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writes:Heya, this may sound silly as partly it's my own fault but just so fed up. Right it all started with my ex. He used to make out I was lucky to be with him, he use to say things like:"You should be grateful I'm with you because no one else would" and far more insulting remarks too nasty for this site.After being with him a year I stupidly believed all these things, then he cheated. We have now been split for about a year and I am much happier but every boy I get close to or like always blows me off. I don't know If it's the way I'm acting or the impression I get off but it's really getting to me, as I feel alone and feel I'm never going to be truly happy with someone, Can anyone suggest something to maybe help me ???
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reader, Aspie +, writes (22 June 2012):
 It's a little hard to say if it's you or them without knowing you more, but one would wonder if you could perhaps ask friends or others you know to be honest with you if there is anything wrong with you.
Perhaps consider talking to yourself in the mirror and/or acting how you'd act around a guy to see if you notice anything particular yourself.
Who knows, maybe a friend knows a guy who you could talk to and ask him to maybe 'give you feedback', sort of thing.
"I feel alone and feel I'm never going to be truly happy with someone"
You are still young, and so you undoubtedly have many many more years ahead of you to find someone... ;)
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (21 June 2012):
 HI
I think you just have very low self esteam and no wonder why with your awful ex. I think you may be giving off a vibe that your not worthy of them, and trust me there is nothing more off putting than someone always putting themself down, As hard as it is right now, i think you should take time out for yourself, get some self esteam back, get the power back, then you will give off a very different vibe of being a strong , independant woman, theres nothing better than that.
Mandy x
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