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36-40,
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writes:Ok so my child's dad has a new girlfriend I have decided to accept it and move on as long as he takes care of business I just moved to his area staying with my aunt until my place comes through the end of spring and job searching before i move so he can be close to his child great right so now his girl is on twitter stalking me and her entire page is dedicated to me if I'm nothing but a baby mom and all these other things why is she so concerned about what I'm doing and how I'm doing it?? I honestly want to know what her deal??
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 February 2013):
Do you really need to know WHY she's doing something annoying or just how to stop it? I realize you feel that she's setting you up to be the drama laden baby mama... if you are not who she wants/needs you to be then ignore her.
she may need you to be the bad guy here... it may be her insanity that says "a good man never leaves his woman with his child" and the fact that HER man did that means he's not a good man (to her) ...so to make herself feel better about her choice... she has to make you out to be the bad guy... that's my initial thought on it.. I could be way off base...
I don't know twitter but if you can block her do it.... no need to deal with her insanity...
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (20 February 2013):
 She feels threatened by your moving back. Some women believe if you have the child you have the man (this is not true but hey, some people believe anything).
IF you are feeling threatened take screen shots of her page, in fact take screen shots of it anyway, you may need it sometime in the future.
Good luck with it, she is probably young and clueless and totally committed to holding on to her boyfriend, at all costs. If it looks like the cost is going to affect your child then step in and do something.
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