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writes:my bf and i want to have a threesome. but neither one of us has ever done anything like that. so we arent sure where to start. or how to find another girl to do this with us. where would be a good place to find another girl?
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 August 2010):
 Oh and one more thing, if you do decide to do this, make sure YOU pick the girl. Not him. You can always put up an ad on Craigslist to find someone.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (14 August 2010):
Is there a particular reason you're doing this? If it's just for him, I definitely wouldn't do it. If he "just wants some excitement" then ask if you can invite in another man instead. It's only fair right? That would probably get that fantasy right out of his head. If he asked then it's most definitely just so he can cheat without feeling guilty. Why another girl? What do you gain from this? I know several couples who broke up after having a threesome, usually the guy pressured her into it, the jealousy took over, and a month or two later they ended. If everything is going great, why bring someone else into the bedroom? It can really only cause problems.
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reader, almc  +, writes (13 August 2010):
I wouldn't do it, a lot of shit can happen, you could fall for her, or he might, you might get something, she could get pergnant from him, could make you guys fight more, break you guys apart. I don't believe you should, but if you do best of luck.
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reader, sirbronson  +, writes (13 August 2010):
well if you have thought it through then try a couples website dedicated 2 free multiple partner parties, they notify you of a discreet location for the party n you can choose the partner of your choice. it makes it safe for all people involved. ps.condoms are required 4 this venue and they have strict guidelines.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (13 August 2010):
 I don't mean this to sound judgemental but have you really thought this through? Once a bell is rung it can't be unrung. A lot of people who have threesomes wish they haddn't because it changes their relationship. But anyway to find a girl you could put and add in a magazine or just see if you can pick someone up at a nightclub. Do lots of questioning beforehand and you'll find the right person.
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