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writes:So my girlfriend and I have been together 3 years, us both being lesbians. She's a Scorpio and I'm a Cancer. My issue is she's a very guarded person. And when she's going through things she doesn't like to talk about it or even talk to me. Which always leaves me feeling abandoned or rejected. And when we do talk she really hates talking about her past, which schools she attended and graduated....what state/city she was born in. To be honest she hate personal questions about her past. All I know is she's a military brat that travelled like 5 states and she's divorced. I've met her dad n sisters. I try not letting her past worry me bc I don't know if worrying is appropriate. I'm very open with her I tell her all things. I notice when I press for her to open up she shuts down n may eventually get upset with me if I don't let it go. She doesn't like showing she's hurt, embarrassed, or confused. I really need advice as to whether this being a zodiac issue or some serious trust issue.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 November 2012):
 No it is not a Zodiac sign. This is who she is and there is obvious some reason why she is so guarded. I would imagine she has trust issues and she hates talking about her past, am guessing this is down to self esteem issues. I guess she finds it very hard to let people in and difficult to talk to people about herself. This is no doubt due to issues that she has been faced with in the past.
Please do not take this on a personal level as I am sure it is not. I guess this confuses you as you are opposite to her and you like to share your past experiences with her. You need to look after yourself therefore you need to ask yourself is this relationship for you and sit down and talk to her about how you feel. Good luck.
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