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I have been there and I know what it's like to feel completely out of control of your life.
I am here to help you, I am here to listen and give friendly advice, whenever you need it, for whatever problem you have.
I managed to turn my life around and now I am in a beautiful relationship with a wonderful woman, now I want to do the same for you. All I have ever wanted is to help people.
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I really want to blow his mind when I see him again!
Q. My guy is out of town working and we wont be able to see each other for three weeks till he gets his second pay check.....and I wanna really blow his mind when I see him again...should I get lingerie...or something else...HELP?...
A. 22 January 2011: Lingerie yes defiantly. But there are many other things you can do as well.
Try and think of something that you guys have talked about doing in the bedroom but have never done. Most guys like rough sex and dirty talk so you can throw those in... (read in full...)
How do I handle my feelings over my friend's actions? She is having a very public affair with a married man.
Q. A work friend is having an affair. She is 45 he is 52. When she first started seeing him she quietly told me he was married that he was just a bit of fun but asked me to keep it Hush Hush. Over the past few months she has openly discussed what the...
A. 18 January 2011: Its a dilemma I myself have faced, morals or friendship?
The truth is there is no easy way to answer this, but I may have a way to help you.
Catch your friend by herself and talk to her. Express how uncomfortable you are about this and try to ... (read in full...)
Something's wrong. All the signs are there that she's cheating. What can I do
Q. I think my girlfriend is cheating. i've been going out with her for just over seven months now. We have only been out on a proper date once, and I only slept with her once. But that's not the main reason i think she's cheating. She was texting ...
A. 18 January 2011: I'm sorry that she's behaving like this.
9 times out of 10 a person cheats because the relationship they're in doesn't excite them, and that can be because the person who's cheating doesn't make enough effort.
You need to confront her. Te... (read in full...)
How can a man reject his baby daughter for his new GF? Is this just a phase? He says our baby will ruin his new relationship.
Q. how can a man reject his child for another women? We were together over 6 years and i fell pregant. Soon as he heard, he did a runner. Three months later he's in a serious relationship with another girl. They are going abroad together. His child ...
A. 18 January 2011: My own father did this to me very recently. He justified it very well, but in the end he was abandoning me and my sister for a new relationship, no other way around it.
This is never a phase when it comes to men, he will never be back, even for... (read in full...)
His behavior makes no sense to me! I still cant figure out what went wrong!
Q. so i started dating this guy last year in july. he had seen me at a party a few months back and had added me on facebook in may. we used to talk online almost everyday and soon we began telling eachother everything about our day, our secrets. when ...
A. 17 January 2011: Ok, first thing is that this is not your fault, ok? Nothing when wrong because of something you did, it was all him. Some guys (I'm not one of them but I know a few) enter a relationship for control. That's their idea of a relationship, yo... (read in full...)
Is he just a flirty man or is he a player? I don't want another one of the latter.
Q. i am trying to decided what this could mean . is he just a flirty man with women or is he a player . had a friend of my say this to me an i have got to think about this . that the man i am interested in he is friendly an confident like the attention ...
A. 17 January 2011: I think he feels good about himself when he flirts, so he's defiantly boosting his ego. But I don't know if he is serious or not, this will have to be your decision. If you want to tell him and trust him then do it, if you want to leave it and let ... (read in full...)
What is important if you are in a relationship? Personality or who the person is?
Q. I just want to be open about how I feel about this girl, I honestly loved this girl with all my heart and everything. Now its been over a year and a half since we have broken up, she has had a few relationships in this time we have remained friends ...
A. 17 January 2011: I have been through this exact thing, and I'm sorry to say that there is no correct answer, its all down to interpretation.
You need to stop listening to other people and make up your mind about her.
The most important thing in a relationship i... (read in full...)
Sexual relationship with my 2nd cousin?
Q. I've been in a sexual relationship with my second cousin. Is this wrong? We are in love. Its not something we sought out. It just happened....
A. 17 January 2011: In the eyes of the law no, its perfectly legal, you family though might have some moral issues about it.
I once fell for my second cousin and we thought it could work. But as teenagers it could never work out and our families wouldn't have bee... (read in full...)
Is he just a flirty man or is he a player? I don't want another one of the latter.
