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Can't get pregnant

Q.   Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...

A.   19 December 2010: Thanks guys!!!! Just found out that I'm prego! Thanks so much ... (read in full...)

HELP I want to sleep with my dads best friend

Q.   hi i am in a bit of a pickle my dad is 42 and his best fried is 38 i was introduced to him when i was 12 but now i am 18 i am a adult and my feelings to him have got stronger he is single. i think he likes me too he comes over to our house ...

A.   25 August 2010: If you like him come on out with it, let him know, your older now and you can make up your own mind. Just remember that he is your dads best friend and if your dad finds out, he might go crazy. But in the end you can't help who you want. But make ... (read in full...)

I want to kiss my bestfriend!!

Q.   My best (girl) friend and I are extremely close. We talk about everything. I absolutely love her in a best friend way...but the problem is that I think she loves me in a different way. When we hug she pushes her boobs up against me and I can feel ...

A.   25 August 2010: You should go with your heart. The only thing is, if anything more happenings you could loss your bestfriend. But you can't help what your heart wants. Maybe you should just talk to her. Good luck!!... (read in full...)

I'm so frustrated because I can't insert a tampon!

Q.   I am getting so frustrated. I usually get my period at the end of every month. And its near the end of the month now and the first day of school is tomorrow. I want to wear tampons instead of pads because when I wear pads its so obvious and its just ...

A.   24 August 2010: it might hurt putting one in. Maybe you need to get smaller ones, the ones you got done work for you. Try to go and get smaller ones and read the box there is ones that are really easy to put in. Like the pearl they work great. Now there is ... (read in full...)

I Want to date my bestfriend, we are both girls.

Q.   So over the past week I have been hanging out a lot with my best friend. But not like friends. We have been having sex with each other. She and I have known each other for about 4 yrs and never did any of this til recently. I like it and don't ...

A.   24 August 2010: A lot these days, no one really cares who your sleeping with. Just have fun and enjoy life, don't worry about what other people have to say :) As for if your dating.... You guys are going to have to talk about it, if you guys only want to see e... (read in full...)

Is it bad for a woman to date someone 3 years younger?

Q.   I am 20 years old, fixing to be 21 in a few weeks.. and I really like this guy who is 17 years old. He can act pretty mature for his age but i'm not sure what others would think? Is it bad for a girl to date someone who is 3 years younger? ...

A.   24 August 2010: Its just a number! My boyfriend is a year and ahalf younger then me, and his brother is dating someone who is 5 years older then him. All that matters is if you both like each other :) don't let age stop you. ... (read in full...)

Shaving down there...

Q.   Basically,I have been in a relationship for 3 years and my boyfriend always requested i shaved down there.....now that i am single i am wondering is this a normal thing and what do most other people do? thanks:)...

A.   24 August 2010: No hair for me, maybe a bit, but nothing to long. :) but you do what you like :) and what your new boyfriend likes :) ... (read in full...)

How do I tell my ex I'm pregnant? Is it okay to write a letter?

Q.   I split up from my ex in February. It has taken 4 months for our solicitors to try to resolve our seperation and as yet it is not complete. Since February I have met an amazing new guy, unexpectedly I have become pregnant. We were obvioulsy shocked ...

A.   19 August 2010: Who's baby is it? Your exs? Or the boyfriend you have now? If the baby is your exs, you need to tell him face to face! If its not his baby then a letter is fine, you guys have both moved on and he will understand that. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

I really want to sleep with him, but I'm really scared too, what should I do?

Q.   ive been going out with this guy for almost a month now and i feel like i have known him all my life i love him to bits and hes says he loves me to ( were both 14 ) hes told me hes wants to marry me ( of course this is not serious talk but a nice ...

A.   19 August 2010: Take your time, you guys have only been together for a month, a lot.of people.I know don't start having sex until 17.. Or even later, keep it for someone who you really llove, and if he is going to leave you because you don't sleep with him he ... (read in full...)

Is it right that I want to put my education/career ahead of him? He cheated on me!

Q.   Sorry for the length of this. I was with my boyfriend for just over a year. We have always been long distance and so have never known any different. I gave up my job to be able to fly back and forth to him. He cant travel as much because hes in t...

A.   18 August 2010: The one you pick is the right now. Whatever makes you happy is the main thing. And school is what you need, if he loves you he will understand how much you want to learn and make your own money and not need him. Go to school if he loves you he will ... (read in full...)

Does he want to be with me or just hook up?

Q.   Ok so I apologize if this is a bit long.. I have been talking to this guy for about a month and we have hung out like once a week. We usually hang out at his house and just lay around watching tv or a movie. At first we just made out and stuff. L...

