Do I fancy him or am I just flattered that he likes me?
Q. i have a problem my friend told me a guy i used to have a crush on liked me and was going to ask me out but he hasn't asked me out yet and i'm not sure if i like him again or if i think i like him again just because he likes me now i'm confused...
A. 7 August 2008: No it's a jelly baby joke! If you don't know what a certain flavour is then you have to choice but to suck it and find out. You may like it you may not... that's pretty much what I'm telling you to do.
Go out with the guy and find out if you like... (read in full...)
He's obsessed with sex, I'm begining to think this is all he wants..
Q. I've been with my bf for about 5 months now. When were together he wants to have sex at least 4-5 times a day. Now that my bf has been away for about a month, every time i talk to him, he keeps talking about how he cant wait to do it with me like ...
A. 2 August 2008: Yeah my hubbie is away and sometimes we have hours of conversation about sex.
But we also have hours of conversation about everything else, like how we miss hanging out and making plans and being together.
If you don't want to talk about sex t... (read in full...)
We were purely casual, so why is he mad that I got with another guy?
Q. i am 18 years old and was seeing a 19 guy for a few weeks quite seriously. then everything went a bit wrong and we stopped seeing as much of each other. he made it very clear he didn't want a relationship and so we left it casual. now he has found ...
A. 2 August 2008: I think when he said he wanted to be casual, his idea was that you and all his other girls would be at home (probably in some kind of lingerie) thinking of him all day, while he swanned about being cassanova.
He did not expect you to actually... (read in full...)
How can I explain my church to my parents - they say it's evil!
Q. hi i am an apostolic christian and my parents dont understand about this type of church. the fact we call on the holy ghost ect, we have tried to explain to her about the holy ghost and that i might speak in toungues but she thinks its evil and wont ...
A. 2 August 2008: Well speaking in tongues is a bit out there so I can understand why they might be scared of it but it is your choice which faith you follow.
Could you perhaps stay at home and worship on your own for a while? Until you are old enough to leave th... (read in full...)
Sex is terribly painful.... please tell me why?
Q. Hello all, I have a problem which has been getting me so, so down. I started sleeping with my boyfriend about a year ago and it's been agonisingly painful every single time. It's got to the point now where I'm brought to tears and really can't do ...
A. 2 August 2008: Yeah your doctor sounds a bit useless to me.
Go to another one and ask if it could be vaginismus.
http://www.nhsdirect.nhs.uk/articles/article.aspx?articleId=386
The more you keep trying the more scared you'll be and the worse it will get. S... (read in full...)
Do I tell him the truth and risk losing this or keep it to myself?
Q. My problem is really complicated, but Ill try my best to simplify it. Ok, it involves me and a boy who is 17/18. Basically, he used to be a total ass with me. Used to be nasty, give me evils (childish for a lad of his age, I know, but there you ...
A. 1 August 2008: Oh sweetie, the reason he's texting you now is because you have LOW SELF ESTEEM written across your face.
I am sure you are not ugly, but he knows you think you are will not mind being treated like crap if he says nice things by text afterwar... (read in full...)
Does she want to be with me? What's going on?
Q. I'm in love with Taylor and she has promised to be with me and ashley for a year and half now. But found out she started seeing a guy on the internet 3 months ago and i can admitt she has been distant since then. I love her and she loves me and my ...
A. 1 August 2008: Sweeite if you want a mother figure in your daughters life then get an Au Pair or a nanny.
Don't subject her to an endless parade of girlfriends. And it's hardly the greatest chat up line: "Hi, I have a daughter. Fancy taking her bra shopping... (read in full...)
Our relationship has fallen apart due to misunderstandings with his family! I need perspective!
Q. Ok Here goes, about two and a half months ago i met the most amazin guy from this online dating website and let say is name was Will* we exchanged emails and then phone numbers , when we met up finally we hit it off straight away , we then w...
A. 1 August 2008: Bloody hell, you aren't married to the guy, why do you need to be around his family so much?!
Does it really matter if you "bond" with his 7 yearold nephew? Are you really going to be spending THAT much time with the kid that you have to visit th... (read in full...)
I don't know how to get rid of my ex without hurting his feelings
Q. alright, so about a week ago, i broke up with my boyfriend of a year and four months. he is still insanely obsessed with me though! he calls me all the time, still tells me he loves me, and asks me to hang out with him constantly. it's like we never ...
