out he just does and doesnt mean to ... (read in full...)

We are drifting apart, but I am getting closer to a female friend...

Q.   My wife and I have been married for 4 years now. Over the past year especially she has been becoming distant. I wirk alot and she complains that I am never home. I tried to change that this summer. I am usually home by 6 or 7. However anytime I ...

A.   27 September 2007: well if you love your wife than you should give your marrige a chance and cut off all connections to this female friend having her around will just make things worse for you as you have feelings for your female friend and may give you a big case of ... (read in full...)

Was my teacher flirting with me?

Q.   could teachers hit on you and flirt with you? i had this in the past and they were female teachers i had had. they would touch me on the shoulders, arms, wrists, hands, etc. one of them tried to get very close body contact with me and mostly they ...

A.   27 September 2007: i agree with rcn this behavior isnt acceptable from a teacher and you shouldnt feel as its a flirt it is much more which they need help with so seek it by telling someone who can help ... (read in full...)

I have a large 'hanging' labia lip... Will this put him off oral which he says he's up for?

Q.   Hi!, me n my boyfrined were talking n he mentioned that he's always like to go down on me and im totally up for it, and tbh i'd like to too! only problem is, that i have large 'hanging' labia lips n im worried he will find this wierd! is this a...

A.   27 September 2007: talk to him before you 2 do it and see hes viewa on it all good luck my advise cant help you with hes opion sorry you'll just have to ask... (read in full...)

My ex's brother won't be in a relationship w/ me even though the break-up was a year ago! I don't want to give up on him - what should I do?

Q.   Please help me! I was in a bad relationship for 3 years and even lived with my ex's family for about a year and in that time I fell for my ex's younger brother. Since my ex was hardly ever around and his brother was, we found out we had more in ...

A.   27 September 2007: i think you need to walk away its done hewants you for sex nothing more and he gets it if he cared and wanted you he would be with you now no mater what so give him up and find better best of luck... (read in full...)

I hate how the only guys that seem to like me are online. What can I do to solve this painful problem?

Q.   I have really bad luck when it comes to guys. I am 17, and have never had a boyfriend. But here's the thing: I met this guy online, and we've been friens for 2 years, He says he really likes me, And i like him too. I want to meet him so badly, ...

A.   27 September 2007: well there really is no way to solve it because no mater if you see him it wont make it better just worse as hes going to be so far away after you return home or he leaves and the only ways to have a normal relationship would for some one to take a ... (read in full...)

The day after we argued, he got a text from his ex asking "how'd it go?" Was he discussing our problems with her??

Q.   I found a text message from his ex girlfriend. I've never been the suspicious type but lately my boyfriend and I have been going through a rocky patch. We had a really big arguement early on in September, which nearly caused us to break up, but we ...

A.   26 September 2007: well here goes i think he cares for you but has feelings for the ex too as what her text said it seems as the both agreed to break up with there partners and be together besides your bf didnt go thru with it or just not yet, talk with him and tell... (read in full...)

I expected to be comforted after my grandmother's passing, but instead my gf broke up with me! I want her back - what's my next move?

Q.   Hi, I have just recently split up with my girlfriend. We have had an amazing year and a bit with each other but she has just suddenly told me she wants to split up. I have taken this very hard. Recently my Grandma has passed away and returnin...

A.   26 September 2007: frist i am sorry about your grandmother and second there is no next move with her but in life is to hurt it all out and pick your self up and try again, she left you and didnt want you to change so there really isnt much you could do but give her... (read in full...)

I started feeling weak, I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint...

Q.   Hi There! I don't know quite how to explain this! But within the last hour, for at least 10 minutes I started feeling weak; I was trembling, my legs felt like jelly, my head feeling really heavy and I felt as though I was going to faint! I'm stil...

A.   26 September 2007: wow this is the best advise i can give you as me my self being and xmodel and i quit for this reason, you probley have low blood sugar i have it also from all the diets i have put my self thru to be who i was but not anymore im more beautiful now ... (read in full...)

Do you think what I did was cheating?

Q.   I have been married for 14 years and a year ago my best friend and I had too much to drink and we kissed for less then 2 minutes(female). I told my husband yesterday and he said I cheated so it's over. Do you think that is cheating?...

A.   26 September 2007: well wow as i read some of these opions i wonder what gives them the right to say these things in the manner of which is wrong!! okay yes you hurt your husban by kissing your best friend, then waiting a year to actually tell him but i do think h... (read in full...)

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