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Have any women on here gained breast size whilst on the pill?

Q.   Hello all, I am posting in curiosity of the contraceptive pill and breast increase.. I have never taken any contraceptive pill before. I am 22, and I hate my breasts. They are very small, my boyfriend is not attracted to them, and I've become very ...

A.   19 June 2011: My breasts have increased since I began taking the pill, Im 18 and began taking it over a year ago. since I began to grow I was always very small as in an A. since then I am now a 34C. I take Yasminelle. Its great I have not had any side effects. ... (read in full...)

Vaginal discharge and spots. what could this be?

Q.   i have red spot like things on my vagina and discharge which smells quite like vinegar, i'm not sexually active some please help me to find out what it is!...

A.   12 May 2011: You might have an infection somewhere, not an sti though. A while a go I had swollen glands in my pelvic area and because of this I had Red spots/sores randomly on my vagina and my vaginal discharge was heavier than normal. It was just the ... (read in full...)

Should I continue to tolerate my unkind hurtful insensitive boyfriend?

Q.   Honestly I dont know what to make of it. My boyfriend and I just finished making love and he screams from the bathroom "blood". Yes Im in shock I just bled a little from having sex with my boyfriend. It has never happened to me and I expected more...

A.   29 April 2011: Are You sure it was you that was bleading ? This happened to me and my boyfriend before like there was blood all over his penis when he pulled out and there was blood coming out of me too and I think I was a day away from my period being due so i... (read in full...)

Does this mean he would cheat on me?

Q.   okay so my boyfriend has stayed the night with me for 5 nights in a row. he leaves in the morning to go to work and everything then comes back when he gets off work he goes to his house then comes to mine. so i was bored and checked my myspace ...

A.   18 April 2011: just ask. no point rattling your mind about it seen as hes quite open about it :/ ... (read in full...)

Did he get what he wanted and now I'm not important?

Q.   I have been with my bf for 9 and a half months, a couple of days ago I performed oral sex on him for the first time (we has previously done other stuff) at the time it was like he was encouraging it (I started by kissing him stomach and got lower, ...

A.   25 October 2010: if its fifa 11 which i think it is ... dont stress it its just like a drug to boys they play it for hours on end ... (read in full...)

Are you still a virgin if you've been fingered?

Q.   Are you still a virgin if you got fingered?...

A.   25 September 2010: yes. its not sex its foreplay. ... (read in full...)

How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed?

Q.   My boyfriend and I have had sex twice now..and he keeps worrying about how he hasn't popped my cherry and that hes doing something wrong. Is he doing something wrong? How many times do you have to have sex before you bleed? And if he's doing ...

A.   10 August 2010: Not everybody bleeds, you could have broken it years ago without knowing. If you were going to bleed you would have bled the first time. Hes not doing anything wrong. The blood is minimal anyways, one wipe and its gone, if he doesnt believe that you ... (read in full...)

I have to lie to go out with friends and I'm sick of it.

Q.   Hi, i am having problems in my relationship ino it is mostly my fault. i wanna go out alot but my girlfriend dont like my friends so i always lie to her. i can never tell her how i feel we never do any thing together any more. we hardly have a sex ...

A.   7 August 2010: Okay. Problems here are that you think shes controlling, and she has a problem with your friends (there must be a reason) I know from experience that girls feel rejected and unloved when they think their bf would rather be with their friends ... (read in full...)

Why won't my girlfriend touch me?

Q.   My girlfriend will not touch me. We've been together almost seven months and I'm depressed every day. We recently started being more sexual, and I touch/please her, but all I get in return is making out. I don't think this is fair, but I don't want ...

A.   1 August 2010: She could just be scared, she might have never done this type of stuff before with anybody. I was soo scared my first time, but i only done it once i felt comfortable enough to do it with some encouragement from my boyfriend all you can do is make... (read in full...)

Will losing my virginity to someone more experienced make it less painful?

Q.   Hey guys! question, i'm a 16 year old virgin, really thinking about losing it now, ive waited for a while and i genually want to do it, if i lose it to a guy who's quite experienced in that area, will it feel good? People say all first times are ...

A.   9 July 2010: It really is very uncomfortable. It kills ... the pain is indescribable. Well doing it with somebody more experienced just means that he knows what he is doing, maybe. But I will recommend doing it with someone you love and who understands that it ... (read in full...)

What does the pain of first time sex compare to so I know what to expect?

Q.   hey everyone, im 17 and my boyfriend wants to have sex, it would be my first time, i ready the only thing i worry about it the pain... what does the pain compare to so i know what to espect?...

A.   29 June 2010: Im 17 too and had sex for the first time about 3 and a half weeks ago. I will suggest you use lube as it hurts unless yous do a lot of foreplay before hand. Basically he will have to be slow and gentle with you as you will be all tight and it feels ... (read in full...)

Relationship/long distance advice needed!

Q.   Hi, I met a guy online on a chat site, we have been chatting for ages on both msn and skype. I really like him and he's told me he likes me too. He calls me baby, has nicknames for me, is sympaethic when i've had a bad day, pops on just to say hi a...

A.   4 June 2010: He sounds interested from what you have stated here. I personally don't like the idea of long distant relationships but if you think it could work, it would require a lot of work and effort on both sides. Well good luck on what you decide. S... (read in full...)

I'm married, but now I want to have my fun with strangers. 3 down and counting, should I feel guilty?

Q.   Ok here is my situation I have been married with my husband 5 years, I was a virgin when he took me, he had his fun before me. But just recently I started this appetite of having sex with other guys just to try it out. is that normal? should ...

A.   3 June 2010: I personally think that this urge comes from a unnoticed jealousy of your husbands experience whilst he is the only sexual partner that you have had. If this blind sex is unsatisfying why are you doing it? Yes this is bad and if I were you id feel... (read in full...)

