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writes:im really hurt and angry as the guy i thought was a close friend has turned out to be a total user and i dont know what to do. hes borrowed money too many times to mention-always gives a sob story, then forgets about this. ive practically paid for lunch and coffee at work for the past 2 years-him maybe once. hes always on sex chat sites and seems to get enjoyment from me hearing him speak to girls on the hpone or showing me texts they send. hes also a huge liar and has been lying to me for the last 2 years. hes also in debt but its the lies as ive been nothing but straight with him-saved him getting sacked-the financial help etc and hes treated me like shit. we had a huge row the other day about his lies and he just said fine youre a work colleague from now on. i was fuming as he really showed himself to be a lying ungrateful jerk, now hes got away with it though and acts coky and thinks hes great and even criticises my work now. i feel like a used rag. my manageress whos a good friend knows hes a liar and a couple of my good friends do too. they said i tried to see the good in someone that wasnt there and that in a while he'll come sliming back when hes in need. i need good advice how to get over this and show him hes not won :(
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reader, Hugh.J +, writes (10 November 2011):
 If your manageress and other colleagues know he is a fraud, you need do nothing - they will soon freeze him out and that isolation is your best revenge.
If you try to do anything, it will show that he matters to you: NOT what you want.
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