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Shaving problems please help

Q.   Im 19 and have been shaving for about 3-4 years about 2 years ago i was really paranoid about my bum hair and thighs so i started shaving that aswell, the only prob is in the last year i have been having bad red lumps and spots coming up... i have ...

A.   16 April 2008: use a good soft sensitive shaving cream and after you shave put on some lotion on top of it that should do but dont' worry some guys know that happens cause us guys when we shave we have that problem sometimes too. ... (read in full...)

Idont want to end this relationship, please help me save it

Q.   please help! ive been with my guy for 8 months tomorrow, and he was like anyone is at first in a relationship - caring, loving, sweet, generous etc. etc. but now hes changed quite a bit, he does have a full-time job, but he was working over time ...

A.   16 April 2008: first talk to him and tell straight up you will leave if he does not realize what's he doing to you. two support him if he needs it and three tell you love you.... (read in full...)

Could we have a good relationship?

Q.   I broke up with my ex about 5 months ago. (long story) We talked and hung out for the first few months then she found someone. I was hurt and we decided that it would be best if we didn't talk for a week or so, Week turned into a month then 2 mon...

A.   16 April 2008: Do not call her it would make you needy and make the situation worst a females doesn't want a needy man she wants a man who wants her not need her. Don't do anything keeping living your life the best afrodisiac is being happpy and when a female ... (read in full...)

Getting close to someone seems to result in them leaving my life. How do I change this?

Q.   I have found that every time I get close to someone, even best friend, events in one form or another result in them leaving my life. In fact my longest ever best friend was at primary school and I'm 20 now. Things like moving house, bullying etc. ...

A.   16 April 2008: watching porn is your way of suppressing your anger,hurt, emotions and feelings which you don't want to express. that's why the porn industry has so much money it's base on shame of people. You need to pick up a book perferablly david cornegie how ... (read in full...)

I love him,but he says he doesn't love me .......yet?

Q.   I was with my ex for a very long time,we had a son together and lived together for 15 years.we split 18 months ago,i had a relationship with a guy that didnt workout and he did with a women that didnt workout as well,we have both now decided to give ...

A.   16 April 2008: he loves you but not in love with you give him time it will come to him. ... (read in full...)

How can we move forward or should I walk away?

Q.   We are on the edge of breaking up because we argue constantly, when we try and talk he puts all the blame on me with statements like you did this, you said that, you take over everything etc he never says we did this wrong or I did this wrong and ...

A.   16 April 2008: sit down and ask him what is the true reason you are so stress out find the cause then try to fix it if you can't then move on.... (read in full...)

How do I keep both my friend and my boyfriend?

Q.   thanx for all your help lately things with my lad isnt well i have made a new friend he is a boy but he really likes me and i dont like him although my boyfriend cheatded i wont but my boyfriend hyas become jelous now and has asked me to stop...

A.   16 April 2008: you can't really keep both i'm sorry to say as men we experience jealousy and both of them will require your time you can't have your cake and eat it. Your bf loves you and you should tell your friend we are only friends and nothing more.... (read in full...)

Need advice about my inconsiderate boyfriend!

Q.   I need an advice... I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. I just turned 29, he is 27. He's American, I am from Europe. When we first started dating, he was wonderful with me. We were spending so much time together (he was always ...

A.   16 April 2008: be there for him dont' break it off he's just going through some trouble times show him you care but dont' be too clingy... (read in full...)

I'm confused, and still in love with my ex-girlfriend!

Q.   About two years ago, I got into a relationship with a girl. We were desperately in love, I was for sure. But 2 weeks later we broke up, I said something that she took the wrong way and from that point on it was wierd. From that point on I tried to ...

A.   16 April 2008: it's not that you need her brother you need the feeling that she has given you and you felt comfortable with that mutual feeling you have with as men we desire that feeling not the person you need to move on and find someone else when you sit around ... (read in full...)

Lost, confused, puzzled, exhausted....

Q.   I'm 14 and I had a girlfriend for alil over a year. She broke up with me because.. Well, According to her it was because she didnt like me anymore, then she did. But to her friends, it was because she thought I didn't like her. This is very hard. A ...

A.   16 April 2008: let her be if she loves you she will come back if not be friends... (read in full...)

Is she playing with me, or is she really interested?

Q.   Hi everyone, there is this girl whom i have been spending time with, but i am now confused whether she is serious about our relationship or she is just playing a game with me. I am inexperienced with women and all i need now is just to find someone ...

A.   16 April 2008: let her be she will contact you when she's ready if not move on.... (read in full...)

Shall I stay or shall I move on

Q.   Need some advice here, me and my girlfriend(ex) broke up just last week. I am her first serious boyfriend I never expected that it will end up like this. we've been together for 1 and a half year and we never had a fight. I was really shocked and i ...

