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writes:we were college sweet hearts. Every where i went, he was there. so, we dated, graduated college. He was my first. Then i got pregnant, on purpose. We got married and moved together. We had arguments and stupid fights. He walks out on me and an infant. We got divorced in less than a year. He would come and see his child. We ended up seeing each other, having casual sex for almost two years. I became his mistress being that he moved on with someone else. I told her about it. He argued with me. That's when i decided to move on. She called to tell me that he confessed to it. I even changed my phone number to avoid his calls. He disappeared for almost a year. I saw a picture of her and she is my identical!! On her lap was an infant who turns out to be my ex new child. He is back on the scene without missing a day of visitation. I told him i know of his new child. He expressed his feeling of failure, and time missed with our child. He said that he was happy with me. His child mom yells at him a lot. He said she's worst than me. One day i was serving myself food, i felt someone behind me and it was him. He grabbed my had and took the spoon off my hand, turned me around and said he missed me. Then, he kissed me. I felt like that 22 year old in his arms again. Lately, I've been resisting his approaches. I have a feeling he lives with her. I still hold grudges. Should i keep resisting or give in? I want to savour him again.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 November 2012):
 Well I wish you both the best of luck, I hope it works out for you and you can trust him enough to be committed to you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioncont. he promised to be the husband and father he planned to be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionNo i don't think so. He just gave me an engagement ring right in front of her eyes. she started to yell and swear at us. he asked her to forgive him. i was speechless but deep inside i am in disbelief.. we went to our church priest where my ex asked for forgiveness. he gave me copies of his pension where he named me his full beneficiary. as well as the down payment for a five bedroom house. omg. he also gave proof of an order of protection he placed on that other woman. I guess we were made for each other. he asked for my forgiveness as well. he spoke to my family. family and promised to
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (6 November 2012):
I totally understand that you don't care about this woman, in fact you are probably bitter towards her because she is with the man you still feel you love. But he will only be using you for sex, not love and I suggest to you that this is not the right path to go down because you will only get hurt and be hurting a lot more people in the process. Is it fair to the guy you are seeing if you go around sleeping with someone else as well? Would you like to be treated like that? Yes it is your choice off course, I just hope you decide with your head.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 November 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI honestly dont care about her. If i resist, my decision will be based on anything else but her. I dont know what to do because i still love him. I alse started another relationship but it always thought about him. One dae he told me about his first sexual encounter with her. He swore all that time he thought it was me. I didn't believe him until i had sex with this guy i dated. I had to open my eyes and look at him to con ince myself it wasnt
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (3 November 2012):
No I think in this case you should resist, he has proven in the past that he is a cheat and he cannot be trusted, he has a family at home just remember that, do you want to become a home wrecker? But yourself in his girlfriends shoes. I know he probably is hard to resist but if he is someone you are actually really serious about and you want to make things work with him and you actually think you could trust him then say that to him, but he has to pick either he is with you or his other girlfriend, his choice, please do not sleep with another woman's man, as it is just a horrible thing to do. Good luck.
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