I'm 14, and I want a baby... I really feel ready, but I'm catholic... what do I do?
Q. okay. well i'm fourteen. and i really want a baby. i had a dream about it the other nite and i was so happy adn i was shopping for stuff liek a baby blanket and a nuk, and i was so happy i just kept holding my stomach. there is a few problems. one ...
A. 29 July 2008: Cool, glad we could help! xx... (read in full...)
Why do guys say they love you and then push you away?
Q. why do guys say i love you then do things to push or keep you away?...
A. 29 July 2008: Most of them don't in my opinion.
You're just picking bad ones.
You don't give any more information so I can't give any more advice.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I tell my boyfriend that I'm not a virgin? Will he still accept me?
Q. How will I tell my boyriend that I am no longer a virgin?will he still accept me as I am? ...
A. 29 July 2008: I have no idea if he will accept you. He could be fine with it or he could go into a frenzy and tell you that you're going to hell. I've never met him and you give no information so we can't tell you.
As for how to tell him... why do you have to?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has become abusive and controlling since he found out I wasn't a virgin. Help!
Q. i need help. there are many people on this site who ask this same question: what should i do my boyfriend is controlling i dont have a life. What should i do? But see, my boyfriend of a year and a half is mentally abusive hes selfish, he goes out ...
A. 29 July 2008: You know the answer to this. You need to leave him. You need to go home and explain things to your mum and sister and they will help you.
Being alone may be scary but is this life honestly any better than that? Being alone is fine! It's not like... (read in full...)
My boyfriends birthday is coming and I have no idea what to get him-any suggestions?
Q. My boyfreinds birthday is coming out and i have no idea what to get him.He is a country boy ..I want to get him something special that he can keep and something that means something but i have no idea what that could be...If anyone has got some idea ...
A. 29 July 2008: Something you can get engraved, like a watch?
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I'm 14, and I want a baby... I really feel ready, but I'm catholic... what do I do?
Q. okay. well i'm fourteen. and i really want a baby. i had a dream about it the other nite and i was so happy adn i was shopping for stuff liek a baby blanket and a nuk, and i was so happy i just kept holding my stomach. there is a few problems. one ...
A. 29 July 2008: At 14 I had the BEST sex dreams, everything would be perfect and lovely and amazing and he would say all the right things. I really thought it meant I was ready for sex.
I didn't do it till a few years later though and guess what? It was NOTHING ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for the woman to pay for everything in a relationship?
Q. okay my boyfriend and i have been together for about three months and i just want to know if its normal for the woman to pay for almost everything. WAIT...i know what ur gonna say "hes a feeloader" "hes not worth it" But i love him with all of my ...
A. 29 July 2008: Well if you love him and are that desperate to keep him around then you aren't going to listen to this advice anyway but no it's not normal and he's sponging off you.
You can either continue paying him to love you or you can ask him to pick up ... (read in full...)
Where can you get married at 16 without parental consent?
Q. hey, well i needs some questions answered if you can help? well i need to know: were can you get married at the age of sixteen without you parents consent?...
A. 29 July 2008: You'd have to look up the laws for each state, but even if you went far away to get married and then came back, it might still mean nothing in your home state.
Marriage really should be something done on the sly these days. We are not in the midd... (read in full...)
I had unprotected sex. When should I get tested for STDs?
Q. Hi everyone! I did something stupid and now have a little problem. I kinda fell for a guy and ended up having sex with him all weekend. I usually use condoms but didn't this time and just let him pull out each time. I know it was dumb. I want to get ...
A. 28 July 2008: First off you need to get the morning after pill right now. Pulling out DOES NOT WORK!!!
If you go to a sex health clinic they will be able to advise you about all the things they would like to check you for. With HIV you can get tested now (I t... (read in full...)
How can I get my man to cry during sex?
Q. I'm just a little curious I would like to know how many men out there have actually cried during sex and why?? I want to try to get my man to cry any tips, tricks, and or advice to help me with that on a serious note I've heard about men crying ...
A. 28 July 2008: I think I'd be very worried if my guy started crying during sex.
The only suggestion I could make is to stab him with a fork.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Can you get STDs by kissing?
