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I've always been hetero, gay images are not sexually exciting for me, but I enjoyed my experience with a transsexual. How come?

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Question - (29 September 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 30 September 2007)
A male United States age , anonymous writes:

i am 66, a widower, no children living at home. i been alone about 10 years. my sexual orientation has always been hetero, men never attracted me. through my work, i have become acquainted with a black transsexual, very pretty, very feminine. my wife was black and since boyhood i have always liked black girls a lot.

tina, not her real name, flirted with me a bit and on impulse, i asked her to dinner and a movie. she accepted. afterwards, she asked me in when i took her home. she made me a drink, went into her bedroom to change and came back out in a teddy. i gulped my drink! she walked up to me and began using her fingertips to caress my cock through my pants.

she had been very affectionate all night, so i should have not been surprised, but i was. she said not to worry, she would do me and that would be all that we would do. i found myself very turned on and she performed, most expertly, oral on me. i seemed to not be in control of myself, i undressed her. we did everything. i had a penis in my mouth for the very first time.

i performed anal on her and after much preparation, she did the same for me. performing oral sex on her was not revolting like i had always imagined it would be and the anal turned out to be very pleasant, though i felt rather constipated the next day (is that normal?). of course i was very confused in my feelings the next day. i went to a gay web site to see if the images would be sexually exciting for me, but they werent. they seemed, well, uninspiring, insipid, my thing stayed limp. so what's up here? i don't get myself.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (30 September 2007):

Maybe you just got excited at something new.

Or maybe it wass a one of thing...

If you want to be sure try it again and find out what happens.

You could just be bisexual and you havent realised it.

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A female reader, drastic knowledge United States +, writes (30 September 2007):

drastic knowledge agony auntwell im not real sure what to tell you but i do in fact think you were turned on my you think of it as a her and you were just in the moment with everything

so she had a dick so what does that make you gay no because you dont like men even thow she was one at one time but now she acts as a female so you were into the female part of her and you just got into the moment

had fun right ?

well now its up to you if you like that or not if anything you maybe bi sexual but thats it

good luck and there is nothing wrong with you

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