Do some girls just not like oral sex?
Q. Hello, well i'm with my GF for 6 months, and we love and trust each other, maybe in 2-3 months she will move to my place.We're having sex really often each 2-3 days, but as i noticed she likes blowjobs but dislike when i'm performing it to her(oral ...
A. 29 December 2009: well
w0trh-it- gues i should say thanks to her, that she is so nice, to me.
q1605 - i think you say good things, i have this stereotip idea, that if she gives me pleasur then , i should give her imperatively.And it's all in my head, if it works... (read in full...)
Any insight into these frightening dreams?
Q. Hi--help? I keep having the strangest of dreams and premonitions. My ex, whom I love very much, dies. It's usually in a skiing accident or a nonspecific vision of him in the hospital. This has been coming and going for some 9 months, and part ...
A. 28 December 2009: well in different cultures dreams can be interpretated differently.In eastern culture(rusia,ukraine) we say that when we see death of a dear person that means that an evenement will come.Most of the time it is good.If you see him in the sky, then i ... (read in full...)
Why does my husband think showing me his flaccid penis is a turn on?
Q. Married 6 years and very happy. My husband is 15 years older than me but eveyone who knows would say I am the mature party in our relationship. We have a toddler and our sex life is gearing back up now that nights are less interrupted and back to ...
A. 28 December 2009: well in sex, with your partner try telling it to him without hurting.Be straight, there's no option if of course you want your sex,and relationship to grow :) hope i've helped... (read in full...)
Been bullied and I have no self-confidence..how do I fix my life?
Q. ok well my life is f**ked atm im being bullied at school and have been 4 years because of this i have no self confidence so i can not talk to the girl im madlly inlove with im doing ok in school but my grads are starting to slip im going into my ...
A. 28 December 2009: hey man, be more calm.Life is simple, i had a friend who was in your situation try watching some selfconfident movies.Try thinking about it, if you don't aproach that girl wi'll never know.And You will know you r answer in 30 seconds after you ... (read in full...)
If porn is no big deal, it shouldn't be hard for him to choose, right?
Q. Is there something wrong with me? At the beginning of my relationship with my boyfriend of years) i told him i hate porn. If he watched it, he's gone. End of story. Reasons being, the girls are someones duaghters, yet they allow themselves to have ...
A. 28 December 2009: Hi, i can be wrong,but in my oppinion you are a bit over reacting and over protected.It's discasting porn, but it's like a fantasie.I see you are 16-17, then are you a virgin maybe?if yes then it's normal what you think.... (read in full...)
Our affair was exposed and my reputation is at stake!
Q. I had an affair with a married man. About a year ago we started hanging out and a kiss led to touching, and touching led to sex. We had sex 3 different times and hung out from time to time after that. I have not seen him in about 9 months and then ...
A. 28 December 2009: that's a crappy situation, maybe try calling the man that you had a affair... ask him.Try remebering, you didn't do photos,videos etc...... (read in full...)
Does he deserve a second chance?
Q. The other day I ran into the guy I was seeing over the summer. He ended it with me because he still had feelings for his ex. Well he went back to his ex and ended it agaaain with her. He has been chasing me ever since Aug. He said it was a big ...
A. 28 December 2009: Hi, i think you should give him another chance, i think he is a guy that learns on his mistakes.Maybe just ask him about his ex, if he has some fealings left.Good luck... (read in full...)
How often should I email him?
Q. How often is it ok to e mail a male friend youve recently met-no romance but has given his e mail to you without being too desperate?? What sort of things does one put in an e mail when you like him but dont want to scare him off? Thanks ...
A. 26 December 2009: well it's difficult to say, first of all he should be interested in you.Try writting as much time as he is, but don't write more (words,phrases) then he does.if you'll write a "romance" you will scare him.... (read in full...)
How do I go about meeting the right girl?
Q. Hi, I've been single for a while (about 6 months), and now I'd like to get back out there and get a girlfriend. I'm a nice fella, about average looks, and what i'd really like is a woman who's funny smart and can take things easy. how do i...
