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writes:I have found that every time I get close to someone, even best friend, events in one form or another result in them leaving my life. In fact my longest ever best friend was at primary school and I'm 20 now. Things like moving house, bullying etc. have all caused this result which I don't open up to people. I've had 2 girlfriends and in both cases I noticed I wasn't that close or seemed interested in them.I think that explains why I watch porn, because I'm afraid that if i get into a relationship, I'm just going to get hurt as the person might leave my life even if I try hard in the relationship.How do I change this?
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reader, love girl  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 see what pushed them away , is it you ? is it them ? if your the one who is oushing them away , find out what's bothring them and fix it ...
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reader, binhquangdao  +, writes (16 April 2008):
 watching porn is your way of suppressing your anger,hurt, emotions and feelings which you don't want to express. that's why the porn industry has so much money it's base on shame of people. You need to pick up a book perferablly david cornegie how to win friends and influence people this should help i was like you too anti socialist and didn't understand my emotions and feelings of why i do these things. hope this helps
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reader, madflash +, writes (16 April 2008):
 You're doomed, dude.
If you're in here asking that question then you're doomed.
The only hope for you would be to actually call someone and ask them instead. Watching porn is antisocial when it's done alone, just like sitting on a computer and asking questions instead of befriending, building a raport, and bonding with real humans.
My suggestion; Go live your life.
Computer questions are for old farts like me.
Good luck
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