A. 1 August 2008: Unfortunately you have dumped this guy. There is no way you can do it without hurting him.
Stop taking his calls. Tell him you can't hang out with him. If he says he loves you then just say "I'm sorry I don't love you, that's why I can't be with ... (read in full...)
Why do I feel old at age 21? I feel like I should have kids already!
Q. I just turned 21 and all of a sudden I feel I am geting too old. I want to start having kids, I have been watching amazing deliveries on tv. Most of my cousins already have kids and they are arund my age. I only have 2 years of college left and I ...
A. 1 August 2008: I turned 25 this year. I cried.
Having a family young is fine - as long as you are in a good place to do it and have a good job and a good man to help.
Finish college, be amazing, get a fabulous job and then when you meet your guy you can get ... (read in full...)
How do I get my mom to quit telling me to get a girlfriend?!
Q. Hi, Slightly unusual question, but how can I get mum to stop telling me to get a girlfriend? I'm 21 and never had a "serious" girlfriend yet, but this really doesn't bother me. I just simply haven't met a girl that I really like and trust yet...
A. 1 August 2008: I think the anonymous person had a good idea....
Get a girl who's a mate and get her to dress really sluttily and draw on some tattoos and put on HORRIBLE make up. Then take her round to meet your mum.
Get the friend to tell your mum how you... (read in full...)
My "friend" keeps making accusations about me. It's gone too far!!
Q. Hello. I have a lil problem right now. I have this 'friend' who has recently just started accussing me of copying her. I know this is a pretty pathetic situation, but I need some advice on what I can say to her to make her stop these accussatio...
A. 1 August 2008: What colour is your hair? What colour is her hair?
Lets say you are both blonde. Dye yours purple.
Block anyone who is harassing you, and ignore them. She obviously has some kind of issue, either with you, or it could be unrelated.
Go... (read in full...)
We were doing great until he disappeared on me! Can we still be friends?
Q. So we met last summer through some friends. He seemed really nice, he was cute, he liked MCR (which is a rarity here) and so he asked me out. We had fun and decided to go out again. This time was even better and in the end we kissed. So a few days ...
A. 1 August 2008: Perhaps his dad got hit by a car and they discovered massive cancers in his legs while they put him back together and his mum got so upset she turned into a an alcoholic drug user and beat the family up. And then his sister got pregnant and there is ... (read in full...)
Is the mistake I made big enough to justify her breaking up with me? What do you think?
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me, and I don't want it to end. Is there a chance we can get back together? Here's some background: We had been going for about 8 months. At first it was hard because she was very insecure about men because of prior...
A. 1 August 2008: This girl clearly still has issues with men and relationships.
If you really think you can handle taking emotional beatings like this every now and then, then perhaps you can convince her to take you back as she sounds like she probably would ta... (read in full...)
I was mugged and I may have internal bleeding. My boyfriend still wants to go away for the weekend?!!
Q. I got mugged and punched really hard in the stomach. The doctor said I may have internal bleeding, and to monitor how I feel. The pain has got worse so I called the doctor again who said it didn't sound good and if I started to feel dizzy etc to ...
A. 1 August 2008: Well you told him he could go! Men aren't mind readers! They are always accusing women of saying yes when they mean no and the other way around, and in this case it is true.
He might just be really dim and not realise how serious the situatio... (read in full...)
My ex won't leave me alone and threatening to tell people I have genital warts!
Q. I'm having a really bad problem with my ex, he wont leave me alone. One minute he is begging me to get back with him and that he'll do anythin the next, its he doesnt want me back cos it will effect his daughter cos she hasnt seen me for 2 mo...
A. 1 August 2008: Yep that's blackmail and by putting it on facebook it's libel and slander.
Send him this link or print out the article and tell him if she saying anything to anyone then you will take him to court.
http://techno... (read in full...)
I'm 13. My mum says I can only go as far as holding hands - what do you think?
Q. So here it is. I'm thirteen. I have a boyfriend. My mom doesn't exactly approve. She's fine with me dating but she only wants me holding hands. For my age, what is acceptable in a relationship? ...
A. 1 August 2008: Holding hands, snogging, and he might try and get his hand up your top but only let him if you feel comfortable.