A. 26 December 2009: wow if you say you meet such women, then it's stange, believe me you'll find your second part. May be the fact that you were single 6 months , now you are a bit shy?! one suggestion, try searching try everything with every girl you see or ... (read in full...)
Do some girls just not like oral sex?
Q. Hello, well i'm with my GF for 6 months, and we love and trust each other, maybe in 2-3 months she will move to my place.We're having sex really often each 2-3 days, but as i noticed she likes blowjobs but dislike when i'm performing it to her(oral ...
A. 26 December 2009: ok i'll try to talk and reason or change something. But the thing that there exist girls who don't really like receiving, that kind of helps me a bit. ... (read in full...)
Do some girls just not like oral sex?
Q. Hello, well i'm with my GF for 6 months, and we love and trust each other, maybe in 2-3 months she will move to my place.We're having sex really often each 2-3 days, but as i noticed she likes blowjobs but dislike when i'm performing it to her(oral ...
A. 25 December 2009: Well i gues the probleme isn't that she doens't like it....she does like it, but only when she is doing it to me,she told me that it turns her on 10 times more when giving me a blowjob.And i'm a bit confused about it.May be it's because of her past ... (read in full...)
How can I not be bitchy when my boyfriend is madly in love with his ex?
Q. so my boyfriend and i are packing to move out of his old house..sounds good so far right? and we are moving to florida..sounds even better huh? well while in the process of packing today i watched him pack pictures of his exgirlfriend of 5 years who ...
A. 22 December 2009: So that's good for you :) just tel him you don't like those pictures,he'll understand.Pictures doens't meen he loves her, just memorie.:)good luck... (read in full...)
Is this wrong? That I asked her for a kiss?
Q. If you ask a girl if you could kiss her and see where it'd would go. Is that rude? I thought this girl was going to end up giving me another chance to be with her.. So when I dropped her home.. I gave her a hug, and very gentleman like, grabbed ...
A. 21 December 2009: Well it's true if she says to you no, and gives the cheek that may seem that you are in the friends zone, but that can also say i just want to know you better.You know not every women kisses and has sex first date.Try to call her, have another date, ... (read in full...)
Why is he cooling off?
Q. We've been dating for 4 months. He used to pay a lot of attention but now it's different. He talks more to his friends and replies my messages really slow. He doesn't put in effort into our relationship. He never gave me gifts. And we don't go to ...
A. 21 December 2009: Well there is a option: do the same thing as he does, reply the next day , may him worry etc.But the other option just ask him wy did you reply at my msg so long... He is 17-18, he should have also some fun and not to be 24/7 with his GF.But b... (read in full...)
How can I turn around our sex life?
Q. Hi everyone, I have been with my girlfriend for 6 months now. We have known each other for a few years prior to us hooking up. She is really sweet and kind towards me, and i love her to bits. She has spent quite a lot on me this Christmas, as i have ...
A. 21 December 2009: Hi , well you should talk to her, because at 27, for a relationship to work everything should be great:sex,talking, kissing ,finance, etc... And try finding a moment when you are only alone, i think you can do it.when your parents aren't home,or ... (read in full...)
How do you get over being replaced?
Q. You might think this is stupid because alot of people say young people dont know what love is but im 16 and split up with my boyfriend around 2 months ago, we were together for about a year and a half and he broke up with me, and I cant get over ...
A. 21 December 2009: hi, sorry for your situation, love exists at all ages, but we can interpratate it diferently.In your case in my oppinion you should fight by your own, try thinking that he was to stupid and didn't see the nice girl you are, so you have to move on!! ... (read in full...)
Should I give this relationship time?
Q. I am very in love with my boyfriend of 3yrs, we have been off and on but for the most part on. Lately we have been arguing over things that dont even matter to me like him not working and me making money and not wanting to spend it on us, which is ...
A. 21 December 2009: Well do'nt think that it's over, your just in a fight.Try talking to him, and play "his game" i meen even if he tells you things tha tare totaly fualse or bad, stay calme, it's you who wants tha t your relationship continues.If you aren't agree ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to work things out after he lied and cheated?