A.   18 August 2010: Don't have sex with him!! If takes you around his friends, or out more, tells you more about his life, then he might want something. But just don't give it away. Make sure your dating. Take your time.good luck ... (read in full...)

I need to save my marriage!!

Q.   I need to save my marriage! It is very difficult, because I already went to the doctor and the sex therapist, but they couldn't help me so far. I love my wife, but few years ago, suddenly I stopped feeling sexual desire and developed several sexual ...

A.   18 August 2010: Give your wife lots of fourplay, that will keep her happy, try new things. Talk to her about this, she is your wife and she wants you to be open with her, she will underrstand :) good luck.... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a girl to think about sex all the time?

Q.   iam a girl and i always think about sex, even though my boyfriend satisfy me all the time and i am happy with him. when i am not with him i always watch porn to satisfy myself. is it normal for a girl to think about sex all the time?...

A.   18 August 2010: Yupp! Its life, you like sex. a lot of girls think about it all the time. :) I know I do. ... (read in full...)

How do we find a girl for our threesome?

Q.   my bf and i want to have a threesome. but neither one of us has ever done anything like that. so we arent sure where to start. or how to find another girl to do this with us. where would be a good place to find another girl?...

A.   13 August 2010: I wouldn't do it, a lot of shit can happen, you could fall for her, or he might, you might get something, she could get pergnant from him, could make you guys fight more, break you guys apart. I don't believe you should, but if you do best of luck. ... (read in full...)

I'm the cheated wife!

Q.   Hi I'm the cheated Wife. My Ex found his true love at work and they both conspired to Divorce their spouses. She has a kid and I've a little boy as well. My ex was not sure in the beginning but she pressured him to get the divorce first and she woul...

A.   12 August 2010: He is a loser! Let him go!! Who cares if there marrege will last, you got two kids now, so work on finding someone new, he has said manyt times, that he doesn't love you and doesn't want to be with you. ( As hard as that must be) just leave him ... (read in full...)

Do you believe that there is only one true love in your life?

Q.   Do you believe that there is only one true love in your life? ...

A.   12 August 2010: There are many different types of love. ... (read in full...)

How did you meet your partner?

Q.   I am only 13, and never has had a boyfriend. But I would like to ask everyone, how did you meet your significent other? Where were you? How old were you? Was it love at 1st sight? Any answers are greatly appreciated. Thank you. :]...

A.   11 August 2010: It was at my friends house, last summer, not love right away. But we became good friends and it went from there. Been together since October2009 ... (read in full...)

Addicted to masturbation and it's hurting my girlfriend. What can I do?

Q.   Hello fellow peers, my alias is dimario, and I am a 20 year old well to do male with a beautiful girl friend whom I have been with since I was 16. But! There is a problem, since I was a teenager ofcourse I masturbated, and that seemed quite okay at ...

A.   11 August 2010: don't take this the wrong way, but you say its not her. Maybe you don't want a her and you want a him? Maybe you see her more as a best friend then a gf? I think you should go and talk to someone, and see but from reading what your saying, you love ... (read in full...)

I love her and she loves me but she's dating my friend!

Q.   Sooo Ive known this girl for 11 years now and ive always had a thing for her. Time went by and eventually she started dating my best friend. he treats her like crap and all i can do is watch. He recently cheated and i told her what happened. i ...

A.   11 August 2010: You should of just told her everything at once, ( how many times he cheated on her) you keep going to her telling her this, she is going to think that your just trying to break them up.and she miught hate you. I think you should just walk away. If ... (read in full...)

How long does it take the average guy to cum?

Q.   So my question is simple I was just wondering how long does it take the average guy to cum ..... like for a guy does it happened quicker during intercourse compared to oral ? ...

A.   9 August 2010: When you first start being with someone new, you go a lot faster, as months years go by faster, you tend to last a lot longer. But for oral some can't come at all, my boyfriend can go for over 2 hours and then I gave up and he still didn't cum ( I ... (read in full...)

Could I still have a chance of being pregnant?

Q.   i had unproteced sex 10 days ago and also 2 days ago. Yes he did ejaculate inside of me. I also understand i could be pregnant, but i started bleeding randomly today but i only came of my period around 18 days ago. Could i still have a chance of ...

A.   9 August 2010: If your to careless to care about rapping it up. Your for sure unable to look after a baby! Your still so young, so you need to go get checked for stds, you sleep with this guy that has slept with 5 other girls, and so on. Go to the doctors, get ... (read in full...)

Unsatisfying sex life...

