Will our baby have a birth defect? No judemental answers please.
Q. im having a relationship with my 1st cousin. I love him so much i would die for him and he would for me the thing is we want to have a baby but im afraid it might be born with a birth defect. I know what people are thinking were sick and its gros ...
A. 25 March 2010: The chances of your baby having some kind of birth defect is 4%. 2% higher then any ordinary couple! Do your research and don't listen to people that have no idea what they are talking about Get FACTS not opinions I have an uncle who married his ... (read in full...)
Is it safe to give my boyfriend a blow-job with braces on?
Q. My boyfriend of three years and I are both 20, we're both old enough to be responsible and know the consequences of sex and... tomorrow I get my braces. I've been waiting for them for about eight years now (since I was 12 and found out I actually ...
A. 22 January 2010: Braces will not get in your way But you said you are just about to get them so my advice is don't do anything for at least a week because your mouth will be sore wait until there is no pain and you feel comfortable with them!! I have braces so I ... (read in full...)
Is highschool fun?
Q. Im going into highschool after Summer, and I was wondering is it fun? And will guys take interest in me, finally? Thanks. P.S. - Anything else you can tell me about fun things to do in Highschool or if you had fun or anything would be great. ...
A. 22 January 2010: High school is whatever you make of it To be honest is a life changing experience is the time when you will really grow up find true friends maybe get your first heart break High school is all about drama and change every year you will find yourself ... (read in full...)
I am miserable when he is around, I am dreading him coming home!
Q. I'm really confused. I don't know if I want to be with the father of my child anymore. I care about him a lot and I know he cares about me but we have so many problems that I just don't think we'll be happy. I tell my friends about the things he has ...
A. 16 January 2010: No leave him you have a right to be happy your son can still have a relationship with him visits child support and everything else Sorry to say this but your mother has a very old fashion point of view if you are a good mother your son will be happy ... (read in full...)
How can I get it through my sister's head that I can't and will not raise her kid for her?
Q. When my sister had her daughter, I promised to help her take care of her (for example, babysit her while she's at school). I never promised to raise her kid for her. My sister is a very blessed (aka spoiled) fifteen year old, who got involved wit...
A. 16 January 2010: Make it clear to her that its her child and that you wont put up with her I understand she is your sister but sometimes you have to be mean to get through to people And when she throws a tantrum just walk away if you can leave the house and leave ... (read in full...)
Was my mom right to give my cat away?
Q. hey i`ve been really upset as today my mum told me that she had to give my cat poppy away i really loved this cat but my mum has a massive fear of birds and poppy brought them in every few days i walked in my room and i saw poppys cat hairs...
A. 11 January 2010: I really understand what you feel I am an animal lover myself and about three years ago I had a cat named Charily I bottle fed this cat because he couldn't eat on his own when I fist got him he was so little I could hold him in the palm of my hand ... (read in full...)
Why can I only get turned on by my girlfriend? Porn does nothing for me and I'm starting to worry!
Q. Ok this may not seem urgent or even useful but at the moment I am in a very strange predicament, not serious or bad in anyway I do not think but never the less it is quite how should I put, well bugger it it is pure strangeness for me. My girlfriend ...
A. 7 January 2010: That is so nice I hope this will happen to my boyfriend LOL Dont worry about it and let her know I bet she wull be thrilled!!!... (read in full...)
After I couldnt make her orgasm I feel like a failure and I have lost my sex drive! But if I don't make passes at her she thinks I'm cheating! What can I do?
Q. Hi im 24 and me and my fiancee have been together 2yrs. we are both pretty insecure people but are expecting our first child any minute now. im very stressed atm and finding work mentally demanding alongside all the preparations for baby. anyway now ...
A. 4 January 2010: Keep trying if that makes her feel better and don't feel bad sometimes during pregnancy it gets harder for women to orgasm sometimes they won't have orgasms at all is just part of all the changes the body goes through when expecting a child ... (read in full...)
My parents forbid me to date him but shouldn't I give love a real chance?
Q. I'm going to make the question brief, followed by some background information which you may choose or choose not to read - I think it would be useful to read all of it though lol. Is there a problem with an 18 year-old girl dating a 24 year...
A. 4 January 2010: wow I can relate with you a lot just like you I'm 18 and my boyfriend is 24 the only difference being I have known him for half of my life we dated for about 4 years and back in 2008 we broke up mainly because of my mother she forbid me to see him ... (read in full...)
Is it possible my boyfriend has changed for good?
Q. Do people ever truly change? When my bf and I were first together, we had a lot of problems with the way he treated me. He treated me pretty badly and didnt seem to really be with me for who I am. He seemed to only want sex as he would continuall...
A. 4 January 2010: I think he has changed guys go through a stage in their lives where all they want to do is play games and follow their boys until they grow out of it and something kind of goes off in there head and they realize there is more to life I think that's ... (read in full...)
How can I fix our relationship after I found out about his double life?
Q. me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost a year now , we were best friends for two years before he finally asked me out , just before he asked me out i found that he had like around 50 chicks sending him nude pictures and he was playing all ...
A. 4 January 2010: Don't try to fix anything leave things as they are and just slowly start to walk away guys like this never really change and I don't think you want to be with someone that in the back of your mind you'll always know is cheating I know how it feels ... (read in full...)
