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writes:I'm sorry this is long guys. but i really need help. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 5 months. and he just recently left for college.....to another state. before he left...we were fighting about some girl he's been talking to. They're both goin to the same school and they met at orientation and have been talking for about a month. When i read his text msgs, to me it seemed like he was flirting with her. i let it slide once or twice...but the third time i couldnt help but get upset. i told him i didnt like it. but hes the flirty and outgoing type and he does it without realizing it. i thought he would feel bad and would stop talking to her at least. but instead he starts talking to her again 2 days ago and he also told me that shes gonna be one of his closest friends in college. Just today, i went on his facebook account, because i was bored, and he told all his friends "I FUCKING LOVE COLLEGE, I DONT THINK UGLY GIRLS GO TO COLLEGE".....idk how to feel about this. should i stay with him? stay friends? or keep ignoring this. actually....i dont think i can ignore these things :/ please help.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 The thing he wrote on facebook has a sentence structure error. They are broken phrases thrown in together in an awkward way. He's ignorant to think this is something cool to say. The pretty girls are in college just for his entertainment and the ugly ones don't exist and can go to hell. He could have said, "I love college because there are many beautiful girls." But no, he has to use the word "ugly." That shows how negative he is towards women. His school should be ashamed that they accepted him. You can tell he's in school for fun. Whether you are 30 or 20, this guy is too immature for you. He doesn't show signs that he's ready for committment and you shouldn't feel the need to fight for an idiot. Can you really be friends with someone who thinks so lowly of women? If he were to say this in a forum/blog, he would be attacked by so many.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (2 September 2010):
 Sounds to me like you are going to have a hard time with this guy. If he wants to be with you then you won't have to push him into it. If you have to fight for him from a distance it may be just better to let him go and see if he comes back to you. Im guessing you are aged between 18 -25. If he's going out for fun then i suggest you do the same. Hope this helps
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