Q. Are there any STDs out there that you can get by kissing? I don't really understand what the different kinds of STDs are. I know about HIV since we learned about it in school......
A. 27 July 2008: Some one else has explained about cold sores. That's the one you need to worry about.
But basically if you kiss someone you are exchanging a LOT of bacteria. Mostly ones that occur in your mouth normally, but if they have a bad throat or anything... (read in full...)
He is in the army and is going on a lads' holiday, I feel I am chasing him for his company...
Q. I'm 30 weeks pregnant and im scared my boyfriend has gone off me. He used to be the one who chased me all the time now i seem to be the one chasing him. He is in the army and he gets 3 weeks off in august and is going on a lads holiday, is this ...
A. 27 July 2008: Well it could be he's going on a lads holiday as a kind of stag night... he's thinking he'll have a big blow out because once the baby comes he'll be up at 3am helping you with the feeds and be spending all his money on nappies.
A couple of weeks... (read in full...)
My husband says we are too old for sex (58), I think his love has faded, what can I do?
Q. Hi, My husband has decided not to have sex with me anymore and the only thing he will say about it is he's old (58) and I am 59, and still feel like I would like that part of my life back. he is nice to me but rarely touches me, hugs or kisses. ...
A. 27 July 2008: Well you are not too old for sex. A report out recently said that they older 70's are having more and more sex and are at risk of getting STI's as condoms were not of their time.
I don't think it means he doesn't love you, but it may mean he has a... (read in full...)
My sister-n-law lost her baby at 5 months and won't talk to anyone! How can I help?
Q. My sister-in-law just got married in January and she got pregnant in February. She was so excited and 3 weeks ago she lost the baby. She was 5 months along and her water broke and the baby had tumors on his brain. They had to induce her, but the ...
A. 27 July 2008: She's grieving and she has to do it in her own way unfortunately. However you can try to understand and to be there for her when she is ready to face the real world again.
http://www.miscarriagesupport.org.nz/grief_issues.html
This website ... (read in full...)
Am I gay for having gay sexual fantasies? Am I just confused?
Q. I'm 13 and i know im not Gay. I like women and i want to have sex with a women. When i see 2 gay people kiss i get digusted. There is this kid that's a year older than me, i think he is a slight bit gay. Sometimes when I'm just thinking about stuf...
A. 27 July 2008: You have so many hormones in your body right now that it's actually causing you to grow a foot in height and get new hair folicles.
It'd be silly to think they are not going to have some effect on your thoughts as well.
It could be that yo... (read in full...)
Why does my girlfriend keep bleeding after having sex?
Q. me and my girlfriend have just had sex and for the first time she started to bleed and plus she had pain's but after bout 20 minutes the blood so then me and my girlfriend was both horny so we tought we do it again but now she hasn't stop bleeding ...
A. 27 July 2008: Well if she's 13 to 15 like you it's probably because she's a child.
If she has not had experience of foreplay and her body has not grown fully yet then you are causing damage and can stretch things that are not ready to be stretched yet.
... (read in full...)
She says she is moving away for good, but she wants to start seeing me again. I don't understand.
Q. please help me!! i had a long distance girlfriend for 3 years and we spent some amazing time together, both deeply in love with eachother. 3 months ago, as she was finishing college she broke it off with me after about a week of silence from her...
A. 25 July 2008: I think you are setting yourself up for a fall here.
She may just want to see you to say goodbye, and to make sure there are no bad feelings before she sets off.
You did the right thing by cutting contact and I think it's a bit selfish of her t... (read in full...)
My mum is taking my stepbrother on holiday. Is she disowning me?
Q. My mum and dad are divorced and i have a new step brother who is 15. My mum seems to dislike me for some reason and i have treated her a bit unfairly over the years but she seems to act jealous of me or something. Recently she asked me to go on ...
A. 25 July 2008: I don't know what is going on in her head but I don't think she realises how much she is hurting you.
I think you need to talk to her face to face and ask her if she wants to dis-own you. Tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants to be in yo... (read in full...)
I met a guy on holiday in Greece, now he says he misses me and wants me to go back to meet up!
Q. I have been back from a holiday in Greece for a week. While I was there me and my friend got to know a local guy really well. He spoke perfect english and worked in a restaurant and a supermarket which we visited reguarly. He was older than we were ...