Q. So... this is all new to me. i have never asked strangers to help me with my relationship but at this point maybe this is the best thing for me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years now. The summer of 2008 he broke things o...
A. 21 December 2009: I'm sorry that you are leaving through such a dificult situation, and i do realise how it's difficult when someone cheats on you.I'm a bit pesimist, so don't be angry with what will i tell you.When someone cheats it's really difficult, and to regain ... (read in full...)
How can I not be bitchy when my boyfriend is madly in love with his ex?
Q. so my boyfriend and i are packing to move out of his old house..sounds good so far right? and we are moving to florida..sounds even better huh? well while in the process of packing today i watched him pack pictures of his exgirlfriend of 5 years who ...
A. 21 December 2009: hi, well this is really unpleasent reaction...but don't worry be more strong then you are talk to him, put him some conditions...i know my gf did that and it worked.If he does such things with you, mouving to florida,you in the same house ... (read in full...)
Why do we sometimes feel guilty after making love?
Q. Why do we sometimes feel guilty after making love? I'm sure it's different for everyone (if you're cheating on someone then it's pretty obvious). But guilt and having sex are often times associated with each other. Why do you think this is so?...
A. 21 December 2009: i agree about "CaringGuy" but there is also onother explanation, maybe you imagined better then it was in reallity...=)you know soetimes guys aren't so experts in bed as they are in relationship)) hope i've helped
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I need guy help - it seems like our relationship is starting to be based on sex!
Q. me and my boyfriend have been going out for eight months now and things have been a little shaky. i told him that i was keeping my virginity until marriage before we even went out and all this time i've kept it. the thing is every time i come over ...
A. 16 December 2009: Well, let's say in every relationship is based on sacrifice.Each part should do something for the couple.I really happy that you have such principe about virginity,good for you, not everybody has the courage to do that. But on the other side try to ... (read in full...)
If I don't chase her will she lose interest or lose the love she has for me?
Q. hi. my name is mike. i met my ex girlfriend last november and we have had a fantastic relationship. she would tell me everyday how much she loves me and how much she appreciates me. we never fight and we have always been on the same page. there is a ...
A. 16 December 2009: Hi, well i read your syory and really i see you do care about her.There exist such girls that can be depresive etc...in my oppinion you shouldn't chase her neither do the first step.Because if you do chase her, then she'll be more depresive,...you ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'm getting too much sex!
Q. Hello dear eaders, well i'm 22 and my GF is 19, we are together 5 months.We have sex 2-4 times per day each 2-3 days.And i didn't look at the watch, but maybe 1 sex act is like 40-50 minutes...so i wanted to ask is it normal? or it's addiction.We ...
A. 16 December 2009: thank you for your answers))
yes we are happy, and eve more she sad that she would like much more=) and yes we are doing lot's of activities,tennis theatre, museum,swimming...etc =) we even cook at my place together=))
Tanks again for your asnwers ... (read in full...)
My b/f sends me poetry, but he doesn't write it himself!
Q. Every so often, in an e-mail my bf will send me a poem. Call me a skeptic or whatever, but I usually google the first few lines to see if this was original or if he copied it from somewhere else. Most of the time, they're copied from somewhere e...
A. 2 December 2009: I don't don't think that telling him or sending him e-mails with famous lyrics would be a could idea.He cares and sends you nice things...so don't ask him...he is just finding his feelings from other peoples words...it's nice i thing))... (read in full...)
We both said we'd delete our Facebook profiles but she still hasn't deleted hers yet!
Q. hi, ok i posted a question a couple of days, and here i am. Well i'm 22, I'm 2nd year university, i'm dating this girl for 5 months, everything is fine... but a couple of days i began to worry a lot... i'm texting her 3 maybe 4 times as usual. ...
A. 2 December 2009: but she explained me that it's only university friends...and in fact i was wrong...she did put our photos together....but still i don't like it.
thx by the way... (read in full...)
Computer game idea for g/f?
