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writes:A girl I was pursuing blocked me at whatsapp but not at facebook and later four five days passed and she unblocked me suddenly. Why?Little background :I met this girl and she thought I was weird at first and later, she asked me for a coffee together! I did go and at cafe, she told me she finds me very different from her first perspective she had! and she was impressed!well, I ignored her for two days on weekend as I wanted her to be the one who texts me first and she didn't! I always initiated conversation. I texted her friend about some coursework on that weekend I ignored her and I was blocked then half an hour later! Later she didn't come to university for 10 days and in that time, I was blocked! I texted her by sms like 10days ago if she is fine and she didn't reply! Then l didn't contact her on phone because I didn't want to come as needy! I know she is busy with a marriage in her family n exams which ended today! I was unsure why she did it(block and then unblock) because we were getting along really well! should. I ask her or ignore her completely? I haven't met her till yet on campus although I found her looking at me! what do you suggest as I like that girl!
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reader, llifton  +, writes (19 March 2013):
 i think this girl is immature! she expected you to call or text after your date, and when you didn't, she acted like a child. she sounds like more trouble then she's worth. not to be harsh. but she's pouting and acting like a baby over this. not a good sign she knows what a normal, healthy relationship is. i could definitely predict her doing this down the road if you were to get together when she doesn't get her way. she sounds immature and needy.now you, on the other hand, didn't have to ignore her for the weekend. i understand you were trying to play it cool. however, she had already expressed interest in you and then you disappeared on her. don't play games in the future. don't be obsessive. but don't disappear.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (19 March 2013):
I don't know what to say about this girl, but in the future I suggest that you quit playing games. Women like to be pursued, so if you don't show them any interest its going to work out how it did for you.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 March 2013):
 she asked you out and found out you were not what she expected.....
you played a game (ignoring her because you wanted her to text first is GAME PLAYING)
if you like her and want to date her then find her and tell her otherwise just forget it and chalk it up to experience...
the blocking and unblocking sounds childish too... are either of you ready to have a mature relationship?
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