She's probably thinking that if you are in a place alone where you can go any further than that then there is nothing to stop you goin... (read in full...)
Is there any way to use my hymen to avoid sex?
Q. I am 21 of years n wanna know Can hymen be somehow tightened avoiding sex for 1-2 years?Pl help!!...
A. 1 August 2008: If you are asking for ways not to have sex then the only way is just to say NO!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
How can I make my LDR less painful for the times when we are apart?
Q. I just got back from a month staying with my boyfriend overseas (we're in a strong, loving LDR, it's been two years now) and of course I'm feeling pretty emotional and depressed. I know I'll be okay without him, because I've done it before and I'm ...
A. 1 August 2008: I know exactly how you feel. There are 50 days and 12 hours till I next see my husband so when you talked about the countdown and holding pattern I understand completely.
I respect the fact that you don't want to take his money from him but this... (read in full...)
He's keeping photos of his Ex girlfriend. Why?
Q. hi im 24 years old and im in this relationship with my boyfreind for a couple of months and i discovered in his email and as well on his computer pictures of his ex they were all over i spoke to him about it and i told him to get rid of them and ...
A. 1 August 2008: It's only been a couple of months, I don't think you can demand that he wipes his entire dating history off his computer just yet.
Put yourself in his shoes. Imagine you and he went out for ages and everything was great but eventually it came to ... (read in full...)
Tender nipples? I'm sure I'm not pregnant but....
Q. I've been a little confused for the past week or so as i've had extremely tender and almost sore nipples. I recently came off the pill (the POP) and thought this may be the reason why, yet all of my internet research suggests that breast tenderness ...
A. 1 August 2008: Check the leaflet that came with your pills. Most of them will protect you from the first day but some won't.
To be honest I've been having a similar problem but not as severe.
Could it be something to do with the fact that it's been stupid... (read in full...)
Super sensitive clitoris after orgasm - is this normal?
Q. Hello all! I'm not sure if this really is a problem, but all i'm trying to understand is: does a girl's clitoris remain too sensitive after an orgasm??? I've realised that every time after an orgasm when my bf rubs my clit again i feel a little pain ...
A. 1 August 2008: Oh god yes this is normal. Think about what you have put your poor little clit through to get to orgasm. It needs a break.
Some men have the same problem with their penis.
Just leave it be for a few minutes till you can calm down and then yo... (read in full...)
Was she playing hard to get?
Q. Is it a good sign that my ex girlfriend asks me to go shopping with her and we're having lunch with eachother. Me and my ex girlfriend were together for a year and a half and we did everything together but I got drunk at her prom and embrassed he...
A. 1 August 2008: It could be that she is playing hard to get. It could be that she is just testing the waters to see if she can forgive you and forget what happened.
Or it could be that she feels bad about making you hurt and wants to be friends with you.
... (read in full...)
Trouble adapting to a new school and coping with the nasty comments!
Q. hi. ive recently moved from the US to the UK and i started school just a while ago. when i got to school on my first day everyone was friendly and nice however after school the most popular girl in school overheard my mum complaining about how there ...
A. 1 August 2008: Oh sweetie, I'm sorry it's started like this.
Yes, here in the UK we think Beauty pagents are not good. However, jsut because one so called Popular girl has made comments it doesn't mean everyone hates you.
Why not just go over to someone who l... (read in full...)
My wife says she wants to split up, how can I get her to give us another chance?
Q. Hi,I am 41 years old and my wife is 40.We have 7 children and been together for 24 years,20 of those married. Over the last couple of years it has been tough going,I would work all day,kids would play her up after school,I would come home and moan...
A. 1 August 2008: I'm afraid that in her mind you have probably had lots of chances.
The accusations and the lack of change have probably built up into a huge ball of resentment.
You need to do something spectacular to prove that you love her and can change a... (read in full...)
He won't get tested with me! Is he hiding something?
Q. Hi. We've been together with my boyfriend for a year now. Problem is, i've asked him to get tested with me but he says that he's not yet ready!!! Could'nt believe it either... Actually it shocked me. My mom knows that i wanted to go and test with ...
A. 1 August 2008: Well you should go and get tested and then tell him that it's fine for him to wait if he is scared. You can just stick to kissing and holding hands until he is ready.