A.   16 April 2008: i agree with laura let her be don't push her if she comes back she comes back if not she was not meant to be... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is under so much stress, and now he is starting to be a bit distant from me

Q.   ive been with my boyfriend a few weeks, its excellent when we are together, and we already really care for each other, we just laugh constantly and get on really well. he has a 4 year old child(i havnt met yet), and is going threw a divorce, is ...

A.   16 April 2008: he doesn't want u to feel the stress but he cares about u ... (read in full...)

Feeling so helpless because he broke up with me over nothing!

Q.   My boyfriend of 4 months just broke up with me. I’m 26 and he’s 24. The reason we broke up was because he thought I was cheating on him with a coworker (technically my boss, but I do not report directly to him). I travel a lot for business and he ...

A.   16 April 2008: my advice is to invite your bf and your coworker to dinner he would seee how you act around him and he would trust you he does loves you he just has this jealously that us guys gets when you spend more time somewhere else then with us. ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with a crush on my flirting boss?

Q.   hi my boss has always been flirting with me now i've developed strong feelings for him. what should i do?...

A.   16 April 2008: it depends on where u work and how it might affect your career. Think about your career first is this gonna jeopardize something with my life or is this just a fling remember if he can flirt with you he can flirt with anybody else.... (read in full...)

Will she ever go away?

Q.   This might be a common thing but I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and we are very happy except for one thing - there is this female friend of his who in her words is in love with him. She rings him all the time and if he doesn't pick up ...

A.   16 April 2008: you should trust him and what he does he just wants closure with the girl and tell her the completed truth without you there so you won't see how much of an asshole he's gonna be to her. Trust him if he didnt' love you or trust you he would not of ... (read in full...)

How am I going to be happy again?

Q.   I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years a little over 6 weeks ago because we had been drifting apart and I had communicated to him what was happening. In the last six months of our relationship I told him that I was unhappy and I had been hearing ...

A.   15 April 2008: here's my truthful answer you have to learn how to live happy by yourself first before you can live happily in a relationship. If you are not happy being by yourself you will bring that extra baggage into the relationship. if he doesn't love you ... (read in full...)

I broke up with him, but I did it so subtly that I don't think he realizes it.

Q.   My bf had been stringing me on for some time(years). Every so often we would have a talk and he would say he wasn't ready for marriage but never offered up when he might be and things would go on the same and not moving towards marriage or living ...

A.   15 April 2008: let him chase u don't worry about him. ... (read in full...)

My husband of less than a year has just walked out on me!

Q.   help, i am devastated, my husband and i got married less that a year and my husband(who is 2 years younger than me) has just walk out on me, he said he needs some space and is confused. I ask was there anyone else, he has told me definitely not, i ...

A.   15 April 2008: he just needs his time let him be for a while he still loves just he needs some time to think about what he got himself into sometimes us guys rush things and have to take a step back.... (read in full...)

How do I get out of my relationship with my girlfriend? I am married with kids.

Q.   hello, how and what will i say to my gf that i want out to our relationship. i love her so much but i am married to another woman and with kids. my wife will commit suicide if i will choose my gf which i don't want to happen, we leave together and ...

A.   14 April 2008: be a man about it and man up to your kids and tell your GF you love her but you have other responsibilities in life. It's okay if you and her to hang out as friends that's it.... (read in full...)

She apparently broke up being insecure about my ex and because of the inadequate way I treated her at times. How to win her back?

Q.   I have been with my girlfriend for 6 closing in on 7 months, but just recently we broke up. It has been 4 days since the break up and her friends tell me the reason was because of a number of factors including my ex-girlfriend whom she thinks I ...

A.   14 April 2008: She needs space she's confused and stressed out and she want's to test the water you need to get away form her to prevent yourself from getting hurt. Give her what she wants space, don't call her, don't text her let her do whatever she wants if ... (read in full...)

She's just told me she's no longer attracted to me. How can I save this relationship?

Q.   I'm engaged for a year to a beautiful girl. We've been going out nearly five years. She has just told me that she is no longer attracted to me. She doesn't want to break up, just some space. She says she wants it to be like it used to be, when she ...

A.   14 April 2008: I'm sorry to say it's over once the girls goes into the stage of wanting to be friends she wants to explore and see whats' out there and test the waters and if it's she thinks it's better she will stay out there and won't come back. Save yourself ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend just broke up with me shall I wait or let her go?

Q.   My girlfriend just broke up with me 4 days ago. I didn't realize that we'll end up like this because I thought that everything is flowing smoothly. We've been together for almost 1 and half years now and she told me that she still have feeling ...

A.   14 April 2008: Move on don't wait for her cause when you wait for her you don't see the opportunities that lies around you. I know what you are going through the pain is always there and the love is always there. But she's not coming back she already decided to ... (read in full...)

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