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writes:okayy. my boyfriend and i have been together fer almost 3 months. ive known him for like 8 months altogether because he dated my best friend. we have a great relationship, im about to turn 14 and he just turned 15. the only things wrong with our relationship are: 1)his bestfriend is a lesbian. she lives with him and it bugs me that he's seen her naked, thinks she's hott, and slept with her.2) his friend told him that im not really bisexual because i've never been with a girl. he told me i was a trend whore just because everybody is saying theyre bi now.i've never been with a girl but i know i like them. i asked a girl out once and she said no. i prolli would be with a girl rite now if i wasnt with him. 3] he lives in california. my dad is moving there and offered to take me to live with him and his girlfriend. if i went there i would have to live in northern california, while my boyfriend lives in the southern part. is it worth moving and leaving everything behind? i've started my music career already. i am singer and am about to record a CD. if i moved, would i be throwing it all away? is it worth throwing away since i've worked so hard to get this far with my music? PLEASE HELP
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): Hi dani I can't even write the rest of ur name coz its kinda gross..
U seem tobe a bit of a partygirl and i hope u have as much talent as u seem to think u do coz if u move for him ur just begging to be hurt .. So no don't move u will just have to start over again
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reader, Wisdom  +, writes (17 April 2008):
 Stay where you are.
Um, if his best friend is a lesbian why is he sleeping with her and why is she running about naked? I don' think htis is a good relationship for you my dear. Stay where you are and wait for a nicer boy to come a long!
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reader, banditsmom1124 +, writes (17 April 2008):
 nope...keep ur happy a** where u r! honesstly u barely know the guy. u got a future where u r now...i suggest u just try a long distance relationship
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2008): Finish school, first. You are too young to worry about petty situations like that. Let that boy go. I'm pretty sure you'll find other boys or girls attractive. But if you want to live with your dad and his girlfriend, that's up to you. Don't move because he's going to CA. He seems like he's just experiencing life while he's a teenager. Experience life while it's right in front of you. Take advantage of it.
Never do change what's on your agenda for any boy or girl.
Good luck!!
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (17 April 2008):
Even if you move, you'll be long distance with him and hardly see him.
This relationship is hardly perfect and you aren't planning on marrying him. Besides, you've said you'd prefer to be with a girl anyway so you can't be in love with him, or you wouldn't have a Plan B. You are too young to let a guy influence any decisions in your life.
Your school, your friends and your career should be the most important things in your life till you are ready to settle down and marry.
Stay where you are.
Good Luck!! xx
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