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I'm a 24 year old female, been in a relationship for 6 years and live with my partner. we have a good relationship and are best friends. we have gone through good times, bad times, happy times and sad times and have come out the other end. I love helping others out by giving them advice. i think I've been through lots to qualify! I'm out going, caring and helpful. I hope my advice helps people, I know that sometimes in life things get out of control and a little dark, but while we are all here we should help and guide each other as much as we can! |
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His kids are always sick!
Q. I am currently pregnant and expecting my first child with a man who has 3 children from a previous relationship. His children come over and visit every 2nd weekend. One of his kids is ALWAYS sick though... Ever since I first met her she either has a ...
A. 27 January 2011: I completely, 100% disagree! First, I agree that children are ill lots of times, I work as a nursery nurse and know that kids pick up all sorts. Its fair enough if they come over and have a cold or something, yes you may be more suseptable to catch... (read in full...)
Conversation starters and tips?
Q. Hey, how is everybody doing? I need some help, it's been about a month now dating my online boyfriend. We really want to see each other in person, but it's very hard to do so, when he lives about 3 hours away. And neither of us has a drivers ...
A. 27 January 2011: . Ask about his family e.g does he have siblings? what do they do? what do his parents do? does he get on with them? . How's his work? Does he enjoy it? Does he want to stay there? if he is not in work then how is school? Does he enjoy it? What doe... (read in full...)
Should I put myself out there or take myself out of the game?
Q. I feel really lonly latly. I've always been the relationship typ ever since I was yung. The longest I went single was a year and I was about 19 to 20 and it didn't bother me then because I always had a lot of male attention. But I love being with ...
A. 18 January 2011: I think you need to be happy with just you and enjoy your own company first. Sounds like you havent had any time to just be single, and you dont know what to do with yourself. enjoy the moment, new guys will be just around the corner. you'll find ... (read in full...)
Return to each other even though no attraction on one side?
Q. Hi I asked a similar question just recently but somehow I lost my real point in the earlier question. I wonder if two people break apart and they try to return to eachother. But one side says to the other one that person don't become turned on b...
A. 15 January 2011: you need to assess why you broke apart in the first place and if it was for a valid reason, why did you end up back together? maybe the attraction has gone for one of you because you have seen what else is out there from your break up and want to ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel that everything that goes wrong is my fault?
Q. Why do I feel guilty ? I just feel like everything that goes wrong in this world is because of me. I feel guilty and uneasy, what can I do to get rid of these feelings? They're ruining my mood, my social interactions, my life......
A. 15 January 2011: this is a hard question to answer. have you done something to feel guilty about? if you have you need to try and rectify it so that you can move on. if you havent done anything, then you may have low confidence issues. try and build your confidence ... (read in full...)
What's my best move?/ I think I'm in love and he makes me laugh.
Q. This is probably a dim-witted question to ask but I am a girl on her last year of high school and I think that I am in love. With a boy, who I used to know and hang around. He used to make me laugh the most, even on my worst days. He left when I wa...
A. 15 January 2011: Hmm...cant really answer if you love him or not because only you will know that. but evidently you really like this guy so you need to do something about this, what have you got to lose? its a scary prospect, going up to someone and telling them how ... (read in full...)
Did I just ruin the best friendship I've ever had?
Q. i literally just told my best friend in the world that i loved her and she was so confused that i brock the aquard silence and told her i needed some time and all she could say was that she needed some time also. so now i just feel like crap ...
A. 15 January 2011: Sounds to me that the girl just needs a bit of time to let this sink in. Give her a few days and then get back in touch with her and tell her that you think you need to talk so can you meet up. take her out for a coffee/lunch somewhere and tell her ... (read in full...)
Why cant I enjoy sex anymore?
Q. Hey guys i'm in dire need of some advice. My fiance of 4 yrs and I had this great sex life about two years ago. We started intercourse about 1yr and half in and it was great. I even started it sometimes. Well my parents found out and they ...
A. 14 January 2011: Maybe you are allergic to the condom? maybe you have an intolerance to latex and it has started now. if its causing a rift in your sexual relationship, how about trying alternative types of contraception i.e the pill? speak to your doctor about your ... (read in full...)
How do I get my wife to be a freak in bed?
Q. how do I get my wife to get more freaky in bed. She says im too horny all the time. she lets me watch porn but does not want to engage in bedroom activities. ...
A. 14 January 2011: Above all else you need to make your wife feel special. do you buy her flowers? cook for her? give her a massage? run her a bath? show her you love her, and this will make her feel attractive, cared for and wanted (all needed for a good love ... (read in full...)
Should I trust him after seeing the picture of another girl on his phone?
Q. so me and my boyfriend had a little break up cause i wasnt treating him good enough. well we was texting today and he didnt txt me back for 5 hours. then he text me and ask if i wanna go to the movies i said yea sure. so we was on our way to the m...