He's probably scared that it may come back positive for something or he may see ... (read in full...)
To break up or not to break up... that is the question...
Q. I am no longer in love with my boyfriend. We've been together for 4 years and we're about to go on vacation with about a dozen friends. Do I wait until after vacation (2 weeks from now) or do I just end it and have a good time?...
A. 1 August 2008: Don't break up with him till after.
You don't have to lie to him about it but if you broke up and then went on holiday then it will ruin it for all your friends as it's going to be very political and they'll have to take sides.
It's not fair... (read in full...)
This has been eating away at me for years! I found a video of my brother having sex with my sister's husband!
Q. Please advice. This I something that happened years ago and it has been eating me inside! I found a video of my brother having sex with my sister's husband. It was a complete and absolute shock! I literally ran away from it and haven't mentione...
A. 1 August 2008: I think you need to talk to your sister's husband and your brother first. You need to know all the facts and give him a chance to tell his wife or explain.
Once you have done that and found out what went on then you can go to your sister if they ... (read in full...)
My husband betrayed me and has no excuse, what to I do?
Q. Hi there, just wondered if there is anyone out there been through what I am going through now. I have been with my husband for 10yrs and we have 5 gorgeous kids, the youngest 4mths old. Whilst I was pregnant with her I discovered he had been having ...
A. 1 August 2008: If it wasn't for the kids and the baby I'd be telling you to call a taxi and get out of that marriage as fast as you could. He had absolutely no excuse to do what he did to you.
I am sure there are support groups for this kind of thing and I re... (read in full...)
Do I fancy him or am I just flattered that he likes me?
Q. i have a problem my friend told me a guy i used to have a crush on liked me and was going to ask me out but he hasn't asked me out yet and i'm not sure if i like him again or if i think i like him again just because he likes me now i'm confused...
A. 1 August 2008: No one can tell you how you feel sweetie.
Suck it and see!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I never believed in online dating till I met this girl and fell in love...but does she love me back?
Q. Will online relationship work? This may sounds childish or ridiculous but I hope someone can advice me because I am getting confused. I met a girl online. I know her for few years. We have great time chatting online. Until she went vacation,...
A. 1 August 2008: It sounds like her love may be fading and you have to continue treating her as a real girlfriend and if it's not working out or she's changed then you need to talk to her about it and possibly split up.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Is he stringing me along with all his talk about being scared of commitment?
Q. we talk about almost everything and we get along really well. weve been together for about10 mths and he wont come to my house as i live with my parents and he doesent feel ready. i feel like were best friends and i love him in that way. im ...
A. 1 August 2008: He has strung you along but now he's been honest and said he can't be with you.
If you think you can be friends with him and get over him then take him at that and do it.
If you think you will struggle then tell him you need to cut contact for ... (read in full...)
How can I get a boy to ask me out?
Q. there is this boy that I REALLY REALLY like I've liked him for a while now. I started to like him because I thought he liked me. He was flirting with me and stuff. I see him checking me out and he calls me "baby". When i emailed him he didnt reply. ...
A. 1 August 2008: Sweetie if he's stopped talking to you then I think it's safe to assume he doesn't like you like that.
You have to take your friends advice and move on. You can't wait forever.
If you really want proof then why not ask him out yourself? It's 2... (read in full...)
She's abusive. What should I do?
Q. My girlfriend is 19 and i am 15. Recently we have been argueing lots because i went around to her house and found mens cloths and used condoms all over her place. So i asked her what was going on and she said she has had a few mates over for a ...
A. 1 August 2008: Are you the same 15 yearold who is going out with a 19 yearold who keeps demanding babies and gifts?
Why are you with this woman? She's walking all over you and treating you like crap.
Dump her and never see her again!
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
I texted my ex happy birthday and he didn't even reply. Why would he just ignore me?
Q. Hello, I hope someone can help me. I feel I have no-one I can talk to about this and its churning around in my head. My ex and I split up some months ago and since then we have had very little contact. today was the first birthday he has had since ...
A. 1 August 2008: Perhaps he is so incredibly pissed that your message and the 15 other happy birthday messages have been received and understood, but not replied to yet as that takes time and effort.
Stop stressing, he's your ex, you shouldn't be letting him chur... (read in full...)
Are tampons or pads better for periods?
