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anonymous
writes:My girl had to douch before we had sex for the first time after I got home from prison...and she tried to hide it from me that she did it. Does this mean she slept around recently before I got home...why else would she douch and hide it from me? Reply to this Question
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (10 March 2017):
 Wow what a catch you are, you don't trust your girlfriend and you are just back from prison, I really don't understand why she has waited around for you.
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reader, jls022  +, writes (2 March 2017):
For the exact same reason you might have chosen to shower and clean your penis before you had sex with her - for freshness!
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reader, Andie's Thoughts +, writes (1 March 2017):
 You need to focus on being a good citizen after being an inmate, not being suspicious of your girlfriend for cleaning herself!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2017): She may have hidden it for two reasons: a) she was afraid you'd assume she was cheating while you were away and she didn't want the confrontation, or b) she may have thought she was being polite: I would "hide" pads/tampons wrapped up neatly in the trash or the unused ones in a drawer or somewhere. Maybe she figured you didn't want to see it. I don't think she cheated.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (1 March 2017):
 She probably wanted to feel extra FRESH for you. And she didn't WANT you to know because she wants you to think she ALWAYS is that "fresh".
When, why and where she douches is really none of your business. That is HER personal hygiene choice.
It has nothing to do with cheating or sleeping around.
Compare it to someone who likes to BRUSH their teeth before kissing someone. They want to smell and taste good. So her douching was her way of making sure she smelled and tasted good JUST for you.
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