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I can't talk to my husband, I need some advice please.

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Question - (10 May 2006) 2 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2006)
A female , anonymous writes:

i cant talk to my husband because he is to judgementle he thinks he knows everythang and when i talk to him he gets mad he says its me getting mad yes i do but not untill he does, and he hates my family he talks about them all the time and he says i take there side over everythang but i don't i realy don't and when he says that i ask what hve i ever took there side on and he says something like you talk to them all the time, there is alot more but I cant explain it all by wrighting it and what i wrought it don't realy explain it eather please answer me back thanks for listing.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 June 2006):


I agree with Carebear. You both need to sit down, face each other and talk without getting angry. Both of you have to listen to what each of you have to say, analyse your problems and solve it.

Ask him why did he marry you if he hates your family? Did he ever hated them even before marrying you?

If your husband thinks that he knows everything, tell him nothing on earth is PERFECT! and that includes him! If your husband thinks he knows things better than you do, then he should guide you, no condamning you.

Good luck.

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A female reader, carebear United Kingdom +, writes (10 May 2006):

carebear agony auntHi

You & your husband need to sit down calmly and discuss how you both feel it's not a matter of taking sides bla bla bla he should listen to what you have to say and you do the same as if you can't your marrage is doomed, do not raise your voices look at each other when you talk and tell him how you really feel hope this help as it's just the start.

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