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I am very nervous about getting naked in front of my boyfriend

Q.   I am a 34 year old female looking to take things to the next level with my current boyfriend. I have been divorced for 18 months and was with my ex for almost ten years. Even though I was married, I am rather inexperienced. I have only ever h...

A.   29 January 2022: I will make this short and right to the point. Regardless of what you think of yourself, if he has been dating you fro 2 months, then it's because he truly cares for you. If the 2 of you want it to go to the next level, then go for it. He's not ... (read in full...)

What are some fun and romantic things we can do?

Q.   I have been seeing a guy for about 6 months. He has been there for me and always kind and good to me. He is always been comforting, and supports me. He never puts pressure on me. I have reached that moment that i want to surprise him wit...

A.   24 January 2022: Honey, I can see exactly what's on your mind and this is a perfect setup for it. If you really feel comfortable around him, then I would suggest that you wear something a bit revealing when you greet him at the door. I think the night will end up ... (read in full...)

Should I ask my wife to cheat?

Q.   Is it completely absurd to fantasize about your wife doing something with another man (ex hand job, BJ, just kissing, intercourse)? My wife is extremely attractive, younger than me, and I have no desire to be with anyone else. However, I do ...

A.   24 January 2022: This has been a fantasy to lots of guys and in many cases, they have actually gotten to see another man have sex with their wife. There was once that my wife and me were at a private party and happened to the the last couple to leave. The guy that ... (read in full...)

Do other men like to see their wives flash their breasts?

Q.   When weareout on vacation my wife likes to leave her blouse half open without a bra or halter on. It gets me aroused and I see many men sneak a peak any other men like their wife to flash?...

A.   23 January 2022: It probably depends on where they are when she is exposing a little flesh. If they are in a club or bar, I wouldn't be surprised if someone might put his hands on her boobs. When my wife and I are traveling, she sometimes enjoys flashing the ... (read in full...)

I cant shake thefeeling that my partner is cheating

Q.   I can't shift the feeling that my partner may be cheating. Wee have been together for 3 years now and in a lot of ways he is really good. However he is odd when it comes to his phone or social media. Anytime he goes out of room he takes his phone, I...

A.   23 January 2022: If he is being overly secretive about what he is doing with his phone, I would say BEWARE, but until you have something to really confront him with, it might be better to just bide your time. If he is into anything that he shouldn't be doing, it ... (read in full...)

Am I wrong for calling baby daddy when his son cries for him?

Q.   Hi all. I have a child for a married man. His wife, then fiance broke up with him a couple months before they got married. During that break up period we had sex Before they started dating, we used to have casual sex. And he treated me like I was ...

A.   19 January 2022: You are such a fool, because I don't think a 2 year old child will wake up and cry for daddy. It's just you trying to fuck up the marriage of the man you thought would want to keep you. He was getting easy pussy and it's your fault that you got ... (read in full...)

My mother has always had toxic relationships with men

Q.   My mom has always had toxic relationships. First my dad, she had me and my 3 sisters, he did drugs and sexually abused me as a child. When she left him about a year went by and Then she got with my other sisters dad. Which was very toxic as well, ...

A.   19 January 2022: I fully understand how you might feel about your mother. My mom was quite a rounder with men and went with many in her early years. I have a brother and sister that were born out of wedlock and to this day, my sister and I do not know who our ... (read in full...)

Are we stupid for giving it another try?

Q.   I dated my ex for 18 months, I described him as the perfect guy. He was sweet , fun, caring and funny. See could sit and talk for hours and we had insane chemistry. I did break up with him 10 months ago because we were just in different places in ...

A.   19 January 2022: Sometimes, I think something like this has to happen to make a person realize what they had in the beginning. I think you do love him and it seems that he loves you too. The sex is a natural way to verify that you really do love each other. During ... (read in full...)

Are we stupid for giving it another try?

Q.   I dated my ex for 18 months, I described him as the perfect guy. He was sweet , fun, caring and funny. See could sit and talk for hours and we had insane chemistry. I did break up with him 10 months ago because we were just in different places in ...

A.   19 January 2022: Sometimes, I think something like this has to happen to make a person realize what they had in the beginning. I think you do love him and it seems that he loves you too. The sex is a natural way to verify that you really do love each other. During ... (read in full...)

Who is to blame for initiating the wife swap?

Q.   when a husband asks his wife if she would agree to a wife swap she then says no,then he asks again and she says she will think about it, and then decides she would do so knowing her yes would mean an almost certain swap would then happen. where ...

A.   18 January 2022: If the wife said NO when her husband asked her about swapping, but later said YES, then she should then tell him that he should not be surprised if she finds another man to have sex with. Serves him right and she might even enjoy letting another ... (read in full...)

What do women think about a man getting hard while dancing?

Q.   What do women think when they are dancing with a man and he gets an erection? I recently went dancing with my wife and a group ofnour friends. It was a really crowded, kinda dark and sweaty dance floor. We were all drinking and dancing. By virtue ...

A.   18 January 2022: Oh, I'm sure she probably felt it, but don't worry about it. My wife says she has felt quite a few erections while dancing with guy and thinks it's a compliment. She said that there is one time, while slow dancing with a guy, he ended up shooting ... (read in full...)

Do I get back together with my ex?

Q.   Me and my ex broke up at the beginning of this year. We weren't sleeping together, we were arguing and we just couldn't agree on anything. After lockdown it was a slow build up that tore us apart. Some really bad arguements happened and we really ...

A.   15 November 2021: Why would you want to get back with an abusive ex? You said yourself that during sex, he only lasted about a minute and I know you need more than that to achieve an orgasm. Sounds like some of the younger guys might be the answer. Sex is usually ... (read in full...)

I am ashamed to admit that I am in an abusive relationship

Q.   I'm ashamed to be in an abusive relationship. It's less the abuse and more keeping the secret that is killing me slowly. I feel that even if I managed to make up my mind and leave, I would wilt under the reactions of my family. For the past couple ...

A.   14 November 2021: This is your life and you have to decide what to do for yourself. If your family thinks badly for you because of what you decide to do, then I would say that they are wrong. You are an adult and surely you can see what's best for you. Don't worry ... (read in full...)

I'm in a relationship but interested in someone else for quite a while. What do I do?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 7 years now, however 3 years ago I signed up to some dating sites and on one I met this woman who lives near by, we talked a bit - obviously me hiding my relationship, and actually met a few times. There was a real ...

A.   14 November 2021: It sounds to me that you are a bit fickled and wanting to have your cake and eat it too. Yes, this is cheating and you are doing it because you are still wanting to keep your gf and play with other women too. I guess you know that she can play ... (read in full...)

My husband wants me to get pregnant by his gay friend

Q.   I have been with my husband for 3.5 years, but we've been together for 9 years in total. The big issue here is kids, we both want them, yet my husband has other ideas about how and it's caused arguments. He wants me to sleep with his frien...

A.   12 November 2021: You have already told your husband NO, so maybe you should present him with divorce papers and just tell him that you will say YES to that. He had a problem and if you don't do something about it, then you also have a problem.... (read in full...)

My crush was staring at me

Q.   I caught my crush staring at me yesterday but he looked away.i still find this amusing.helpplease! What does this mean?...

A.   11 November 2021: It sounds as if both of you are very young and still have some growing up to do. I'm older and married, but if I see a sexy female, especially if she's showing legs, I will definitely look her up and down. It think both of you are interested, so ... (read in full...)

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