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writes:I'm engaged for a year to a beautiful girl. We've been going out nearly five years. She has just told me that she is no longer attracted to me. She doesn't want to break up, just some space. She says she wants it to be like it used to be, when she fancied me etc. She says she sees me as a friend more than a partner, friends who argue a lot. What can i do to save the relationship?
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reader, binhquangdao  +, writes (14 April 2008):
 I'm sorry to say it's over once the girls goes into the stage of wanting to be friends she wants to explore and see whats' out there and test the waters and if it's she thinks it's better she will stay out there and won't come back. Save yourself the heartache and don't stick around she's not waiting to be with you. Dont' let her hurt you you break it off and give her ,her space. Act now before you get hurt.
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (11 April 2008):
 Give her time and space, start doing your own thing. Maybe when she realises that you may not always be there she will stop taking your for granted?
My other half and I went through this about 3 years ago, I just got too comfortable in our relationship and we took some time out, He was out with the boys one night and I saw him talking to other women (which he was allowed to do of course) and my heart fell though my ass! I realsied right then and there what I had lost and it nearly killed me... It took me a long time to get the nerve to talk to him agian (thank fully I did) Years later married, settled into my very happy marriage and would not have it anotehr way, WOuld never ever risk loosing him again.
Not sure if this will help but I hope it will!
Good luck
Wisdom
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