Q. Hi guys, I'll keep this short and sweet. I'm a computer games development student, and I want to make a nice little game for my girlfriend to play, nothing big and complex, but I want it to be fun and entertaining as well as cute and a reminder t...
A. 1 December 2009: why game? just do a small video , with a nice music all your photos etc....be creative)) or just look aother videos and do the same thing i meen as a sample...don't copy.... (read in full...)
The person I love is in an incestrous relationship... and I'm shocked!
Q. i am in love with a girl in my class we were friends since childhood, shes cute and smart and am totally over her so i wanted to confess to her but when i came to her house(we use to studying maths together) saw her making out savagely with her ...
A. 1 December 2009: does this things till happen? or this is a joke, or on the other hand you should really forget that girl!! cause, it's unetheticaly,immoral..and discasting..
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Jealous of a girl who just got in with the family
Q. I am 23 years old and I am engaged to the most wonderful man in the world. We have been together for 6 years and for some reason I am still jealous. He has never given me a reason to be but I just am. We are always at his family's house and his ...
A. 1 December 2009: Well it's normal for your reaction, believe me.And i will dissapoint you.You will never change, and you'll be always jealous,because in my oppinion you care a lot of your husband and you are afraid to loose him.But try to controle your self, and ... (read in full...)
Should I talk to him?
Q. My friend and I about six months ago were having this little thing... I liked the same guy as her, I liked him after I hung out with him a couple of times... Me and him would text for two hours straight and never run out of something to talk...
A. 1 December 2009: bad idea!!!! if he dated your friend!! that' sbad idea!! very rare it turns right....so don't let your feelings gain over your rational part!!)
good luck... (read in full...)
My little sister is pushing me away
Q. hello everybedy, I have a problem with my sister, she is two years younger than me and she is a teenager now; all my life she was telling me everything, we used to share everything, there were no secrets between us, but now I feel like she is ...
A. 1 December 2009: hey don't be so sad, therse a good old classic way: talk to her one quite evening.and don't worry she is a teenager, it's normal she has secrets her space, her life, she'll have her bf...her parties...we all lived pass it.So be a good brother not a ... (read in full...)
My husband of four years watches gay porn and denies it! What should I do
Q. I have a real problem! My husband of four years watches gay porn online and denies it. We have two children and I’m 8 months pregnant with our third. I first caught him about two years ago. He refused to admit it! So, I confronted him with ...
A. 1 December 2009: well it really does sound serious, you can't do nothing...he sould see a specialist, cause if you want your mariage not to fall apart, you should talk about it together.Cause if not, you will feel really bad...i meen moraly.
Hope i've helped... (read in full...)
I really like him, but aren't guys supposed to ask the girl out?
Q. Well like I really like this guy and he trusts me with all of his secrets and I trust him with all mine. I told him I liked him and he said cool. I just heard he was single, but not for long. Him and his ex gf keep going on and off but I really want ...
A. 1 December 2009: Well, i have a question to ask you....does he like you as a friend or he likes you more then a friend?
Cause you can give hip a little idea to drink a cofee in the city, and it doesn't have to be a date,and you'll see when you're togother alon... (read in full...)
I'm a bit ashamed that I cant afford to buy her expensive gifts, should I tell her I don't have much money?
Q. Hi,i'm 22 and my girlfriend is 21 well we are dating together already 5 months, i'm 2 year university but shes already 4 year and working. We really like and even love each other. Recently she wrote me several letters that she's completly in love ...
A. 1 December 2009: thank you dear ladies for your answers, i really apreciate for so many answers.And maybe you're right, i should do like you advise me
xxx
good luck too you all.... (read in full...)
He wanted sex and I said no, so he broke up with me. Did I do the right thing?
Q. Hi friends, I need to talk to you,I would like some advice and but I don't want to go into full detail, but hopefully enough for you to help me. I had been dating this guy for 2 months until tonight. He ended things, because we were not havi...
A. 30 November 2009: Ok i see you had lot's of answers.I agree 50 % with them but the quesiton is why reject sex?is it so bad? and i'm sur as a women you had the idea of having sex with him if you were dating 2 months...and when did you want to have it?a week?month? Men ... (read in full...)