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 8 months. I cheatedd three months ago because i wasnt fully satsified in what he was bringing home meaning sex. But how do i tell him - the only way i can cum is by him givinq head to me. When we have sex i ...

A.   8 August 2010: Yes! And maybe go get a book or go to a sex shop. But if your not happy then end it don't cheat. Wast of time and enjoy. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

Married life has become a nightmare. Please, anybody with any suggestions?

Q.   I have been with my husband since i was 16. we have been married for almost 3 years now our baby boy is about to turn 3. He told me the only reason he asked me to marry him was b/c "it was the right thing to do". I know he is not happy. He tells me...

A.   6 August 2010: You need to go to someone you trust, family friend. Someone. And tell them. And to tell the truth the best thing to do is save money, some how, get some to lend you money and leave. Go far away. Because the way he seems to act, he will come find ... (read in full...)

Want to have sex, but don't want to tell him I'm a virgin!

Q.   I am a 29 year old virgin. This is not something I planned on, it just sort of happened. I am not religious at all, I simply have not found the right guy for me. I dated a guy for awhile when I was a teenager and he really took away my ...

A.   6 August 2010: I think its nothing you should hide, or be scared, that is a great thing, you need to tell him what you just told me. Every world. If he cares for you he will understand, but maybe right now is just not the time. Wait a bit longer, do some four play ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend can't stay hard anymore!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have a lot of sex. Every night if we could. We were both eachothers firsts, so of course we're gonna have a ton of sex. For the past 2 or 3 months, he's been having a hard time getting and maintaining an erection, or eve...

A.   5 August 2010: There Is many different reason why he can't get it up, or stay hard, Stress can do it for sure, not in the mood, sorry to say this but maybe your not turning him on anymore. But him stressing over it will not help him one bit. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

6 years later, he is very secretive and our sex life is lacking. Help!

Q.   i have been with my partner for 6 years we have a lovely little boy together we both work full time. lately i have notice big changes in him like been very sneaky not leaving his phone down or when i walk in the room he hides it straight away we ...

A.   5 August 2010: Something is going on, you know that he is hiding his phone, so he is talking to someone he doesn't want you to know. I'm sorry to say this but maybe there is someone else, to go from a sex life to none, might mean he is getting it somewhere else, ... (read in full...)

Can't get pregnant

Q.   Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years, I'm 25 and he is 29, we both have good jobs, we both have a car, we own a condo, we have a great little life, but... We want to have a baby. We have been trying for a few months, we want it ...

A.   5 August 2010: Hey thanks so much for all your help! :) ill let you know when or if I become pergnant. If nothing happenings within the year well go see a doctor and see if everything is ok. Thanks for your help. ... (read in full...)

Unhappily married man in love with a lesbian!

Q.   Ok, so i am a married man. I feel that i was pressured into getting married, and i don't have the greatest relationship. I love my wife, but i don't think i am in love with her. I met a woman, a woman with whom i work. She is amazing, and i got ...

A.   4 August 2010: If your not happy with your wife, you need to end it, and don't do anything with anyone else to you talk with your wife, maybe moving out and getting our own place would be better? Life is to sort to be with someone you don't love. But talk to your ... (read in full...)

What should I expect when I lose my virginity to my best friend?

Q.   Im only 15. i know im young but me and my best guy friend decided we might have sex. I dont know what to do or what to expect....We are just friends and its going to stay that way we are just going to do it to expiriment kinda. I dont really think ...

A.   4 August 2010: Keep it don't just give it away to anyone. Find someone who loves you and you love them back, don't loss a friend over this. ... (read in full...)

I cant trust my sister and my boyfriend to be alone together anymore, what should I do?

Q.   My boyfriend cheated on me with my older sister, but then I took him back. He somehow convinced me that it will never happen again and that I should work on my trust. I was really convinced that he would never hurt me again. But, then I found out my ...

A.   28 July 2010: Kick both of them out of your life, if your own sister won't back off, and knows you two are together then she needs to get a life. But I think you should walk away, if you can't trust him then it will never work. ... (read in full...)

Please help me, he says he loves me, but wont speak to me.

Q.   *Reposted* No one answered the first time I posted this so... My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years now. I absolutely love him with all my heart. The only problem is that lately we've barely been talking. He works nigh...

A.   28 July 2010: There is a few things I see from this, he seems so tired, and when you cal him and he let's you go few mins later, what I think of that he wants to talk to you but he is soo tired at the same time, but does he not call you ? Do you guy text each ... (read in full...)

Am I Fighting a Loosing Battle??? PLEASE READ!!

Q.   OP's own title. Ok so...Me and my now ex-boyfriend had been dating for a little over a year. He is 22 and i am 20. He is white and i am black(this alone has caused some strain with my family but not enough to break us) We broke up because I t...