Q. i am trying to decided what this could mean . is he just a flirty man with women or is he a player . had a friend of my say this to me an i have got to think about this . that the man i am interested in he is friendly an confident like the attention ...
A. 15 January 2011: Yes, I definitely think he's a flirt. Flirting is all about making sure the person your flirting with knows you're there, which he is definitely doing. I still recomend talking to him.... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my friends because of this girl
Q. please help me and my 2 friends are going bowling and to the cinema 2morro with the girl i like a lot and her friend but the thing is that 1 of my 2 friends like her and another friend who isn't coming likes her too and i don't want to loose my...
A. 15 January 2011: Tell her you, and which of your friends that you know like her. Don't tell her that your letting her decide, that will put her right off. But just telling her who likes her makes her see that she has options, then she can pick who she wants, and ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to tongue kiss
Q. I really want to tongue kiss my bf friend but ive never done it before I know that he has but im not sure if he wants to with me What do I do?...
A. 14 January 2011: Well the best way to find out is to ask him. I was so embarrassed when I first asked my girlfriend but it turns out she found it cute that I asked, and she said yes.
So just ask him and see what he says, its not as awkward as it seems.
As for ... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to say "I love you"
Q. i'm in love with a guy but im just 2 shy to say i luv u.we already went to a drive in movie. plz give advice...
A. 14 January 2011: Well, if your too shy then it means your not ready, and that's ok. I waited 2 months before I said the L word, but I felt ready to say it, and she said it back and I have never been happier.
Just take your time. When the time comes, you'll f... (read in full...)
I don't want to lose my friends because of this girl
Q. please help me and my 2 friends are going bowling and to the cinema 2morro with the girl i like a lot and her friend but the thing is that 1 of my 2 friends like her and another friend who isn't coming likes her too and i don't want to loose my...
A. 14 January 2011: There is no way of answering this without someone getting hurt. But I think I have a way to do this.
Tell her who likes her and then let her decide who she wants to go out with, if anyone. Its the only fair way this can be done.
I'm sorry if ... (read in full...)
How do you know that the person you love is your soul mate?
Q. I know this is gonna sound stupid but it something that has been Worrying me for sometime now,I,ve been dating different gys in my Life but seem not to have an answer.I want 2 knw that how Do u tell that the person u in love with is your soul m...
A. 14 January 2011: This is a question that will give many different answers but that's because its all down to interpretation.
I have found my soul mate, her name is Beth and she is the love of my life. To anyone else she doesn't have anything special about her that... (read in full...)
How do I figure out if he likes me?
Q. There is this guy that i really like but i am not sure if he likes me.He recently sent me a text saying I am the one but he has never expressed any interest on me before that and before he sent the text we used to talk a lot(almost endless hours ...
A. 14 January 2011: Well from the sounds of that text you already have your answer. I'm not like this but some guys if they like girls, will get so nervous that they can't talk to them, your guy could be exactly like this. Just talk to him as you would normall... (read in full...)
Is he just a flirty man or is he a player? I don't want another one of the latter.
Q. i am trying to decided what this could mean . is he just a flirty man with women or is he a player . had a friend of my say this to me an i have got to think about this . that the man i am interested in he is friendly an confident like the attention ...
A. 14 January 2011: I used to be like that, I used to flirt with women whiles I was with my girlfriend. I thought I was just being nice but she had to tell me I was hurting her so I made every effort to stop what I was doing. And that's what you need to do.
Tell ... (read in full...)
Should I trust him after seeing the picture of another girl on his phone?
Q. so me and my boyfriend had a little break up cause i wasnt treating him good enough. well we was texting today and he didnt txt me back for 5 hours. then he text me and ask if i wanna go to the movies i said yea sure. so we was on our way to the m...
A. 14 January 2011: Normally I would say give him the benefit of the doubt, but its better to be sure in this case. Discreetly ask the girl if they are together. It would be a good idea to ask his cousin as well.
If you find that they are together then tell him you ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid I'm in love with my 1st cousin!
Q. I am afraid I'm in love with my first cousin. I think he feels the same way but when he tells me he loves me in text messages and emails I am afraid to question it. We have been seeing eachother intimately for 4 months now. We have known each ...