What do men experience during their 'first time'? How can I help him?
Q. I have a boyfriend who is a year younger than i am. He is 18 and i am ninteen. We have been together for a year and half now and he wants to lose his virginity with me. I am not a virgin, but i really dont know how will i "guide him." We have talked ...
A. 30 November 2009: well first time mens experience it's the same as last time...as C.Grant said, women it's different.
But first time just guide him, i'm sure he knows theoretically.It's not maths, he knows how it does but didn't do it.So help him when he blok... (read in full...)
What are the chances that we will be able to resolve this problem?
Q. My relationship of 4.5 years had developed some problems a few months ago. I think we just got a little too settled and were arguing about some petty things. Then things got much worse, and it turns out that my fiancee had begun talking to an old ...
A. 30 November 2009: Wow, you are really in love with that women.Bravo for loving her so much, but look at the fact: "you still like her" she has done lot's of bad things and she'll not be back, or if she'll be back that ont bring happines.So find your new way in ... (read in full...)
Does loving someone change the way sex feels?
Q. Hi all, To the men out there, this is one I hope you can help with, although I'd of course like the ladies' opinions too. I have been dating a man for over a year now and have always known that he was sexually much more experienced than I am....
A. 12 October 2009: Hi, well i think you 're to focused on thye idea that: "he has slept with thousends of women" , so what?! maybe that was the past..and he dumbed them because it wasn't interessting for him.And now as he found the right women at his age (he is over ... (read in full...)
Will a long distance relationship work for us?
Q. I have fallen in love with a 20 year old man from America and my problem is i AM 27, have a child and i AM living in England We talk every night sing talk on the phone and tell each other how much we love each other We haven't met yet and i wish i...
A. 12 October 2009: Hi, well i don't want to tell you beautiful stories, but i think it's impossible for you too. Because you don't know how is he there, :job,social status.It's really important before you go there.Convince him to come to england,you have a kid, don't ... (read in full...)
Am I in a love triangle?
Q. hello dear readers, so i sposted allready lot's of questions.The story is like this i've been seeing a girl for 4 months, and beetween us is real serios.She loves me and she does everything for me, we went o vacation together, she slept at my house ...
A. 11 October 2009: LethalInjection-x =thank you for your answer. You're right about that i shouldn't make a false impression on the other girl and put it clear between us.But i don't think that spltting would be a great idea,when people splitte for a period it's ... (read in full...)
I can't figure out what's wrong with my relationship!
Q. Hello everyone! My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 11 months now. We both graduated college. He has a job and Im still looking for one. He lives about 45 minutes away from me so we get to see each other about 2 times a week. Other th...
A. 6 October 2009: Well in my oppinion it's just a difficult time, work crazy schedule etc... and i'm a bit surprised why doesn't he make desicions in your relationship, maybe he is very tiered and has a lot of problems and wants you to understand him, or he is still ... (read in full...)
Is it good that my g/f tells me whenever guys hit on her?
Q. Hello dear reader. I’m 4th year of Med school I’m 22.Yeah my studies are really difficult. So I met a girl this summer don't know how to explain: but everything just went too fast. We kissed first day, we had sex 3 days after. And we went to have ...
A. 6 October 2009: anonymous male reader: yes it's a good thing, and i respect it,i should calm down...but a human person is like that:stress etc when you don't control things.thx
vampirik nikolas: she is sincere,her documents are allready in one of the universi... (read in full...)
I can't get over his dirty magazine habits!
Q. Hi All, i cant believe im am writing and asking for advice, ive always been the one giving out advice and never needed any before. I am one of these that tackle any problems i have had in my life and then just get on with it. But im at a loose en...
A. 6 October 2009: Hi, your message is really long, but I understand what you felt.Don't think bad but you're perfect as wife,women...you do everything foyour husbend.Maybe you were one of his first sex partner and he didn't have any more, so he is curious,but be ... (read in full...)
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