A. 25 July 2008: Well if you can afford to fly out and spend another week there then perhaps it is worth the risk.
What does your gut tell you? Is he after sex? Is he after a passport? Is he texting lots of other girls who come to his restaurant?
I think you a... (read in full...)
How do you tell a telemarketer that you are interested in male enhancement issues, and find out if you both are bi?
Q. is it possible to convey to an email telemarketer that you would welcome further correspondence with them about male enhancement issues, and find out if you are both oriented toward a bi persuasion?...
A. 25 July 2008: Firstly, anyone who is emailing you about male enhancement issues is trying to sell you sugar pills and rip you off.
Secondly, even if he's bi, I very much doubt you will be able to seduce him by email.
It is much more likely he will forward ... (read in full...)
Why can't a 14 yearold date but not sleep with a 26 year old?
Q. I was just wondering something. You know how they say you shouldn't see anyone who's really older than you, like in a loving way? like say you're a teen who likes or thinks you're in love with someone say in their 20's or 30's. say you're like 14 ...
A. 25 July 2008: The reason the law exists is that most men who find 14 yearolds attractive and want to have relationships with them are paedophiles.
If it really is true love as you claim then you can stay friends with him and wait till you are 18 before you star... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sweats a lot and it grosses me out! The sheets need to be changed all the time....
Q. My bf sweats a lot and sometimes it smells. The sheets need to be changed at least every 3rd night. I feel terrible sleeping on the other side of bed to him, I love him with all my heart but it just grosses me out sometimes. What do I do?...
A. 25 July 2008: Well apart from the obvious - showers, anti-persperant, etc
Is his diet healthy? Does he eat a lot of one thing like meat that could cause his sweat to smell?
If he really is sweating too much then he should go to the doctor as there are treatm... (read in full...)
I have no drive or motivation in my life so how do I turn this around?
Q. can anyone please help me? to be honest i dn't know what is wrong with me. i feel like im not happy with my life. i have no drive, motivation or get up and go, for life. i feel like i find it so hard to live a normal life, im so disorganised,...
A. 25 July 2008: It sounds like you have depression. That can cause lack of motivation and organisational skills and tiredness and make you want to stay in bed all day wondering what the point is.
I would suggest you see a doctor because they can give you somethin... (read in full...)
He never tells me that sex was great unless I ask him! Is this normal? Do guys do that?
Q. Every time after sex I tell my BF that it was awesome ... he just saiz "Thank you" ... than he is relaxing and staring somewhere in the air .. or he is staring at me or just holding me ... he never tells me that it was great unless I ask him, than ...
A. 25 July 2008: Well perhaps he is confident with you and with his abilities, so he doesn't feel the need to give you a performance review.
Why do you need him to compliment you about your sex life all the time? Are you as confident about it as you think you are?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend of over 2 years has a major problem with my casual smoking habits, is he over reacting, should I stop it?
Q. My boyfriend of over 2 years has a major problem with my casual smoking habits. He gets mad at me when I smoke cigarettes. I know it is extremely bad for my health but I rarely smoke and I like to have a few while I'm out with friends and drinking ...
A. 25 July 2008: Well, I can kind of see his point...
When you are out drinking then you like to have a smoke. When he is out drinking then perhaps he wants to snog your face off, but can't because you A) stink and B) taste of cancer.
If you have to smoke wh... (read in full...)
His mistrust issues are making things impossible!
Q. well ive been with the guy i love for a year and a month on july28. all through our relationship its been great and yeah arguments here and there! but is was never this bad and it dint really bother me! but now every time he calls my office or cell ...
A. 24 July 2008: I don't think you can. If he doesn't accept that you could be doing some work while at work then he has some serious issues.
Tell him that this is his problem not yours. If he doesn't deal with it then he is going to lose you.
I see lots of... (read in full...)
I've had sex several times and still no pleasant sensations, why?
Q. what is wrong with me? i've had sex about 7 times and i still haven't felt anything good. my boyfriend is on top and i just lay there. we also tried me on top and him behind me but it hurt for some reason. my cherry is popped so that can't have ...