A. 14 January 2011: i think this is one of those situations where you kind of get an instinct and you know deep down what to do.
so you could ask the girl on facebook, see what she has to say, unless you can just take his word (and his cousins word) and let it go. ... (read in full...)
I am insecure about certain parts of my body
Q. I have an insecurity problem about certain parts of my body - my wife says she doesn't care about them and they make no difference to our relationship. I have asked her to show me some extra love if possible when I am a little down or reminded...
A. 13 January 2011: I think you need to sit down with your wife and be completely honest with her. tell her how insecure you feel and what you feel she needs to do to help this. if you lay all your cards on the tabel with her she will know a) how you feel and b) be ... (read in full...)
My long distance bf cheated on me and he confessed, what should I do?? really need help
Q. We"ve been together 1 and half years with the long distance. I met him and we've been together in england for 4 months and it was prefect. after that i had to go back to my country. everything was ok. we talked on the phone everyday and he ...
A. 13 January 2011: what a hard, horrible situation! you obviously care massively about this guy, and he cares about you lots too. i imagine that long distance relationships are really hard. i think that this is a situation where only you know what you should do. you ... (read in full...)
Everything about him annoys me even the nice things he does!
Q. Hi everyone, any advice really appreciated I have been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. Over the last month or so I have been getting the feeling that I don't want to be with him anymore. We live together. Everything is just annoying me even...
A. 13 January 2011: i can sense how upset and desperate you are by the situation. i cant say 'this is normal' or 'this isnt normal, end it' as every relationships is personal and only individuals in the relationship will know what to do. all i can do is draw on my own ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle my sadness! I want someone in my life!
Q. Hi guys. I'm a 16 year old gay male and I'm been going through a tough time in my life since the last 3 years. There are a lot of things in my life that are bringing me down. One of the things that ways a lot on me is the fact that I'm lonely. I'm ...
A. 13 January 2011: I'm exactly the same sort of person, I try and stay strong for people, am there as a shoulder to cry on and appear confident and outgoing when really I'm not confident, I worry about little things all the time and I constantly want to change things ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to handle my sadness! I want someone in my life!
Q. Hi guys. I'm a 16 year old gay male and I'm been going through a tough time in my life since the last 3 years. There are a lot of things in my life that are bringing me down. One of the things that ways a lot on me is the fact that I'm lonely. I'm ...
A. 10 January 2011: poor you! you sound like you could be suffering from depression and i think you need to see someone about it. you need to see your doctor and explain how you feel.
seems to me you also need someone to talk to, a friend. dating websites and soci... (read in full...)
I don't feel as bad as I should after this huge loss, has anyone been through anything like this before? Any advice for me?
Q. Today my girlfriend and our 3 month old baby girl died in a car accident. Everyone is feeling so sorry for me. I'm sad but I don't want people feeling bad for me. My mom is saying that i'm in Denial. I don't really think I am. Anyway, so i'm ...
A. 10 January 2011: no one can advise you on what to do as there is no right or wrong answer. you need to take each day as it comes and see how it goes. it probably has not sunk in yet and you may well be in denial, but give it time. talking helps massively, so make ... (read in full...)
Crush on a married teacher. He's teaching me yet I still feel nervous when I see him. Help?
Q. Hello everyone. I am currently 15 years old and I will turn 16 this middle of January. I have a real problem right now so I think of asking about my love problem. It all started in August of 2010 when my best friend and me were sending somethin...
A. 10 January 2011: everyone in the world has had a dilemma like this! wether it be fancying a teacher of theirs, someone they work with, a family frind...etc. it's natural, and your young and you have an infactuation. at least you seem to be mature enough to be ... (read in full...)
Is my cousin interested in me?
Q. Ok so my question is a bit apart. But please go through it. To start with, I've got a cousin of mine whom have been giving signs that he is interested into me lately but am not really sure if this is the case. I have also seek help from this s...
A. 10 January 2011: Sounds to me like he could be interested in you, or he could just be getting to know you as a cousin. its hard to tell just from these signs, as they could easily be taken as signs that he is just a nice guy who is being polite to you as you are ... (read in full...)
I feel so awful for what I did to her, and I know I deserve to feel this way, but how do I start the healing process?
Q. Hi there, I've recently been through, and put others through, quite an ordeal. My boyfriend, who I have been seeing for 4 months now, is wonderful. He's everything I've ever wanted, and I love him more than anything. The thing is, we start...
A. 10 January 2011: Sounds like a tricky situation. Your partners ex will probably be still hurting and feeling emotionally raw, you've got to give her time to simmer. As for your friends who you are not friends with anymore, if they are not supportive or do not give ... (read in full...)
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