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female
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anonymous
writes: My boyfriend has been sending dirty texts to other girls and he knows that I know. Why do guys send dirty message to other girls if they're in a relationship?
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): Just dump him because dating someone who has no respect for you can have a very negative impact on you.
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female
reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (15 November 2012):
 Men that are committed to their partners and their relationships DO NOT send texts to other women.
Your boyfriend is a dog. He does not respect you nor does he care about your feelings... it's all about him.
consider leaving him sooner rather than later...
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reader, Zaaleena +, writes (15 November 2012):
Agreed with everyone else on here - he does not respect you and you can definitely do without.
*Hugs*
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): We do it when we wish to be single. So do him a favour and grant him his wish.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (15 November 2012):
 Guys in general do not do this, sorry. This is your boyfriend specifically who is doing this, not guys in general. So the question is, why does your boyfriend do this? Why can't he stay faithful? Why does he not respect you?
The answers to these questions might never be known to us, but there real question is: are you going to accept this?? Because other women would walk. There's nothing you can do about it, if he doesn't respect you then that's a flaw of him, not of you, and he will not make you happy when he cannot respect you. He is also cheating, because cheating is anything you do behind your girlfriends back that you can't say to her face. He is cheating on you.
Who cares WHY he's doing it. The thing you should care about is whether or not you should tolerate this, or leave. Do you have self respect, or not?
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reader, oldbag  +, writes (15 November 2012):
 Hi
They don't normally, you just happen to be dating a disrespectful and immature bloke who thinks he is single.
How would he feel if you were texting the same to lads? You wouldn't do it I bet.Ask yourself why you wouldn't.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2012): Not all guys do that. Mine doesnt. Nor did my ex husband. Your boyfriend is not typical of all men. Most men are gentlemen and would not behave that way. I think you have just been unlucky and found one that not only enjoys texting sleaze to other women but doesnt care how that makes you feel. Hes not a keeper, sorry x
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reader, Hennessy1989 +, writes (15 November 2012):
 The fact that he knows you know and carries on makes this even worse, he shouldn't be doing this, just because he's texting doesn't necessarily mean he would have sex behind your back, but this is wrong, if he loved and respected you he wouldn't do this, your better off without
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reader, Starlights +, writes (15 November 2012):
 Because he is disrespectful and has low moral standards.
You should definately *not* take his behaviour as *normal* because not all guys do that!
Some guys know how to treat a lady and your guy is not one of those.
You obviously cannot trust him as he will continue to do it, despite whatever he says.
Goodluck!
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