A. 24 July 2008: I agree with saltwater.
You are a child and that is why your body can't enjoy it.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is it less likely to get pregnant while you're on your period?
Q. ok so me any my boyfriend have been ready for sex. we've done it a few times. i know we're ready so don't even say i'm too young. but anyways, we had sex when i was on my period. he used a ultra thin condom so guess what? it broke. and i don't know ...
A. 24 July 2008: Yuck, that must have been smelly and messy and unpleasant!
Not exactly romantic!
Go to any free family planning clinic and they will give you condoms / the pill.
You can also buy proper condoms in shops. Get your boyfriend to get his ars... (read in full...)
My boyfriend cheated, and I'm the one who ends up apologising for my jealousy! No more. Advice?
Q. boyfriend cheated on me in the past twice and begged me for his forgiveness, telling me how much he love me an all that. So i did because i do love him back. But now weve had problems with trust since then and he wanted us to have some time apart. ...
A. 24 July 2008: Yep he's walking all over you, and do you know why? Because you've lain down and written WELCOME across your body.
He's not forcing you to apologise for you jealousy, you are just trying to take some of the blame so he'll own up and take his half... (read in full...)
We talked, and it sounded like he didn't really care about me. Why are guys like this?
Q. ive just been at my bfs place and i brought up 'the talk' as he calls it which is just bringing up things about me and him like just things that are on my mind that are worrying me and things. but this time it was just how he always seems to dismiss ...
A. 24 July 2008: It sounds like he's just one of these guys who does not show affection / emotion very well. Some guys just do not like saying "I love you."
If you love him and want to stay with him you'll just have to put up with it I'm afraid.
The fact that... (read in full...)
Will I grow any more? Can I do anything about it?
Q. I'm 17 is it too late to grow? I'm 5.9 and really wanna be a bit taller I've started the gym and go every week atleast. DO you think i will get any taller? My dads about 6.2 and my mum is about 5.1 ish :S Is there anything i can do b...
A. 24 July 2008: You best bet is to ask your dad. Did he get any taller after your age?
I think 5'9'' is about the perfect height though as you are taller than most girls but not too much taller so you look picture perfect when stood together.
Good Luck!! x... (read in full...)
Being a lesbian is my worst nightmare so how do I prevent it?!
Q. So, I'm 17 years old and I'm pretty certain I'm a lesbian. When I was 12 I realised I was bi-sexual, but when I was 16 my feelings for men gradually grew distant. I wasn't happy about being bi-sexual, but I dealt with it, I even came out to ...
A. 24 July 2008: Hey sweetie.
I'm so sorry you feel this way.
If it makes you feel any better then you could just stay celibate.
You may need counselling at some point to get over your feelings if they are driving you to depression. You need to think about ... (read in full...)
I think I might be pregnant and I'm only 15!
Q. i think i might be pregnant and im only 15! i am with the person whos it will be and have been 4 9 months now. tests r 2 expensive and they dont do them 4 free any where now. what am i suspose to do? and do u think my life will be over if i have a ...
A. 24 July 2008: They do free tests at the family planning clinic and your GP can test you as well.
Your life will not be over but you will be pretty screwed for the next 20 years. Being a mum is a full time responsibility.
Go and talk to the family planning ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I still love her?
Q. i broke up with my girlfriend about 2 years ago, and i still love her but i dont know how to tell her cause we go to diff schools. thx for the help....
A. 23 July 2008: Yey! xx... (read in full...)
He called me "a mate" in a text to a friend. I'm not "a mate". I'm his girlfriend! Help.
Q. I hope someone can give me advice about this becuase I didn't sleep a wink last night for thinking about it. I was out with my boyfriend last night and we had a really good time, but something spoilt it - he sent me a text message which was for so...
A. 23 July 2008: Perhaps he typed in "I'm with my gis... girlesfm....girlfrgms" then got bored of predictive text and typed in mate instead.
You just need to ask him, you really should have asked him straight after you got it. Does he know you got it? If not then... (read in full...)
I'm bisexual and I need to know how to tell my parents.
Q. Im for sure for sure bisexual and I need to know should I tell my parents about it,they tend to be extreemly closed minded and Im not sure they will understand. My family is going through crisis after crisis and im not sure wether I...
