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writes:me and my girlfriend have just broke up because she has had sex last wendnesday with a random bloke in the toilets of a night club and i was going to propose to her how do i get over this with as little pain as possible?.
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reader, s from wales +, writes (30 September 2007):
 i no how you feel, it was the other way round for me, my boyfriend whom i worshipped done it to me very recently, its the most horrible empty feeling, as its fresh in your mind at the moment you will have mixed feelings coz you still love her, like me, i still love my boyfriend to peices, i dont no what to do, just like you, i would still like to go back with him, but the person thats cheated has to be truly sorry and even still its going to very hard, its early days for you and me and at the moment, i am taking each day as it comes, i know how devatsated you feel, my heart has been broken, for me and for you i hope we get through this and learn a very big lesson, i thought are relationship was perfect but it goes to show that its not, we was even trying for a baby, which made things even harder, i do feel for you, xxx.
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reader, Skatanic +, writes (30 September 2007):
Completely and utterly cut her out of your life. Delete everything regarding her on the computer, get rid of any pictures, gifts (if a girl who would have sex in a bathroom would give you gifts), everything.
You don't deserve that sort of rubbish, and the best way to move on is make it as easy as possible for you to forget about her.
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reader, drastic knowledge  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 erase her much as possible out of your life,
and give it time because thats all you can do but if she's around time wont help she will just open those stabing wonds that she made
good luck
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reader, eddie  +, writes (29 September 2007):
 Any person who is love and goes and has sex in a bathroom with another person is not worthy of your love. It's not even as though she fell in love with the other guy, it was cheap random sex. Although it hurts, be thankful you found out.
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reader, Dr T  +, writes (29 September 2007):
Kennys right bro..
Better you found out now than in a couple of years when youre married to someone who shags strange blokes in the loo at clubs! Sounds to me like youre FAR better off without her... just keep reminding yourself of that. Now you can go ahead and find a woman who is worthy of your love, respect and one day your proposal of marriage. They are out there, just hard to find!
Best of luck Brother
Dr T
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reader, agony_emz +, writes (29 September 2007):
 hi there !
im so sorry to hear about that i know how you feel!
what i think you should do is ask her why she did it, as when i had the same done i didnt ask why and it left me wondering if it was something i had done wrong! and that is one of the worst feelings ever!
if she says that it happend because she was drunk that isnt an excuse as you can still go out have a good time and still remember that you are in a relationship!
you have to realise that everything happens for a reason and things will probably get worse before getting better!
i really hope things work out for you just remember your friends and family are there for you x
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (29 September 2007):
 Look at it this way, its good that you found out this about her before you proposed, rather than after. Im sorry she did this to you, but at the end of the day you know that this is not the sort of girl that you would want to marry, you can do so much better than this. Pick yourself up, dust yourself down and tell yourself there are girls out there that are respectful and will give you the love you so rightly deserve.
All the best
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