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writes:My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years, with him living abroad for the last two and a half. It had been really tough him being away and we have been through some real up and downs but now he is coming back and we are closer than ever and I have been feeling so happy. I recently went to my friend’s wedding and was chatting some of the evening with a guy who I have met a few times. I had been drinking all day as you do at weddings and everyone was very merry but all of a sudden I started to feel very very drunk and was really sick, I of course then had to leave so ordered a cab, this guy walked me to the cab which i did not ask him to but was so drunk (all of this memory is very hazy) but I do remember turning round to say goodbye and before I knew what was happening this guy was kissing me full on the lips, it took me one second to realise what was happening and pulled away. I am feeling horrendously guilty as I had no intention of kissing this guy and was the furthest thing from my mind as all I want to do is enjoy the new found closeness with my boyfriend. Please help as I don’t feel like I can talk about this with anyone and am torturing myself with guilt. I don't think I could ever tell my boyf this, not now anyway, but have I done anything wrong?
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2010): Thanks very much for your replies, they have made me feel better and not so guilty. I am not going to tell my boyf as I don't see what can be acheived. In future I am going to be careful about how much alcohol I drink and to not give the wrong impression, although all I remember talking about was music... and I did want a snog at the end of the evening but with my boyfriend!
Have a good day to you all
Seren
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reader, Isa123  +, writes (18 April 2010):
 It wasn't your intention. You didn't mean to cheat. You immediately took action after you realized what was happening. You stayed loyal to your boyfriend.
As for telling your boyfriend. Do YOU think it's necessary? Can you live with (out) the guilt?
Good luck to you sweetie.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 April 2010):
The man kissed you, and you pulled away. You didn't cheat, and didn't do anything wrong I don't think.In the future, be careful how much you drink. you don't want to make a mistake. For now, accept this other guy kissed you and that you pulled away. You didn't do anything wrong.
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