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writes:Hi I asked a similar question just recently but somehow I lost my real point in the earlier question.I wonder if two people break apart and they try to return to eachother. But one side says to the other one that person don't become turned on by the other. Is there really any chance to return then if one don't feel attracted sexually by the other one? And except than this there already exists other problems. Reply to this Question
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reader, auntieloulou  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 you need to assess why you broke apart in the first place and if it was for a valid reason, why did you end up back together? maybe the attraction has gone for one of you because you have seen what else is out there from your break up and want to experience it, or maybe one of you is insecure because you broke up and they have lost the attrcation to the other person. if one of you feels that the spark has gone, and you both want it back, then you need to try and reignite it. have a romantic night together, candles, wine, good food, good conversation, and then see how you feel. if one of you feels this way maybe they have someone else on their mind....you need to openly and honestly talk to one another before you end up hurting each other.
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reader, golddigger99  +, writes (15 January 2011):
 Unfortunately, you can't have a relationship without attraction.
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