A. 14 January 2011: I was in the same situation once a few years ago, but as a teenager something like that isn't practical. As for you, it may just be possible. First thing to do is establish whether your both sure that this is what you want, cause this is going to... (read in full...)
I'm getting married but feel like I need more time! Is this normal?
Q. I'm getting married in 3 months my fiancee and i have been together for about 2 year i know that he loves me and he respects me and tries to mAke me a better person. we almost Have everything ready for our wedding I'm having some doubts I get scared ...
A. 14 January 2011: This is the most normal wedding feelings in the world and its experienced by millions of men and women every year around the world.
Express your feelings to your partner, but try not to alarm him and make him think you want to call it off.
... (read in full...)
Can I be with him anymore because of his pot addiction?
Q. Ive been dating my boyfriend for two years, I'm struggling with whether or not I can be with him any more because of his pot habit. At first I never minded because I thought it was just weekend use, but now its multiple times every day. It pisses ...
A. 14 January 2011: I think you've given him plenty of chances. Now its make or break time. Give him one last chance and say if he doesn't stop then he won't have a girlfriend anymore.
If he quits for a few weeks then success, if not then get out of there, you can ... (read in full...)
He's acting rude and mean! What do I do?
Q. Hey guys and gals.. my problem is a guy were not together but we have been talking for awhile now and he's been acting rude and mean which he hasn't ever acted like this before what am I supposed to do?...
A. 14 January 2011: If he's been doing this since you started talking then its probably his normal manner, in which case you might not want to talk to him as much.
If not then point out to him that he's being rude and ask him if anything's bothering him. Say you want... (read in full...)
How do you make anal sex hurt less?
Q. i have recently aquired a new gf we have been going out for about 3months. we have always talked about having sex but we hadnt for fear that it wouldnt ruin the relationship, but as time went on we decided to do it anyways;-) after a few weeks we ...
A. 14 January 2011: Yes it can hurt, but its easy to avoid unnecessary pain.
Simply apply a lubricant to the outside of the anus and gently massage it in. This will relax the anus muscles.
Also apply lubricant to the penis, you can never have to much lubricant w... (read in full...)
I have fallen out with my best friend because of her boyfriend! I need help!
Q. hey guys, yet another one of those cheesy best friend boyfriend situations, basically i have fallen out with my best friend of 3 years, she started to date a boy i really hate, and a few months ago i had a fight with him. suddenly after that she...
A. 13 January 2011: Well, let’s start by saying, there are no sides to this, this is just you and her, no one else. I have a few suggestions you may want to try.
First, try talking to her anyway you can, phone, text, email, facebook. Try and get a message through.... (read in full...)
If my friend doesn't want to meet me, why doesn't she just say so?
Q. hi i have a problem i was ment to meet up with a old friend i knew as a teenager she was going to ask her mum to baby sit on thursday (today) but she told me this on tuesday now she has asked her mum and she said she can't because of work in the ...
A. 13 January 2011: It does seem odd doesn’t it? The way I see it, you can do one of two things.
First, you can arrange to meet her one last time. Let her pick the location and the time, and make sure you give her some small reminders leading up to the appointm... (read in full...)
How do I speak to her on facebook chat without her thinking I'm a stalker?
Q. hello everyone i really like this girl at college who is doing the same course as me. we speak sometimes and a bit over facebook by commenting on each others statuses but i would like to get to know her more and i want to know how to speak to h...
A. 13 January 2011: Ok, first thing, calm down. Take a deep breath in, and out.
Firstly she's looking at you dude, not your friend. So she must like you not him. She hasn't asked him out so you have a chance with her.
Next, you’re not a stalker if you use facebook... (read in full...)
Do you agree with this quote - 'Never leave the one you love for the one you like?'
Q. I do agree with that quote, but I'm having a bit of an issue. The one I love has told me [one moment] that he wants to marry me and maybe have a baby in our future. I was so excited to know that we had the same goals. We even discussed what ring he ...
A. 13 January 2011: Ok, let's take a step back here, and breath.
The first thing you need to do is confront him, ask him why he had such a dramatic change of heart, and ask for honesty. Make sure you explain that your not pressuring him to do anything he doesn't ... (read in full...)
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