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Hi, friends, I am Angelvoice from beautiful Bournemouth, though once listed in a survey as the town with the most relationships going on - I'm putting it in a genteel way!

I have a Social Psychology degree from OU, and I am a musician who has always worked in very large communities.

I am very compassionate and empathetic, and many of my friends have asked my confidential advice.

I have been through a range (not too many!) of diverse and often highly complex and challenging relationship situations, and I now feel strong enough after analysing them from a distance, to feel that there is plenty to give out. I love people and being of help to others. I attempt to see the brighter side for you to start working on within in your given question. That's me!

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I believe that many women nowadays are still subliminally influenced by tendencies towards subservience and even direct obedience to the partner

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18 March 2017: Amazing to admit to it, but I think particularly those of us from 'Gereration X', born between around 1960 and 80, often carry around with us residues of the sexual dominance of the male, prevalent among many of our parents' generation. I believe...

What should I do? A shower get with sparkly elements for men? What could be the explanation?

Q.   Hi there guys/gals My boyfriend who I have a long distance relationship came around although asked me to run him a bath whilst on the way. When he arrived I made him a cup of tea so he sat on the bed to drink it before he had his bath. I coul...

A.   5 June 2017: Dear friend, There are two types of men that could fit the description of your friend, I think. There is the relatively new concept of the 'metrosexual', a heterosexual man who simply enjoys taking care of himself and preserving his skin, and we... (read in full...)

How can I get dates if I am not attractive enough for guys to ask me out or approach me in person?

Q.   I just witnessed a girl right in front of me getting cold approached and hit on by guy while I am never hit on and/or approached by men. I am not intimidating because I notice guys cold approach women without sending signals to guys. In fact, ...

A.   20 March 2017: My dear friend, I do sympathise with your situation. To begin with, never display any clues that you are looking for someone. This can give an anxious appearance, which does not draw others. Also don't look at any men directly. If you start looking ... (read in full...)

Why is he so hard to talk to?

Q.   I've been seeing this guy for the past month and It's so frustrating because he has no trouble talking about himself and other things in life, but he doesn't really enquire about me, other than if I asked him "Have you done ___?" he will say, yes/no ...

A.   20 March 2017: Hi dear Friend, I can empathize with you in your situation here. On the point about depression, I know many people who suffer from it and it can definitely cause a person to go quiet, remaining in their own inner world. Because the chemicals in... (read in full...)

He says he cares for me deeply ....

Q.   DeAr CuPiD I met this guy in Belize in January and coincidentally he lived not to far from me back home. After vacation was over we started hanging out back home and we've been having the most incredible time together. We both just got out of ...

A.   20 March 2017: Dear Friend, Do take heart! Firstly, you haven't known each other for all that long. Some men are very careful with using the word 'Love'. Saying that he likes you and cares for you deeply is almost like giving you a beautiful bud waiting to bloss... (read in full...)

Is he insecure, jealous?

Q.   Hi, I've been seeing this man for 5 months. I'm 49, divorced twice, no kids. He is 51, divorced twice, two kids 18 and 20. His second wife cheated on him. He was adopted. His adoptive father died when he was young and the adoptive mother was ...

A.   18 March 2017: Hi my friend, I really feel for you in this. Having been cheated on a few times by men who really weren't commitment types, you can become paranoid and suspicious in the extreme. I'd like to start by suggesting that part of this problem lies in ... (read in full...)

I feel like a third wheel in my own relationship! Any advice?

Q.   Hello aunts and uncles, Me and my bf of a while now have usually been quite close with each other... Even though the majority of our relationship has been long distance, we've tried to keep each other happy and made sure to spend enough time toge...

A.   18 March 2017: Dear Friend, I can empathize totally with your situation. Specially if we are emotional types who love to be close to our partner and share our lives as much as we possibly can. It is even harder if we happen to be particularly possessive in natur... (read in full...)

My Bf passed away a year ago. Is it wrong to start dating the second cousin of my late partner?

Q.   Okay my boyfriend passed away (father of my child) about 1 year ago. We were on and off for about 5 years, always fighting never really happy. I met someone who makes me really happy. Unfortunately it's his second cousin. (Even though the...

A.   17 March 2017: My dear friend, I would like to reassure you that it is not in the least wrong for you to date your late boyfriend's cousin. Often, if we think of the memory of the person you have lost and he were here to give his opinion, above all he would wa... (read in full...)

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