Her parents are keeping her from me but I love her, please help!
Q. my girlfriend's parents are against the whole idea of having a relationship. Recently, they saw my relationship status on facebook with her and caught us. Her cell phone has been taken away, and she has been locked up in her own house. Things have ...
A. 3 January 2010: If you truly love her and you are sure she feels the same way I would say do whatever it takes to be together her family will just have to learn to deal with it True love is very hard to find so if you feel you have found it don't let it slip ... (read in full...)
What do I do? Directly ask for sex, make the first move or just accept being horny all the time?
Q. my new b/f and i have only had sex a few times..at first it was hard 4 me 2 get wet with him bcuz i was so nervous being that we had been friends 4 a few years. Now it seems like i always want to do him but he's not around.. What do I do? Directly ...
A. 3 January 2010: I agree with Doom don't just come out and ask for it kind of use actions flirt make him see your interested kiss him get a little playful try to turn him on make him want it to!!!... (read in full...)
Are we too young to want to be together for the rest of our lives?
Q. Hello (: I'm new to this site, but every time I type something into google to look for advice, I always get sent here. Right now, I am dating a boy who is a year younger than I am. I am 15 years old (almost 16) and he is 14. He's (as I call him) ...
A. 3 January 2010: Yes you are young but love has nothing to do with age things between you and him might or not work but that only time will tell For now I would say just live the moment enjoy what your feeling Your young don't worry yourself so much with the future ... (read in full...)
Will he be disappointed if we don't have sex on our first date seeing as he's coming all this way to see me?
Q. I met a man online and we are meeting face to face within a few weeks. He lives out of town about five hours a way. My question is, I do not have sex with a man, unless I fall in love with him. When I am emailing him, I am telling him about myself. ...
A. 3 January 2010: It is great that you told him before hand he can't get disappointed because you were already clear about that I personally am not a fan of sex on first dates I think is better to hold off and show the men that you respect yourself This will make ... (read in full...)
My cousin blows hot and cold with me... is he using me or does he really have feelings for me?
Q. my cousin and i had sex last summer but i was drunk and he wasn't. well long story short, i love him so much and i think he feels the same. then about 4 weeks ago, we had sex again, and it was better than before!! well, he avoids me, and when it's ...
A. 3 January 2010: I think he might like you but is afraid to show his feelings around people My advice to you would be to stop with the sex for a while so you can figure out if he likes you and not just the sex. Just hold off sex and see if he still sticks around!! ... (read in full...)
I need some ideas what to buy him this Christmas...
Q. Hey I need help with a simple situation. Christmas is coming up and I have no idea what I should get my boyfriend I'm really not good when it comes to shopping for guys my boyfriend is 24 years old Any ideas will be highly appreciated!!! ...
A. 3 December 2009: He is really into electronics and Video games so if anyone has any suggestion on a good game I can get him that would be even more helpful ... (read in full...)
I prefer older guys! Should I hold off on dating?
Q. this may sound bad but im 16 and i've noticed lately that im more atracted to guys in like there late late teens or like 22, so like 18-22... i just ind guys my age anoying and inmucher....i just want to find some one to cuddle with and feel safe ...
A. 26 November 2009: I understand you I'm the same way I have never liked guys my age. I am 18 and my current boyfriend is 24 we have been together for over 5 years and things work great!!! Guys our age are immature I am with you on that one they are a waste of time LOL ... (read in full...)
So hurt and Confused!!
Q. My bf/ex (not sure yet) just found out that we were pregnant about a month ago. We have been arguing like crazy lately over stupid things. His actions and the way he acts around me have totally changed. (IE wont cuddle, talk, or do anything with me ...
A. 14 October 2009: I totally I agree with Sammy You should talk to him about the child apart from the whole relationship issues I don't think the problem is that he doesn't love you maybe the news just took him by surprise he sounds scared and its natural a baby is a ... (read in full...)
First time sex with my boyfriend...
Q. Heya, I'm 16 and I'm going to have sex with my bf for the very first time!!! *squeals with happiness* As you can probably tell, I am *ahem* more than acceptable about this, and my bf is so lovely and sweet and willing to wait for me although...
A. 23 September 2009: Every girl is different but don't fully expect to have an orgasm on your first time is not about the hymen is about the size of the opening and you mentioned your Bf has a large penis, the finger is very different from the actual thing is your first ... (read in full...)
Am I a lost cause or just lost
Q. I'm sorry to write in again but I don't know where to go any more. I'm a lost cause. A waste of space. I can't get a girlfriend. Never had a a proper one. Never been able to. The problem is with me. And I don't know what it is. I do know that I'm ...
A. 8 September 2009: self-esteem is major and I can see thats where your problem is there is no such thing as a ugly person beauty is in the eyes of the beholder I am sure there are girls out there that will think your hot! you just have to love your self more there ... (read in full...)
How do you build a strong relationship not built on sex?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for two weeks. A few days ago, we made a big jump and spent the night together. My boyfriend is worried, though, and doesn't want to base a relationship on sex alone. How does one go about building a strong r...
A. 8 September 2009: talk open up to one another tell him the things you like and the things you dont then let him tell you Talk on the phone that way things won't end up in sex Go out do things together become friends!!!... (read in full...)
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