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No replies yet... 7 August 2013: I've been the agony aunt among the people I've known for a while. Those much older than me come to me. What would I know right? Thing is, I've always learned from the mistakes of others and gather What-Not-To-Do from that. Ever heard "A fo...
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Will I be judged for my not perfect body in a bikini?
Q. I'm looking for opinions here. What do men think when they see a woman wearing a bikini who is not that skinny, and does not have big boobs? Do you look at her and think "gross", or do you respect her for still having the confidence to we...
A. 4 July 2013: I say go for it! Some people with talk but that's all they can do right? As long as you feel good in your bikini, nothing else should matter. Bikini's are made for all shapes and sizes, why? TO BE WORN BY ALL SHAPES AND SIZES.
Put on that bikini a... (read in full...)
My friend assaulted me, should I report it to the police?
Q. Hi guys. Not a relationship question, but I could really do with some advice here! Last week a friend bit me. Hard. It was completely unprovoked, and I don't know if he just thought he was being funny or what. We were sitting on the couch, just ...
A. 26 June 2013: Yeah so as far as pressing charges goes, its up to you and it seems you're leaning towards going through with it. This may sound weird but i actually know someone who has a kind of fetish for biting (weird i know right). She's an acquaintanc... (read in full...)
B/f doesn't think its a big deal to have a kid with another woman. It bothers me!
Q. I am 17, 2nd year college, while my boyfriend is 26, already a professional. i met him at school when he was tasked to be the substitute teacher for our class since our teacher is still on leave. he handled the class very good that he draws all our ...
A. 22 June 2013: No no no no this is just all wrong! I am your age by the way and i would never (and i mean NEVER) even give a second thought to even considering a 26 year old as a so called uhm "partner", hell i wouldn't even become close with a 26 year old guy. ... (read in full...)
I'm scared that my new boyfriend with his shady past may hurt me, or leave me!
Q. My boyfriend has a very shady past,he ws never in love,has had meaningless sex and not treated women thaat well! And I met him and the first 2 dates I thought may be he wants the same from me,but after those 2 dates he started liking me more,wan...
A. 21 May 2013: You seem to have already made up your mind to stay with him . . . So then do it. Everybody here including myself said you shouldn't stay with him but its clear you want to so what exactly did you post here for? Someone to back up your point of view? ... (read in full...)
have people broken mirrors and actually had bad luck after?
Q. you might think i'm stupid for even asking this question. But this morning I dropped my mirror and a chunk of the corner cracked and came off. I am quite superstitious, so I was wondering if it is true that if you break a mirror it's bad luck? ...
A. 20 May 2013: if you believe bad things will happen (as you say you're superstitious) then bad things will happen or should i say you will associate any bad thing with "oh yes, this is happening cause of that day i chipped the mirror". Don't let it bother you at ... (read in full...)
I'm scared that my new boyfriend with his shady past may hurt me, or leave me!
Q. My boyfriend has a very shady past,he ws never in love,has had meaningless sex and not treated women thaat well! And I met him and the first 2 dates I thought may be he wants the same from me,but after those 2 dates he started liking me more,wan...
A. 20 May 2013: While posting this you already know what you should do. There would be no doubt in your mind if it were a good idea to stay. You already know what to do . . . Now is the time to do it... (read in full...)
Does she like me? Or just being nice?
Q. I've been working with this girl for about a month now, and I really like her. But the problem is I don't know if she likes me back or not. I'm not very good at telling when a girl likes you or if they're just being friendly. Whenever I'm w...
A. 19 May 2013: Yes she's into you. Ask her to lunch perhaps or dinner after a shift as a start and see where it goes. Take it one step at a time
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We haven't even gone out on a first date and he's told me he wants to see me naked and squeeze me! Is this normal?
Q. Hi, am a girl of 22 years old and for the past 4months I have met a man double my age. Most of the times we have casual talks only. We meet but not regularly. He says he is single. I like the guy. To my suprise he just told me that he wants to see ...
A. 13 May 2013: Stay away from him. Ignore him. Forget about him.
Stop trying to convince yourself that it might be normal cause its just disgusting of him to even request such when you guys barely know eachother. I'd think that at your age you already have dra... (read in full...)
Did my comments to her bring on an eating disorder?
Q. I didn't mean to make my best friend have this problem and now I feel terrible, I didn't realise what effect my comment had and what she went through before! Over the last two weeks I made a few comments in very obvious jokes! She was making dinne...
A. 13 May 2013: Uhm yes, it is all because of your comments, that much is quite clear. Don't you know that commenting on someones weight (especially a female) is insensitive and will create a problem. You can't just tell a woman that she is eating toomuch a... (read in full...)
I think we can work our problems out, but he's ready to break up
Q. I got into a huge fight with my boyfriend the other night. We've been together for 3 years now and have had problems within those years, some of which have not successfully been solved. I was away for 6 months going to school, and the last two ...
A. 13 May 2013: Yes, if you want something bad enough then you can fight for it however sometimes its best to be a realist.
Give him his space and a chance to think things through and maybe come around and then you guys can really talk it through and tell eac... (read in full...)
I made a fool of myself when drunk. Tried to make out with a guy who's hot. Friends say I should text him and apologize. Should I?
Q. Ok so here's the deal. Last Friday, I got drunk and high with two of my friends and this guy I'm interested in. I've only known him for few weeks but he's really cute. Anyways I'm on this new medication for depression and I guess it messed with m...