Q. Hey I was wondering r tampons or pads better for periods? I was going to try using a tampon for the first time, but the instructions said only use it if it's a moderate period. I happen to be having a heavy period. I'm afraid to use tampons though, ...
A. 31 July 2008: Tampons are far better for keeping all the nasty stuff inside.
It hurt me a little bit the first time I put one in as I didn't know what I was doing and was trying to push straight up and not backwards towards my tail bone.
But once I got the h... (read in full...)
She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?
Q. Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...
A. 31 July 2008: Well if you really are working hard for these things then she has no excuse.
Since she is 19 and you are underage then you can tell her to give the stuff back or you are going to the police to report her as a sex offender. If you have done any... (read in full...)
Even if I tell her cheating is not my intention, she insists that I am lying and that I ought to just "confess" and she'll forgive me!?!!
Q. I'm seeing a woman whom I feel that I want to spend the rest of my life with, the problem is, she doesnt trust me as far as she can throw me. If I contact any other women whom she isn't familiar with, she accuses me of cheating on her, and she won't ...
A. 31 July 2008: I'd just start making jokes of it so she sees how ridiculous she is being.
When she next accuses you then tell her that "yes, I took her to the ritz hotel in Paris after flying there by hot air balloon and we made love to the sound of the london s... (read in full...)
I want to re-kindle things with my ex, but she isn't interested. On top of this, another ex is wanting me back and I can't say no. Help!
Q. what does this mean? ok me and my ex girlfriend (2 years ago) ended badly but we went through everything together like a misscarriage , holiday . and this year i got back in contact with her shes still fit as hell. i got with a girl wh...
A. 31 July 2008: Well you can't string them both on seeing which one will have you.
Learn to say no. You are being horrible and are going to cause hurt if you don't.
Since you seem more interested in your old ex I would tell your new one that you have moved o... (read in full...)
Another ten with an Am I Pregnant question?
Q. I'm 16 and I think I may be pregnant. My last period started on June 22, 2008. I had unprotected sex on July 5th, 2008.it is july 30th and I still have not got my period. A few days after we had sex I had blood spotting but only for a day or 2.now I ...
A. 31 July 2008: Babies don't get put in foster homes for very long. There are hundreds of couples who want a baby, just not many that want older kids.
Juno is not a good basis to make a decision on. It is fiction. It was not a documentary.
And you could have l... (read in full...)
The guy I like is five years older than me and flirts a lot, what do I do?
Q. here it is. I am falling in love with the guy who is 20, and I am 15, well the age difference isnt my biggest conserne. what realy makes me sad, that he is a very cocky person, he isnt mean to me, and doesnt put me down, but i see him do that with...
A. 31 July 2008: He's not bad, he just likes flirting and doesn't realise that doing it with girls your age can cause crushes like yours.
You need to avoid him and flirt with some guys your own age. Fine someone to distract you.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Why is everyone I love leaving me? My mum's so upset, it's making me worse!
Q. Hya, my name is Jodie, i was just wondering if you could help me. You see i don't know what to do, as i've just recently come out of a relationship that i wanted to be in my whole life, and i'm tryin my hardest to get over him. But now i have my mum ...
A. 31 July 2008: You've got some good advice so far so I will just add to it.
Go and find a cd or something of I will survive and put it on really loudly, then get your mum and dance.
It'll make you both feel better and endorphins will be released as you ... (read in full...)
She says she will leave me if I don't buy her gifts. So should I continue to buy her more things?
Q. Hey I am 15 and i have a girlfriend who is 19. She has a job and lives with her parents. I am in school my girlfriend scemms to like me for all the things that i buy her. I have been buying her iPods and laptops and all that. At the mom...
A. 31 July 2008: I'm guessing you are either dealing drugs, or that daddy pays for everything.
Either way she's sponging off you. Tell her you need to borrow the lap top / ipod and then keep them and dump her.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
Another ten with an Am I Pregnant question?
Q. I'm 16 and I think I may be pregnant. My last period started on June 22, 2008. I had unprotected sex on July 5th, 2008.it is july 30th and I still have not got my period. A few days after we had sex I had blood spotting but only for a day or 2.now I ...
A. 30 July 2008: Get another test.
Job done.
Good Luck!! xx... (read in full...)
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