A.   28 July 2010: If you love him show him you do, don't mess around with other guys right now. And don't lie to him at all, if he finds out you lied one more time he won't be able to come back, give him tme. ... (read in full...)

When I see her I get angry, when she's not around I miss her a lot. she makes marilyn monroe look like a virgin

Q.   (I have a question. It's a bit long so please bare with I.) I started going out with this girl in Jan 2008. I had known her for some time before then. Infact she had just been dumped her boyfriend. I believed in her and completely ...

A.   27 July 2010: Ok so did the baby trun out to be urs? And did she sleep with all those guys when you where together? You could of got hiv or an std. What was she thinking, but you need to leave her, hope you can but remember she will keep sleep with other men, ... (read in full...)

He's excited but I don't feel ready for this...

Q.   im 17 n my boyfriend really wants to have a baby he says he wil be there for me and everything so we started having unprotected sex and ive missed my period and have been feeling sick so im reaaal scared now and dont know what to do. i told him and ...

A.   27 July 2010: Shouldn't be trying to have a baby at 17 ... (read in full...)

I've learnt my lesson! But now I'm pregnant and don't know which man is the dad

Q.   Ok so im pregnant they tell me 8weeks, but i would like to know how do i work it it on wich day did i get pregnant? because i had intercause on different days with 2 different persons! i had the first one on 7 june and second one on 24 june my ...

A.   26 July 2010: If your 8 weeks, then you got pregnant around may 31, soo I'm not sure if any odf those guys are the father, but all you can do is do a dna test, but you got to let both of them know. Good luck. ... (read in full...)

Do I have a good penis length?

Q.   Do you think 6.75 non bone pressed is decent penis size? I increased the length with stretches (used to be 6. Here's the thing, do you think that's long enough or should I make it even bigger. I ask women for this question....

A.   26 July 2010: Its all on how you use it, not how big it is, feels like your trying to make up for something you need/want? ... (read in full...)

Does penis size determine if a woman will stay in the relationship?

Q.   Is penis size a major deciding factor on if a women will stay in the relationship, or leave?...

A.   25 July 2010: Nope, its all on how you use it, as long as you both are having good sex, ... (read in full...)

My friend is suicidal, how can I help her?

Q.   I have a friend that is depressed and lately she has mentioned even suicide. I am trying my best to help her since I am the only person that she talks to about everything. She is 30yrs old and has gone throught so much in her life, was divorced...

A.   25 July 2010: To start off, you need to get her to talk to someone, my ex bf was the same way, he felt that no one loved him, and alone. Well you tried a few times, and the last time he did do it, and it broke my heart, 15 months and I still crying and up set ... (read in full...)

Did I ruin any chances with this guy?

Q.   there is this guy i really like a lot. i literally can't think about anything else but him. a few nights ago i had been drinking at my friends' house and i called him for a sober ride home (he owed me atleast one) and he came and got me. when we ...

A.   23 July 2010: Naw not at all, maybe the reason he didn't want to come in because he didn't want anything to happen when your drunk and not remember, also he was sleepy, and he did kiss you back if he didn't feel something for you he would of pushed you away, ... (read in full...)

After three years, why would he call? And lie about it??

Q.   Last night I got a voicemail message from an ex boyfriend who disappeared on me three years ago. The message said he was "returning this call. Someone called me from this number. Thanks, bye bye." I never called him, and unless the dog has lear...

A.   21 July 2010: Wants to get in touch with you but he he is still playing hard to get. Maybe give him a call and she what is up.. And be like you called? And see where things go, unless you have a bf now. Then don't and forget about him :) good luck. ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend's half sister is sexually attracted to him?

Q.   Hello, I'll try to keep to keep the background story as detailed but short as possible (which isnt gonna work haha). I am from the UK and my boyfriend is German, we're both in our early 20s, met abroad and everything was perfect. When the time cam...

A.   21 July 2010: Wow! No don't think your wrong in saying that at all.. But that's nuts... I would move far far away. Lol well good luck to you :) keep me updated and let me know what you do :) ... (read in full...)

I'm attracted to my wife's cousin.

Q.   I've been married to my wonderful wife for 2 years now and everything has been great up until just over a week ago. My wife's cousin decided to come and visit us for a little over two weeks. When I first saw her I thought she was a moderately ...

A.   21 July 2010: So don't tell anyone, if you tell the cousin, she might think your trying to sleep with her and tell your wife, and if you tell your wife, she is going to think she needs to start looking and acting like her cousin, or you want to leave her for her ... (read in full...)

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