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What do women think about a man getting hard while dancing?

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Question - (6 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 14 August 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

What do women think when they are dancing with a man and he gets an erection? I recently went dancing with my wife and a group ofnour friends. It was a really crowded, kinda dark and sweaty dance floor. We were all drinking and dancing. By virtue ofnthe crowd, everyone was dancing very close together lots of contact.

Well, I got a hard on when I was dancing with me and my wife's mutual friend. Can women feel it when she is dancing with a man, her backside toward him and bumping him, when he has an erection?

If so, what do you think she thought of this? Does she think I am a disgusting creep? What should i have done? I did not intend to get an erection. Once it happened, I didn't know what to do. I couldn't very well have just ran from the dance floor. We are all good friends, and we were pushed together, so I think she may have felt my penis on her bum.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (14 August 2010):

actually I also want to know the answer for this, caz the same thing has happend to me, once, I went to club with my friend and his girlfriend and since he had a back problem so, he asked me to give her GF a company and when we started dancing after a few minutes I as I really enjoyed dancing with her and she was kinda cute and made me hard,

she was feeling it and still bumbing herself harder and harder and I was kinda scared,

I just want to get a famales idea about this, if you are a famale and if you get in this kind of situition, what would be your reaction,


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A male reader, Mike jakuzee Nigeria +, writes (12 August 2010):

Mike jakuzee agony auntSence she did not complan about it dont worry,may be she did not note it or she did love it.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (6 August 2010):

Honeypie agony auntI wouldn't worry. If she had felt creeped out she would have ended the dance ASAP. It's kind of like a compliment to a women so, don't feel bad.

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A female reader, person12345 United States +, writes (6 August 2010):

person12345 agony auntShe probably either a) didn't notice or b) didn't care. Either way, don't worry.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010):

Yeah they can feel it to varying degrees depending on what they're and you're wearing.

It's normal as long as you weren't sexually rubbing it off her, she'll just brush it off or laugh it off.

Look you were all drinking and if she's around your age then she'll know that we can erections at any time and often when we least want them. As long as you weren't making any sexual overtones towards her then just forget it. I doubt this has been the first time she's had an erection accidentally rubbed against her.

as long as you didn't grab her hips and start thrusting it at her she might have been drunk enough not to notice.

Also I don't think I've met a woman that wouldn't turn around straight away and go wtf are you doing? If you'd actually done something wrong. Don't worry about it.

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