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Why is he cooling off?

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Question - (21 December 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 December 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

We've been dating for 4 months. He used to pay a lot of attention but now it's different. He talks more to his friends and replies my messages really slow. He doesn't put in effort into our relationship. He never gave me gifts. And we don't go to nice restaurants anymore. He even told me he doesn't want to make out anymore!

I'm not his priority. It seems that there're other things far more important and interesting than me.

I know I'm really high maintenance.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009):

If you gave him sex too soon there is nothing to look forward to.If you gain weight or act clingy just guessing.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (21 December 2009):

I could understand the restaurants if he can't afford it, and can even understand the gifts for the same reason. But not replying to messages and actually saying he doesn't want to make out shows this is over. If you're not his number 1 priority, he's not the guy for you.

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A male reader, doom France +, writes (21 December 2009):

doom agony auntWell there is a option: do the same thing as he does, reply the next day , may him worry etc.But the other option just ask him wy did you reply at my msg so long...

He is 17-18, he should have also some fun and not to be 24/7 with his GF.But bette rsolution is to talk to him)) hope it works

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