A. 23 July 2008: It says you are 13 to 15 so you are hardly going to be bringing serious boy/girlfriends back to the house.
Don't tell them until you need to. If they are closed minded then they will probably not believe you anyway as many people think Bisexual... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is too clingly, how do I tell him to stop?
Q. hello! i love my boyfriend very very much but sometimes he can get sooo annoying and stress me out. How can i tell him to stop being sooo clingy and annoying without hurting his feelings. ...
A. 23 July 2008: You haven't said how he's clingy so it's hard to give you hints on how to be subtle.
If he calls / texts you all the time then stop answering. If he is constantly all over you then tell him you need some personal space.
You need to just exp... (read in full...)
Should I stay married to a man I NEVER want children with? He also winks at young women....
Q. I've been married for 12 years and been with him a total of 16 years. Here's what I feel. I am finally just plain sick and tired of him. I am tired of him complaining about me about what I do and don't do. I am tired of his anger. I'm tire...
A. 23 July 2008: You don't need counselling you need to kick this guy out.
You made a mistake and married the wrong guy. But from the sounds of it you have done all you can. Neither of you are happy so tell him you want out. Do you think this is how he imagined... (read in full...)
He thinks I'm on a "high horse" and that he has to knock me off!
Q. Maybe this is a cultural thing or maybe just a difference in personality thing... I'm very playful and, when I'm with my friends, guys and girls, we are all very validative of one another. Say someone looks great when they do, etc., so there's...
A. 23 July 2008: It may be a cultural thing or it may be he's an arrogant twat. He's not my ex is he?
In England a girl would never sit and say "I'm really sweet and really pretty and really clever and generally awesome, don't you agree?" We'd see that as incredib... (read in full...)
I'm receiving silent phone calls. How do I find out who is calling?
Q. this isn't really dating or anything. but today I've received 7 blocked calls of silence on my cell phone. I can hear someone and they never say anything. is there anyway I can call this person back? or find out the source or anything?...
A. 23 July 2008: This happened to me once and the best thing to do is answer it, then silently put the phone down on the table and go and make yourself a cup of tea.
It's no fun for them if they can't hear you panicking, and it'll just run up their bills. T... (read in full...)
Marriage - what is it good for?
Q. My boyfriend started talking to me about how marriage isn't very beneficial for guys. If you love the other person, what difference does a marriage certificate makes? Not having it will just make things easy when things go bad. There will be no ...
A. 23 July 2008: Some people don't need that piece of paper to show their commitment. But my extremist-atheist anti-marriage friend came to our wedding and said seeing us standing up in front of everyone we know and all our families and promising to each other to be ... (read in full...)
Weightloss pills... do they work? Which ones are good?
Q. so I've been looking to lose weight and I'm exercising and what not. but I've really been considering using dietary supplements but idk how old you have to be to purchase them from a drugstore. do you have to be 18 or can you buy them at age 15...
A. 23 July 2008: Ah the plateau! My mum hits those and gets so depressed when she starts to diet.
Basically your body strives to stay the same and not change. There is a scientific word for it but I can't remember it. So it's adapted to living with your diet and... (read in full...)
Weightloss pills... do they work? Which ones are good?
Q. so I've been looking to lose weight and I'm exercising and what not. but I've really been considering using dietary supplements but idk how old you have to be to purchase them from a drugstore. do you have to be 18 or can you buy them at age 15...
A. 23 July 2008: First of all, well done on getting healthy. Find out your healthy weight range and aim for that. Don't go too far though and make sure you are getting all the vitamins / calcium that you need as you are growing hips and breasts and all kinds of new ... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I still love her?
Q. i broke up with my girlfriend about 2 years ago, and i still love her but i dont know how to tell her cause we go to diff schools. thx for the help....
A. 22 July 2008: So what's your problem? Tell her you are still in love with her.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How do I tell my girlfriend I still love her?
Q. i broke up with my girlfriend about 2 years ago, and i still love her but i dont know how to tell her cause we go to diff schools. thx for the help....
A. 22 July 2008: Phone, email, facebook, letters.
There are all kinds of ways you can contact her and ask her to meet you. Then you can tell her face to face.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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