A. 13 May 2013: I have a friend taking meds for her depression and the number one instruction was not to drink any alcohol while on the medication. How could you miss that? Its either you didn't read the leaflet, there was no leaflet or you weren't told but even ... (read in full...)
Anyone know a good way in which I can shave daily and not bleed to death and tear up my skin?
Q. Wondering if anyone else has experienced this and can give advice. I have PCOS and as a result of that I have rather bad hirsutism, lucky for me though I am red headed and my hair isn’t exactly dark but I do still have to shave. Everyday I sha...
A. 30 April 2013: *? suggest taking veet hair removal cream with you. It will be painless and it won't make a noise or leave you with dry and cut skin. Think about it. ... (read in full...)
It seems anniversaries and her birth day are for her, but my birthday is not a day for me!
Q. This one goes to the ladies out there. To what point should you be considerate of your man? Let's assume it is your man's birthday, how far is a man worth going for? Like I understand in modern day societies it is expected for the man to go above ...
A. 7 April 2013: I agree that your girlfriend doesn't sound like a very good girlfriend. Having lunch with ANOTHER GUY on your day is just inconsiderate of her. Its good that you do nice things for her and atleast try but how can she expect so much from you when she ... (read in full...)
He says he's had way hotter girlfriends than me???
Q. My boyfriend told me that he's had way hotter girlfriends than me, but he still tells me he thinks I'm beautiful/gorgeous on the inside and also on the outside and he loves me more then anything and that I don't even compare to his previous ex gfs.. ...
A. 2 April 2013: I'll never understand why some guys do that. Do they think that it makes us feel more lucky to be with them or what?
Anyway, if my boyfriend said that to me it would be over . . . For sure. That's just some bullshit. Im sorry but that's just the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend tried to cheat, so I left. Did I do the right thing?
Q. Well..Basically i broke up with my current boyfriend sometime last week. It was hard because I had faith that he was different, but I guess not. I've had two serious relationships since being a te...
A. 13 March 2013: Let me start off by saying that you're awesome for the decision you've made! Im your age so i relate completely. To answer your questions: you will do perfectly fine without him. You don't need a boyfriend. If you decide not to date anymore/ for a ... (read in full...)
My husband the serial flirt goes after younger women! What am I supposed to do?
Q. So here is the situation, my husband of just under a year is a serial flirt! We have been together now for a few years and have a couple of kids so we decided to tie the knot. However before we got married I knew he was a flirt and I have alway...
A. 13 March 2013: Well, you knew how he was before you married him you say? You should've not married him if that was the case. If he had/has any respect for you he would leave these girls alone ok. And as for you, let me put it this way. You don't marry a po... (read in full...)
Each of us is too shy to reveal our feelings, so how do I find out how he really feels?
Q. I like a genuinely lovely guy ( before you ask, I know him well ) who is a bit shy and awkward about his feelings. According to his best friend, he knows that I like him, and his sister (one of my best friends) thinks he likes me. But because he is ...
A. 13 March 2013: Somebody has to make the first move. If nobody does then you both will never know. Im your age and i say that although this may seem cute, its just dumb cause you guys are going nowhere slowly. Either you make the first move OR try to forget about ... (read in full...)
broke up with my boyfriend but he is still acting like one.
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 years about a month ago. He was jealous, controlling, he was lazy and lives with his mother. I was young at the start of the relationship so I was spoon fed everything he told me. I was young and silly so I flashed ...
A. 11 March 2013: You're young and don't need this BS, to be quite frank. You've let him call the shots for way too long. Its none of his business who your facebook friends are or who you've been talking to. You shouldn't have to hide your friends list because of ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend won't have sex with me and now won't see me!
Q. I'm 26 plus n my girl friend is 22plus we 've dating getting to 4 years now,each time she pays me visit she refuse me to touch her breast,boob,kiss she prefer hug. The last time she visited me i tried all i could to get her to have sex wit me s...
A. 5 March 2013: Uhm yeah . . . First of all have you any idea what fornication is?
Its sex before marriage! She doesn't want to fornicate.
It doesn't mean she doesn't love you of she won't have sex for you, seems like she is just trying to abstain hence the no t... (read in full...)
My married lover won't leave his wife for me. Its not fair!
Q. I am deeply in love with a married man that doesn't love me back. Why do all of these lucky bitc*es get their married boyfriend to love them. Let me guess its all about looks?? Only beautiful and attractive women can get the man to fall for them. ...
A. 24 February 2013: His marriage sex life is probably poor . . . So he decides to go for a tall and slim female who will give him the sex he wants so he goes for you. But as far as a real relationship goes, he still wants to be in that marriage for the I guess ... (read in full...)
Did he say this to make me jealous?
Q. I need some opinions....help please! What are some of the things men do to make a woman jealous? I have recently stop seeing a man because he told me that he was highly "sought" after. He told me he was in high demand. I would like to know if he ...
A. 21 January 2013: Yes, yes, yes. He said that to make you jealous and trigger a reaction. People just say that to basically imply that you should feel 'honored' to have them as they chose to spend their time with you when they could be spending time with someone ... (read in full...)
How do I get him back? He has ignored me since our breakup
Q. how to get back my guy who has totally ignored me after 7 months of being in a sweet relationship.i fell for him and he knew that.we were so happy together. The problem started between us when he let a female friend to come between us and h...
A. 21 January 2013: I hate to say this, but you gotta move on darling. I get that you love him but you've got to let go of him. Another thing, you can't get over him or you won't get over him? Think about it. Respect yourself. That's the best favor you can do yours... (read in full...)
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