What does it mean if he calls me baby now

Q.   does it mean anything if a guy switches from calling me babe to calling me baby? Ive been talking to this guy for a couple of months but neither of us have talked about a relationship. We see each other when we can. At first he started calling me ...

A.   3 June 2010: Ehm well i was txting my boyfriend for months before we got with eachother and he always called me babe even in the first month or so of our relationship but now he always calls me baby and very seldom calls me babe, so yes i believe its a ... (read in full...)

Anyone have any serious side effects from taking the pill?

Q.   Hey people, Okay i went to the doctor last week to get the pill, i have it but i have to wait till my period comes and start it on the first day. Im really nervous, more so about any side effects. Have any of you experienced anything serious because ...

A.   5 May 2010: well i dont smoke so no worries there. thanks anyways.... (read in full...)

I really enjoyed what he did, but still I don't feel ready

Q.   So I've started giving my boyfriend (who has been in my life for quite a while now) hand-jobs a little while ago and when I did start I very expressly said that I wasn't ready for him to put his hands in my pants. And he respected that and left well ...

A.   28 April 2010: Hey maybe we could help eachother, i seem to be in the opposite situation as you, my boyfriend fingers me but i am too nervous about giving him a hand job. pls mail me back or add me. thanks :) shauna x ... (read in full...)

I want to be on the pill to regulate my periods, but I know my mom will flip!

Q.   I'm 14, soon to be 15, and my mom loves to act like I'm still five. I want to be put on birth control, not because I'm having sex but to regulate aunt flow. But I know If I ask my mom will automaticly skip to conclusions, and start yelling at me for ...

A.   28 April 2010: Hi okay i see ho you would think this .. i was similar too See i wanted to go on the pill too to regulate my priod because it always came unexpectedly and it was a nightmare so i thought of going on the pill. I was going to do it without telling ... (read in full...)

29 and never been kissed!

Q.   can you help me please in the 3rd time i have treid to post question.i need some one help. i never got my first kiss and would like some help please. 1)how do i get a guy to kiss me is any i can do it. 2)how is done?like what do you do? ...

A.   20 April 2010: to your first question ... if you and your boyfriend just kinda catch each others eyes and if you just get the feeling like its a kissing moment he is most definitive got the same idea .. when your going home a goodbye kiss give him a hug and just ... (read in full...)

How early is too early?

Q.   Okay I am currently in a 3 month relationship with my first boyfriend ... still a virgin hes not .. im not sure tho wether i want to "fool around" yet he tries to but he understands that i am inexperienced haa but i dnt want my nerves to ruin it or ...

A.   19 April 2010: I have decided that its him who will take my virginity nd i no he is ready i just feel guilty for taking so slow. I want to my self concience just wont let me.... (read in full...)

How early is too early?

Q.   Okay I am currently in a 3 month relationship with my first boyfriend ... still a virgin hes not .. im not sure tho wether i want to "fool around" yet he tries to but he understands that i am inexperienced haa but i dnt want my nerves to ruin it or ...

A.   19 April 2010: Yeh i noo wat you meen last week he tried to coax me along into doin it but i froz nd wen i got home he sent me a big message sayin he was sorry nd he didnt mean to pressure me .. I just dno wat to do :( i dnt wna lose him especially not over ... (read in full...)

Why is this guy behaving like this after our date?

Q.   we went on a date.. he kissed me.. he wanted to touch me up.. i didnt let him...(he got a bit distant) when i got home i rang him to tell him i had a nice time.. he said he did too..he said he would call me. didnt hear from him for 5days ...

A.   10 December 2009: Okay I completely understand your situation I had jus posted a question similar. But what I can tell you is that i think he was just lookin to get sum if you no wat i mean what i tend to do is write out a text message telling the boy how angry i ... (read in full...)

We got together and now we're drifting apart, advise, please?

Q.   What is up with boys ???? I just don't understand at all.Either they want you or they don't. I was kinda serious with this boy for ages and we really liked each other and we were both going to be at the same place for halloween night so we left it ...

A.   9 December 2009: good advice Lindo :) GOD I HATE boys too complicated haa ... (read in full...)

We got together and now we're drifting apart, advise, please?

Q.   What is up with boys ???? I just don't understand at all.Either they want you or they don't. I was kinda serious with this boy for ages and we really liked each other and we were both going to be at the same place for halloween night so we left it ...

A.   9 December 2009: I would normally agree with this but heres the problem neither of us said anything about a relationship. We were both happy goin the way we were .. at least i thought we were because the last thing i wanted in my exam year was a boyfriend. And he ... (read in full...)

I want to seduce my 16 yo son's friend

Q.   I am a 45 year old with 2 kids a 16 year old boy and a 12 year old girl. My son has a friend who is always at our house. He's very cute. Whenever my son isn't around we flirt with each other. Yesterday I bent down to put a pan in the cabinet and my ...

A.   9 December 2009: I actually cant believe you even needed people to tell you that what you have just said is peadophelic (whatever way you say it) now im 16 and jus becoause i flirt with some1 much older than me because i think they are drop dead gorgeous does NOT ... (read in full...)

I have her Xmas presents even though she dumped me... do I give them?

Q.   My girlfriend dumped me a couple of weeks ago, Ive asked why, but been given no clear answers. I do miss her very much and am really hurting, Id like to hear from her-yes id like her back. I have already brought her, her Christmas presents. A fr...

A.   9 December 2009: Return the presents that can be returned .. face it if she hasnt got the common curtacy to at least explain why she dumped you then she doesnt deserve the beautiful gifts. if you send her them gifts with the note that note better say that the ... (read in full...)

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