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anonymous
writes:When you have an orgasm, does it feel like you're going to pee? like I mean when I'm with my guy, it feels like im going to pee and even when he's doing oral stuff on me.. i feel like im going to pee, is that normal?im afraid I will so I always stop him, so i've never had one before.. will I go pee? im so confused and upset.. HELP
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reader, penguin64  +, writes (3 October 2008):
oh my gosh i feel exactly the same!!!! and always stop them. cause i get so confused! but then i feel really awkward like ive ruined the moment. :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): I've heard that it often does feel like this, so I doubt that there's anything wrong with you honey! However, I must admit, I've never experienced this myself when I am having an orgasm or coming close to an orgasm.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): Wow there are a lot of uninformed people answering questions. Like a few said it maybe the beginning of female ejaculation. It is not pee but a clear fluid that will be released. So don't worry about it and just enjoy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 March 2008): From what I have heard, if your feeling like your going to pee, then you might just be getting ready to do that. As mentioned, go pee before having sex.
I had a video where it was shown that women have a very small prostate, and not sure if it is called the same thing, but it functions just like a male prostate, and this is one spot you can oragasm. The clitorus is actually a small penis. If during intercourse, the penis is rubbing against the uretha, which in some women makes them pee.
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reader, Cindy303  +, writes (31 March 2008):
 The sensations you feel are what I think are normal. I know that I go through similar feelings when we are making love. I have learned to empty by bladder before we start having sex. Your body is going through so much when you start to get to that climax stage and you should enjoy the entire experience and not stop him. I think that your just worried that something could happen. It wont. It sounds pretty normal. Best Wishes, Cindy
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reader, MissKin + ♥, writes (30 March 2008):
 I disagree with Natasia btw. It is normal for quite a few women to feel this way and u don't need to see a doctor.
I feel this way quite often during sex, when masturbating i never felt this way but during sex I do. You've just gotta push past it. there's nothing wrong with you. It's just a weird sensation and it's normal to be worried when you feel it that you're actually going to pee because when i feel it i sometimes feel like i won't be able to control it. But really it's unlikely that you'll be and if you do, it'll only be a tiny bit - especially if you use the bathroom before hand - and he'll hardly be likely to notice.
The more upset you get the more paranoid it'll make you and the more you'll feel like you really are going to urinate. So you just need to relax, enjoy what's happening and believe that you're not going to okay?
Gud luck, take care x
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reader, DoubleM + ♥, writes (30 March 2008):
 It is fairly common for many women to feel something very similar to an urge to pee when getting close to an orgasm. Not all women experience it the same way, but it represents preparation for the release associated with an orgasm. If you feel worried about it, take a leak just prior to sexual activity, rinse, then let your lover give you good oral. Go right on past that urge and allow yourself to release and enjoy your first orgasm. It is extremely unlikely that you will pee. Then the next time you approach an orgasm, you will begin to learn that it is different than actually needing to urinate. You will no longer be confused, and there is no reason to be upset about this sensation.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 March 2008): Many women describe the feeling as "needing to pee." Its probably the feeling of female ejaculation- its not pee. Try using the restroom before you start with your guy and then if it happens, you are probably just coming close to orgasm and/or female ejaculation. But if you're concerned about it, try asking your doctor or doing some online reserch on the topic.
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reader, natasia +, writes (30 March 2008):
 I don't know - it sounds like maybe your clitoris is being pressed too hard. It's close to the area you feel when you want to pee, and perhaps yours is particularly sensitive. I think you should go and ask your doctor, because no, it's not usual to feel like that so strongly that you actually think you're going to pee. Worth being checked out. Good luck.
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