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writes:Ok, so i am a married man. I feel that i was pressured into getting married, and i don't have the greatest relationship. I love my wife, but i don't think i am in love with her. I met a woman, a woman with whom i work. She is amazing, and i got this feeling in my gut i haven't experienced in a long time. She is a lesbian. She is into women, but she has also expressed interest in me. What do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2010): third time lucky!
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (4 August 2010):
 If she's truly a lesbian you'r S.O.L. and should forget her
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (4 August 2010):
Go home to your wife and decide either to end the marriage or give it all you've got and make it work. Don't be so sure you're not being trapped or something.
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reader, almc  +, writes (4 August 2010):
If your not happy with your wife, you need to end it, and don't do anything with anyone else to you talk with your wife, maybe moving out and getting our own place would be better? Life is to sort to be with someone you don't love. But talk to your wife and work that out.
For other ladys, go for it, ask her out :) all she can say is no, then just go to the next one. And try new things and be happy in your life :):) good luck.
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reader, BAMMM +, writes (4 August 2010):
 Well you can either work on your relationship with your wife OR you can leave your wife and see where things go with this new woman!
I have to say though, that maybe if you settled down with the new woman, that feeling you havve in your gut will go also, and you might be in the same situation again.
Becuase once the "honeymoon period" whee you are in love and infatuated with the other person dies off, you have to WORK AT RELATIONSHIPS!
But good luck dude!!
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reader, y007steph  +, writes (4 August 2010):
Try to get closer to this lesbian woman.
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