Why does he not want to chat with me anymore? He said he'd marry me but then started talking about sex all the time, since then I've hardly heard from him!

A female age 36-40, anonymous writes:

DC, I had a crush on a guy for close to four years; we flirted, and then when we(me) finally opened up, he told me he had a girlfriend, that he loves and would marry one day. He said we could only be friends..but he immediately offered to hang out with me for lunch or dinner. I quietly ignored that request as I could not understand what we would talk about over the meal(I was still heartbroken). A few months later, we continued chatting on facebook as before. However, almost all he chatted about was sex. I got unhappy as I could not understand his intentions, and because it would turn me on. Infact he enjoyed insinuating that it turns me on, which I found very cruel!I told him to stop chatting with me on sex topics. He apparently did not take it well, and has altogether stopped responding to a couple of messages I sent him on FB. Two days ago, he was desperate, needing help for something..he looked for me, and I did it for him. He wrote back on FB; "Thanks, You are the Best", and I said "thanks, too". My question is, why does he not want to chat or be my friend anymore, did he ever like me..why did he ever flirt with me? I feel very sad because I miss him. Thanks.

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