After 6 months of friendship, are his feelings changing?
Q. hi all, I met this guy and we got close then lost contact for a few years. We got in contact again about 6 months ago and have been talking and occasionally meeting up because we live a long way from each other. There is a lot of flirting involve...
A. 28 October 2011: Hi, it's been a while but I thought I would give an update on the situation. After my last post I got the courage to ask him if he was interested, he said yes and now we have been a couple ever since. The distance is hard, but we are both working ... (read in full...)
Am I the only woman not threated by porn?
Q. I just read an article about porn here on DC so it made me interested to post a question. Am I the only woman who is not threatened by porn? I mean, I read a lot of questions here about it, of ladies breaking up with their boyfriends and w...
A. 24 August 2011: I am not threatened by it either, I don't watch it myself as I don't like to, but I have no problem with my boyfriend watching it. In the end I am the one that he loves and wants to be with, so I couldn't care less if he watches it. He knows that ... (read in full...)
My wife won't have sex with me because of past sexual abuse. How can we heal?
Q. My wife of 20 years and I have always had a poor sex life except for probably the first sex months that we dated, but she abruptly stopped having sex with me a decade ago. She says it creeps her out and she feels like she's being raped. She has ...
A. 19 August 2011: I was sexually abused as a child and was raped by my first boyfriend. You can't just take her to therapy, and you can't force an intervention either, because pushing her into something she is not ready for can make it far worse for her. You have ... (read in full...)
What do girls think of guys who offer to buy them drinks?
Q. Ok this isnt really a relationship question but it is related to boy-girl stuff. A friend of mine told me the other night that he has never bought a girl a drink--he says that its basically like prostitution, paying a girl to like you. This struck ...
A. 17 August 2011: I agree it's a ice thing to do, as long as there are no string's attached. It show's that you are a nice and considerate person in my opinion.... (read in full...)
I am not sure about making the first move.
Q. Hi Cupids. I am having trouble with the concept of a woman asking a man out. I was raised in a very traditional home and it was drilled into my head from early on that if a man is REALLY interested in a woman, he will ask her out, period, end...
A. 17 August 2011: I was brought up with the same views, and had thought that way for a long time. With saying that I met a guy that I really liked and I could tell he liked me, but he wasn't doing anything about it. So in the end, I asked him out and it was the best ... (read in full...)
How do I break up with my first serious boyfriend?
Q. I want to break up with my bf of a year. Nothing has 'happened' as such to trigger this, just a general sense of,no, I dont want to spend the rest of my life with this person. He talks of marriage and kids, and I do love him, and always have, and ...
A. 28 July 2011: I agree just be honest with him and tell him how your feeling, and be kind but firm. Try not to use cliche's either, that causes pain when it is not needed. Simply tell him what you have said here, that the relationship just isn't right for you. ... (read in full...)
Separated from a 'soul mate' (the one that got away)
Q. I knew there was something special about this person from the first time I saw him. Call it love or lust at first sight, call it what you will but it was only until recently I began to think of the term 'Soul mate'. Subsequently after first meeting ...
A. 22 July 2011: I know exactly the situation you describe, I have been there and done that. I was convinced that I would never see him again. Then it became too much for me and I looked him up on facebook, and found him again. He started seeing someone and as I ... (read in full...)
Young love-Is it impossible for us to last? What must we do to last?
Q. So I am in college with my boyfriend of 6 months. We have been through a lot together, and have fallen in love. We have spoken about being together for a while, living together, and possibly even marriage. Our families get along together and ...
A. 14 July 2011: Hi I Know my brother was 18 years old when he married his wife, and she was just 16 years old. They have been married for 30 years, with 3 beautiful children and now they have grandchildren. A lot of people may say that it isn't possible for young ... (read in full...)
I haven't had a period in over 2 months, but I'm a virgin! Help!
Q. Alright so let's start off by saying, I'm 16 and I've had a semi-regular period since I was 11 years old. So here's Problem #1. . . Well, like any girl, I dont enjoy my period, but it's reassuring to get it every month. I havent had my period si...
A. 11 July 2011: Hi, I have been through this myself at different times. You say you had it twice in 1 month, so I wouldn't worry about it, it is normal. Each person is different, not everyone gets it on the schedule that is perceived to be "normal". Stress can also ... (read in full...)
My flatmate is threatening to evict me, I feel hideous because of my terrible ache problem and I have no love life. I just want to crawl into a hole and stick my head in the sand and not come out.
Q. First, thanks loads to anyone reading this. My problem is this: For the last year I've lived in another country. I live with a girl and another guy (they're not a couple) and we're all of different nationalities. They sublet my room to me. The ...
A. 10 July 2011: Hi there, I am really sorry that your going through this. I have suffered from depression myself, and I know that I was very quick tempered whilst I was on the wrong medication for me. The people who were closest to me bore the brunt of it. She is ... (read in full...)
Should I follow my heart OR just settle?
Q. Ok, Agony Aunts, I'm completely torn. 4 years ago, when I was 18, I met a guy online. It was casual, we were just friends at the time, but there was an obvious mutual attraction. We are in a very complicated situation because he is in the Coastal ...
A. 8 July 2011: Hi there, i understand exactly what you mean. I have been in this situation myself with a guy and ended up losing contact with him because I wanted the best for him and didn't think that what I could offer was enough. After a number of years I ... (read in full...)
After 6 months of friendship, are his feelings changing?
Q. hi all, I met this guy and we got close then lost contact for a few years. We got in contact again about 6 months ago and have been talking and occasionally meeting up because we live a long way from each other. There is a lot of flirting involve...
A. 3 July 2011: Thankyou for your response. Yes I do feel something very strong, and yes I am scared. I think it definitely is worth the risk. I really appreciate you taking the time thankyou. I will let you know how it works out for me.... (read in full...)
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